Family & Relationships - 15 December 2006

My husband and I love each other so much but since we got married in Sept., he's been different. He gets angry so much easier and sometimes can be voilent without meaning to be. When I try to confront him or talk to him about it he either gets angrier or he withdraws from me. How can I get him to talk about what's bothering him without him doing either of those things and more importantly how can I get him help without seeming like I think he's psycotic?

2006-12-15 20:57:17 · 11 answers · asked by Amber And Josh W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have just recently moved into a new area and I am keen to make new friends and increase my social circle.

Can you advice me the best way to go about this. I would really want to meet new people face to face rather than creating a rapport over the internet.

Thanks

2006-12-15 20:55:06 · 6 answers · asked by Manjinder C 1 in Friends

do i sound dumb to you cuz like all the boys r mean because im not that smart ND I AM BLOND but not all blondes r dumb....do you like dumb blondes?

2006-12-15 20:54:43 · 2 answers · asked by HKlover 2 in Singles & Dating

Does he have me wrapped around his little finger or what?


Or was it a slip of the tongue and it doesn't mean anything?

He told me to bring his stuff to him after work. He has already asked me to say good bye to him every night. And I do. Am I under his spell or what?

And what's his position in all this...just friends or what?

2006-12-15 20:54:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i approach a girl on facebook(it is a site like myspace).......wat kind of message should i send her

2006-12-15 20:52:41 · 4 answers · asked by J D 1 in Singles & Dating

i dreamed about i am pregnant and crying because im worrying about my teeth.its like my teeth falling and my gums is soft in my dream..do you know what the meaning of this?lately im so depress of being abandoned of my husband...

2006-12-15 20:50:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have no issues with both parents...i enjoy their company and warmth...do i really need to take side of my spouse...i just hate not bing myself with them...

2006-12-15 20:49:53 · 11 answers · asked by docKnowitall 2 in Family

ok this lady finds me cute like she ask my name twice now, i am also kinda attracted to her.. but im soo shy and canot reply to her properly coz i dont know what to say.. besides i dont speak englisgh fluently.. soo im not a good talker what should i do? pls help.

2006-12-15 20:49:38 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Drugs, alcohol, cars, money, sex and the internet.

Basically I want to meet a potential love interest face to face at a place other than a bar/nightclub.

Reckon you can help?

2006-12-15 20:46:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I've been married to my wife for 20 yrs now. We've had a lack luster sex life all our marriage. However, I've gotten used to it and made up for the lack with porn. No cyber or anything, just pictures and stories to masterbate. Anyway, my wife has caught me on several occassions and she says because of that she's fallen out of love with me. I think she still loves me, but doesn't respect or like me. She was abused when she was younger that's part of the problem, I've adapted to it and that's one of the reason our sex is not so great. Well she's changed a lot in the last couple of years, I've been supporting her through school and she's become indepedent. She's also lost about 60 pounds and looks about 10 years younger then she is now. I don't know what to do, like I said I still love her and would like to keep being married. She seems upset when we talk divorce, but we haven't been togethor in over a year, even after I came back from Afghanistan. What do you think?

2006-12-15 20:42:30 · 4 answers · asked by MB 2 in Marriage & Divorce

At this point I'm pretty confident she likes me. She's flirty but I definitely notice there's more of a thing with me compared to the other dudes in the office. I like her a lot too. The only problem is our office is small. Really small. I'm worried that if I pursue something with her, the heavy interaction at work will mess things up and cause a lot of awckardness which I hate.

I'm at a point in my life where I'm figuring a lot of things out, and I'm doing a lot for myself. I actually don't want to date anyone seriously right now. The thought of having to see someone sometimes 10 hours a day and then see them more is a bit troublesome.

This is not the first time I've asked about this. The last time I wasn't so sure I wanted to pursue something, but now I'm leaning towards it. I'm leaning towards doing something because I'm going to get another job by mid-next year. I'm willing to take some risks. My gut is telling me the time to act is now. What do you all think?

2006-12-15 20:42:28 · 17 answers · asked by acvader 2 in Singles & Dating

Gosh, that sounds very cold, doesn't it?!

Long story short.....he is 51, I am 40. We've lived together six months. We met online.

From the beginning....when he moved in....he has not been frisky, at all. Maybe, once every two weeks. He says that he loves me, he says that he is attracted to me. He enjoys watching naughty movies, etc.

Yet, he almost never wants to have sex. I just don't understand. Something just isn't right.

I was married for 18 yrs. and basically had no sex life, then. I don't want to end up in that situation, again.

What am I to do? I have discussed this with him 3-4 times. He says he understands, etc. Yet, nothing ever changes.

2006-12-15 20:42:21 · 5 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Singles & Dating

ok so me n my ex started talkin again after 2 months of not talkin.i love hi mso much n he says he loves me.we hav been doing the friends wit benefits thing n im just so bothered bout it i want him so bad.ok so last nite i saw him n i txted him wen i got home n i never got a txt bak or a goodnite call which he usually does.i understand tho but then dis mornin i sent him a txt n i never got nuthin but then he called @ midnite 24 hrs later.he asked me y i didnt IM him n i asked y didnt u txt me.he sed he left his fone @ home but i kno he had it all morning til 1pm.he cud have jsut sed hello but he sed that he dont like txtin on his fone so i suggested dat we dont txt no more n jsut talk @ nite n he was jus like i didnt call u for drama n he was so mean to me like yellin n everythign n the things he sed were so rude.we hung up on bad terms.i dunno wat to do shud i contact him or wait 4 him? im so sad cuz i love him so much but he was so mean today its like i cant tell him how i feel.

2006-12-15 20:38:52 · 14 answers · asked by Fahion_Gal 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 20:37:25 · 24 answers · asked by diana h 1 in Singles & Dating

How can a man say women don't want to do hard labor? men have tried to not let us into the workworld period (dont' get offended I dont mean all men). There was a time our options were housewife, secretary, teacher. we have evolved and proven we can do nearly all the same jobs a man can do yet many of us ( talking about myself) don't rely on someone else to care for them. You don't have to do my laundry, cook for me, clean for me or support me. Why can't you do it all too? What's your reasoning be cause working hard isn't enough we all work hard.

2006-12-15 20:35:17 · 3 answers · asked by uknowme 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been giving most of xmas presents that my son wanted, but school marks have gone down the drain. And he is not putting effort in getting better. I don't feel like giving all these presents to him that I feel he doe not deserve. How to go about, although I don't want to let him miss xmas but also I don't feel that he should have whatever he wants.

2006-12-15 20:33:08 · 15 answers · asked by nininha 4 in Family

I have had a nasty break-up with my son's dad cuz he got another woman pregnant after he told me he wanted to work on our relationship. I already know he's a loser, liar, felon and recovering junkie as well. He treated me badly this time and it has been really tough to get over this because of the way it went down. Going on Tgivins he's on the phone saying he loves me and misses me ( long distance) but after he got arrested on a technicality and she bails him out he calls and says he loves her and is in a relationship and is staying with her cuz he lost his place. He let her get on the phone and get lloud and ghetto with me. Disrespectful to me and I've known him for 10yrs. she 2mths. I t pisses me off how he strung me along for months and it hurt deeply. Now When I close eyes at night I have nightmares about him and I don't want him in my head. I started going to meetings cuz he is an alchie and He has hurt me, What else can I do to make it stop?

2006-12-15 20:31:11 · 4 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Family

I was just diagnosed with herpes and my co-worker texts me askin me "if I want a quickie before I go to work. no one I know nows about it except for my best friend, my family, and my boss(I work midnights and I haden't slept that day so I took it off). This gut even says he'll wear a condom. What does that mean and how do I tell him about my illness without freaking the guy out?

2006-12-15 20:28:39 · 5 answers · asked by audrey 3 in Friends

I got married in August to my boyfriend of 6 years. Things were really good in the beginning, he told me he wanted to take care of me. He told me I didn't have to work if I didn't want to, and he was serious. I quit my job, and went back to school. About 9 months ago, he quit his job, just out of the blue, and said that his life was going somewhere he didn't like. I respected that. He decided to go on a sabbatical, and I respected that too. When he came back, he seemed better, and he took a job with a non profit environmental group. That's around the time we got married. Then after a month, he quit that too. Now all he does is sit around and smoke pot, with his friends. I just found out I'm pregnant two weeks ago, and I have had to go back to work just to pay all the bills, some of which don't get paid, because he can't be depended on to send it on time, or he snags the money for his pot habit. What do I do? I can't take this anymore. I love him, but this is too much.

2006-12-15 20:27:44 · 17 answers · asked by Moon Goddess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I used to like 1gal from 7th grd.she is pretty and smart.rite now i am in 9th.last yr we used to go in same clas for hindi.but i was very much infused in my studies.however i wasnt even aware bout it.this yr my friend said that she likes me.how can i approach her now.

2006-12-15 20:26:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have best friend and he also care of me but i dont want to hurt him because my husband is not like we're to close but i dont know how to say that because i know he's very takecare of me and we are to be best friend it's very long time 25 years he's my litle kindegarten friend and i think we're realy just a friend but my husband is not believed if somebody can help me for some ideas for my problem ????????thanks

2006-12-15 20:22:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-15 20:19:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im buying new furniture today. i want leather my husband does not.

2006-12-15 20:18:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I and he, we are in long D, for about 1.5 years...things are no good in the second half...so many time i wanna call it quits but still i love him. I give myself a deadline...2006...if he coulda make it to see me before 2007, i plan to call it quit completely....He told me before he wants me go visit him in this Xmas, so just now when he called, i planned to give it the last shot, asked if we are going to meet. He told me he is going to somewhere else..visiting his mom..so he wont be home in Xmas...the feeling hurts.....i dunno if i should still trust him...one minute he gives you icy treatment, the next he is sweet and said he loves me....I m too upset but just dunno what to do....i knew i shoulda let things drag on..but just coulda have a clear cut.....

2006-12-15 20:18:30 · 4 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i like this girl and i think she likes me back... the thing im concerned with is that me and this girl is like...pretty much A LOT different then each other....for ex. I shes quiet, im outgoing..shes into classical piano, im into punk/rock electric guitar....shes getting really really high marks in school, im getting like C.....
could she really like me? and would this work?

2006-12-15 20:17:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 20:15:24 · 20 answers · asked by sri ram 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are already slim and toned, and it would take a considerable amount of effort to make yourself any bulkier, why bother? Especially if (say) half or even a third of all girls are happy with your physique anyway?

2006-12-15 20:15:09 · 6 answers · asked by Mardy 4 in Singles & Dating

lol...i dunno y i posted that question...
NOW ur turn to Answer me here
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061212112702AA3pDQl

2006-12-15 20:13:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have had my eye on my mailman since the summertime, my sis. put her 2cents in oneday and told him i had a crush on him and when she described me he knew what car i drove so that lets me know he is paying some type of attention to me , i stopped him oneday and got his number, should have gave him mine but i didnt, I called him once left him a mess. he never returned my call i took it as a slight form of rejection and never called him anymore but now it seems we say hello in passing he will even blow his mailhorn at me to say hello i want to talk to him again i am just scared he may not be interested he maybe just saying hi to be kind help me i want us to go out

2006-12-15 20:12:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is there sighns i should look for that say i have a girlfriend(besides saying it) or if hes shy.

2006-12-15 20:10:39 · 9 answers · asked by missTQ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships