Family & Relationships - 15 December 2006

i have never hit my wife, cheated on or her or even lied to her. she says it is the lack of trust i have in her, checking her email and questioning her, and when we get into it i call her names. i know i went to far many times and i will never again invade anothers personal space as that but although she has never cheated on me (in words) she has let a guy feel her up while she was drunk and i was in the front seat of the car (she pulled away from him when he tried to kiss her and said something to me) and she is also a big flirt when she gets drunk. to make things worse i am in the military and over seas, she left to be with her family and figure some stuff out, she want give me any answer of what will happen or how she feels and she goes from saying she doesnt love me to not sure if she loves me or not. i love her alot and want to try for her and change but i want her to change some stuff to but can not say that becouse it will make it worse. i am confused on just what to do. help

2006-12-15 21:39:54 · 11 answers · asked by afraidandconfused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Th guy has a kid that he didn't want. He has had unprotected sex with my daughter. He smokes and is in a dead end job. He owes people money and his parents are loosers.

2006-12-15 21:38:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-15 21:35:53 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

1. until today, i still want to apologise to her, but, are we even?
2. i think i am indebted to someone.

i think i am messy, sorry about that.

2006-12-15 21:35:37 · 2 answers · asked by I am marrying her only. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-15 21:34:04 · 11 answers · asked by jenboshelby 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfreind of only ten months has suggested numerous times that I should move in to his house . I have two kids age 12 and 18 only my youngest remains at home the oldest in college I am not ready for cohabitation and as well for my son I feel that it wouldn,t be wise to move him to strange house new rules ,school friends ect. but my boyfreind doesn,t really see these as reasons not to move in and now he has asked for marrage and I,m not ready at all not because i don,t love him ,I do and maybe a couple years I could see this happining but I have been divorced for ten years and worked hard for my independance and to bring up my two sons so I feel that Im very happy and comfortable with the way things are .I spend alot of my free time with him at his home and he always want me to come there and he doesn,t spend any time at my home he always has some lame excuse . but when I told him i,m not ready he thinks Im just with him till someone better comes around ,any suggestions or advise plz

2006-12-15 21:33:28 · 5 answers · asked by masterdisaster 2 in Singles & Dating

Was she right or wrong what was it about?

2006-12-15 21:32:31 · 6 answers · asked by thespeakeris tooloud 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-15 21:31:09 · 5 answers · asked by simply me 1 in Singles & Dating

I just wanna know okay! Merry Christmas~ Monkeys rule! Mwah!

2006-12-15 21:29:31 · 31 answers · asked by TheAprilPuppet 2 in Friends

My neighbour recently asked me around to fix his computer. While I was there his girlfriend repeatedly made comments to me like 'oh I love you' & 'cant we get mark to live in your house and you move in here'. All the time IM politley not reacting to any of this but my neighbour is hearing it. I know as a couple they are having big problems. As IM leaving she asks me round for dinner the following night & I accept. On the night I find a note pushed through the door saying something has come up and dinner is canceled, signed love Jane.
What am I to make of all this? Is she just flirting with me to upset him? I don't want to get involved just curious what is happening.

2006-12-15 21:25:22 · 15 answers · asked by not_really_a_football_fan 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been cought for shop-lifting and released under bail upon submission of my passport at one of the retail outlets in dubai,a case is charged against me . i did admit my mistake and terribly repend for it. i dont know why i did this most awful act, otherwise for the world i am the best mother, wife, daughter,sister, friend and employee. i am most certain that i will not commit any mistake by heart, word or deed henceforth .when i stepped for the first time to a police station the feeling was terrific, luckily my most supporting husband stood beside me , otherwise i should have colapsed. i canot share my experience with anyone else except for my mother and husband and i did share with them. but all the people around me feel i am undegoing a pressure and they are praying for me. i am just waiting for the call from the law enforcement, i pleaded to get me out of this but in vain-i cant tolerate this mental torture- i feel i go mad-please advice me legally and personaly my friends

2006-12-15 21:23:10 · 3 answers · asked by anamika 1 in Friends

ok it went down like this, I live with my girlfriend and my two best friends, one is my best guy friend and the other my best 'friend who is a girl.' We are fairly relaxed around each other and walk around the house naked if we have just had a shower or played strip poker or any other fun and sexy games. A few weeks ago I took a picture of my best mate in the shower and threatened to show people, he shouldnt have been worried, he has nothing to worry about in that department. But I left it on my digital camera and then someone broke into our house while we were out clubbing and stole my camera. The other day my best friend who is a girl, who must have been looking at naughty things on the internet, stumbled across the picture i had taken on a rudey website. She told everyone and they think it is really funny. This isnt really my fault is it, I didnt mean for this to happen. What should I do? He isnt very happy with me, and they wont reply to emails or take it down. What should I do?

2006-12-15 21:19:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you tell when you have someone wrapped around your finger?


BTW, I like it! I'm just asking if that may be what's happening here and if it has happened in your life...

I don't feel like a servant as some of y'all suggested in an earlier question. I just bet some of the guys can tell me what motivates them to use the wrap/finger technique. Is it "power" over the girl or is it a way to feel closer to her?
Do you use it on friends or just girlfriends?
Which am I if I am in this situation?

2006-12-15 21:18:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"People will only treat you as good as you treat yourself."

2006-12-15 21:17:54 · 9 answers · asked by Laura 1 in Singles & Dating

Do older women like younger men? What's with in dating range and whats not?
When I was 18I had a sexual relationship with a 34 year old woman, she broke up with me because I told her my real age. I met her at a bar( How I got in- Fake I.D) and we kicked it off ever since. We both shared the same level of intellect, independence and maturity...so then why when she found out I wasn't 22 but 18 she broke it off and told me to never contact her ever? I mean I know a lot of men whom are 30,36,45 years old whom could never call themselves half the man I was at 16, 18, 19 years old.. 18 and 22 are only 4 years apart, whats the big deal? Is maturity soley defined by age?

2006-12-15 21:16:42 · 7 answers · asked by yellowmedia 3 in Singles & Dating

they tell you one thing then do another and never look you in the eyes.do you go along with things to keep the peace or let rip and let them have it,

2006-12-15 21:15:41 · 26 answers · asked by aka 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-15 21:15:34 · 7 answers · asked by sactownguy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 21:15:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when he stares he doesnt u to see him and sometimes does some things to impress u wen he sees dat ur looking at him.one time to i was with a pal n he came their 2 speak to ma pal n was just lokin at me.he has a girlfriend on top of it

2006-12-15 21:12:22 · 4 answers · asked by XXxxFaNtAsIcxxXX 1 in Singles & Dating

if a woman knows exactly how she wants to be treated and won't accept anything less than her standard from men she is sometimes considered as being needy .why?

2006-12-15 21:09:12 · 9 answers · asked by marysunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a married woman, but I'm attracted like hell to a bloke slightly younger than myself.
Every now and then he approaches me in a flirtatious manner and his eyes just fixate onto me everytime our eyes meet, does that mean he's interested in me too?
He is dating someone at the moment, but when we happen to be hanging out in the same places, he turns from his date to speak to me. Why? Why are you guys so complicated? I bet it's all ego!

2006-12-15 21:08:18 · 13 answers · asked by SOL SIREN 2 in Singles & Dating

My Husband of 5 years and I are trying to have a baby,But I can't conceive because i was born a Male had the operation done 4 years before i met him...and i've never told him that i was born a male,should and how do i tell him? he's pressing me to look into artificial insemination....or should i just try and convince him to adopt

2006-12-15 21:08:06 · 10 answers · asked by Nol 1 in Singles & Dating

im known as a man hoe because they think imma screw the next girl i wanna talk to...back then i did bad things but now im a changed man but the think im a man hoe...what can i do to make the realize that i changed?

2006-12-15 21:06:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 21:04:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i saw a pic of a girl on my friends myspace and shes BEAUTIFUL as hellllllllllllllllllll....... she set her site to private i only can send her a message but i want it to be a diff sepcial msg than the others im sure she gets a lots of e-mails from boys saying they want her
im sending her an e-mail or a msg(w.e) what should i write in it ?
but i dont wanna sound like a perv or like a desperte person,

2006-12-15 21:04:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 21:03:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lately i have lost just about all interest in food. I'm not worried about my weight so i'm not deliberately not eating i just don't feel like it. I've lost interest in things i like and i love christmas but i'm just not interested this year. Usually i'm the one to put up the tree and love the shopping but i'm really hating it. What do you think?

2006-12-15 21:02:23 · 6 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 20:59:56 · 11 answers · asked by Love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We hooked up oh yeah, and we had some sex, but after she told me, that she was taken, and then I found out, she was with my friend, my best friend that is, what do I do now? Come on now baby, I didn't know didn't know you were his, and its not my fault, that I like hot girls, please dont tell him, he is my best mate, oh what can I do please help me

2006-12-15 20:58:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is a sales/business development manager.Aged around 30,single and is pretty attractive.I am a 27 Year software developer.Most of my life i have spent around books and technicalities...Until one day i went to breakfast where she also used to come for having break fast.I saw her a couple of times...and i do not know how it happened..but my heart used to beat fast when i see her.In a matter of couple of months she and i both started recongnzing each other...She and i both used to look at each other and smile...by now i really wanted to go and talk to her...but not sure how.Well well...God worked it out for me...my company had arranged an expo event where she had come and voila!!! there i saw her...I found a situation and went and talked to her finally when she was alone.Later we met couple of times at break fast...talked about all kind of things she asked me questions like am i married...Will i marry same girl of my cast what do i/ususally my parents

2006-12-15 20:58:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anand Kulkarni 1 in Singles & Dating