So, I've been going out with this girl from work for 2 months now. We happen to sit close by, so I have to see her everyday ... but we only get to go out once a week, if that much. I do enjoy a lot her company, and admire her in many aspects, so I'm becoming quite involved with her. Problem is, she's apparently just seeing this as a "friendship with bonus". Basically it kinds of hurts to see that i'm very low on her priorities -- I sometimes try to get her out to another movie, or restaurant, or trip, and I always get some kind of very polite "unfortunately i'm busy" for answer, besides the weekly meeting. So my questions are two: Should I insist on it ? My experience tells me that this wouldn't work, but I might not have used the right approach, so ideas are very welcome! Should I drop it and move on ? -- after all I'm sure if she doesn't want me, there others that do :). But stopping to think on her, I know, will be hard for a few weeks at least. Ideas here ? Thanks a lot!
2006-12-15
19:40:28
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