2006-12-15 19:37:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why nervous? You are getting licence to make love to your lover now what else you want?
2006-12-15 19:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just about everyone in the whole world is nervous when they are about to get married---why not? It's the biggest step you will ever make in your life. You will be stepping into a world full of happiness, problems, concerns, providing, caring---on and on ---the list is endless. It is a union between 2 loving people. You are really going to have to ask yorself if you are ready for all that comes with the marriage. You know it is a 2 way street, sharing everything, and still not overshadowing your mate. You will both be doing everything for 2 instead of one---and when children come along, you will do for them for quite a while. It is tough, it is a challenge and you don't walk away from it. If you are not ready, don't do it. Wait a while. It is only for mature adults in love. You and your mate have to be mutually respectful, courteous, tender, loving, nurturing and faithful. It will promise to be, the happiest time you will ever know. Just be certain your nervousness is natural and you both will be fine. Good luck merry xmas
2006-12-16 04:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally natural to be nervous. I think almost everybody gets nervouse right before their big day. I think as long as you love her and agree on the really important things in life that matter to you, you will be fine. I know me and my husband got into really big fights before our actual wedding date and it made me nervous too. Looking back at it, I know we were just stressed and worried about taking the plunge. We have been happily married 4 years and I would marry him again in a second.
2006-12-16 04:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by Smart_ca_latina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get nervous. U r lucky as ur going 2 marry 2 a girl whom u luv. Everything would b fine in marriage. OK. So just enjoy ur life. Congrats :)
2006-12-16 03:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up your identity as a man to become a husband and make sure that your bride-to-be does not give up her identity as a woman to be a wife. Hold each other a lot and listen to each other--your ideas, your passions, your joys, and your dreams.
The aforementioned is advice I give to you. To be nervous is understandable. Your wedding will be the first declaration to the world your devotion and love for this girl. Have a good time and congratulations!
2006-12-16 03:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a lucky guy. You are marrying the person you love. Congratulations. And Best Wishes.
Marriage is a commitment. It has to be taken seriously. You will have plenty of hope and apprehensions. You can talk to your partner and sort out your fears and apprehensions. Enter into the wedlock with love and hope. You will succeed.
Best Wishes
2006-12-16 05:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by jmcm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel nervous. You are making a huge life adjustment. From a married person MARRIAGE SUCKS!!!! But then again it is wonderful. Good luck. Make sue you do love her and if you are thining of cheating don't marry her.
2006-12-16 04:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a Question: Are you afraid to be happy? I haven't tried to marry yet... But if you do really love her, then go for it! Damn don't be afraid-it's silly. Marrying the one you love means facing the future with joy and security despite all odds. So there's no sense of being afraid . Go get her and have a bunch of kids. Youll regret it if you don't...
2006-12-16 03:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by Ansem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be nervous. You got what's needed--LOVE
Take it one day at a time, Be patient, have a sense of humor. and don't let the little things cause fights. Don't just SAY you love her--show it. Actions speak a lot louder than words.
2006-12-16 03:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kismitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That shows you are normal. Anything what one does first time in life lead such fear, let it be car driving, journey by air,using a cell phone,first day in college......
To me any one who is not passing through the mantle state what you have is abnormal and he should be worried rather then you. Wishing you a nice wedding.
2006-12-16 03:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by Aditya K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys get nervous during the time when you get married. dont worry. just think positive thoughts. let you future wife help you too. p.s. drink some water to soften the nerves.
2006-12-16 03:42:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋