Family & Relationships - 15 December 2006

2006-12-15 18:40:02 · 12 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Singles & Dating

I find I have nothing in common with him anymore, other than our almost 22 yr old, college attending child. I am not happy... tired of the emotional abuse... I am very optimistic and just hanging in there... I know that my leaving will devastate him. I took my vows very seriously, and I have so many years invested in this relationship, married 23 yrs, but, together for 29yrs. I wonder if at times I should just hang in there, however I feel I'm the only one trying to salvage this marriage. Doesn't everyone deserve happiness?? I'm not getting any younger, and have been unhappy for several years. What would you do?

2006-12-15 18:38:53 · 12 answers · asked by Julie H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-15 18:38:02 · 24 answers · asked by romi 72 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl that I just met at school lives in a condo that her mom owns. She suggested that I move in, i'm looking for a place. One day, she said her mom is thinking about selling the place, then she says its her that wants her mom to sell the place because of the burden of morgage payments and that her mom isn't thinking about selling it, then she says "if it were to happen" while I stay there we can move into another place together...then she says "but my mom said if it were to happen I can live w/ my uncle who lives in the same city so...I don't know how that would work out w/ you staying there..." What is wrong w/ this girl! Why isn't she being honest w/ me? We've become "friends" since this semester and honestly...I don't want to move in w/ her because she is being very vague. On top of that, for some reason... she always seem to pressure me into moving in making statements like, "So, when you move in during the summer..." My dad says to just play her game and be vague too.

2006-12-15 18:37:06 · 3 answers · asked by bettyboop 2 in Friends

so does anyone want to chat sometime?Plz normal ppl(if there any these days!!)If so...hit my email up! Happy holidays,Thankx

2006-12-15 18:36:15 · 4 answers · asked by aliyah 3 in Friends

2006-12-15 18:34:30 · 6 answers · asked by Paige M 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend who is a Jehovah's Witness and I (a Catholic) decided to include God in our relationship. Thing is- we dont know how to. We obviously have different beliefs, but dont want it to get in the way from having God in our relationship. How can we have Him without getting on eachother's throats? I know prayer and patience is great, but then what?

Thanks and God Bless

2006-12-15 18:33:30 · 16 answers · asked by Lady Luck 1 in Singles & Dating

GIRLS ONLY

2006-12-15 18:32:56 · 11 answers · asked by Aashya jha 1 in Singles & Dating

Question Details: He came home the end of July 2006, from a Christian Academy where he lived for a year. My husband and I sent him for alot of reasons...being disrespectful, rude, blurting, just all around bad attitude. He has been home 5 months now and I feel that the academy did not help him at all, in the beginning I truly believe that it was just a front to come home.....now I am not sure what to do or where to turn, he has gotten worse, he is so angry and mad at everyone, bad attitude, mean to our dogs, just down right hateful, ungrateful, unsociable, lies all the time, can not trust him .....he has been to thearpists for several years now....He is on meds for ADHD....but does not help......it has gotten to the point where no one wants to be around him, his bad attitude brings us down.....I really do not know what else to do. I love my son very much, just not sure how to help him anymore.

2006-12-15 18:31:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

two hot chicks kissing turns guys on? I love it. I think its awesome. But what makes it so great???? I have no idea. Anyone know?

2006-12-15 18:31:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok there is a guy that ive really liked for a while now. one night he invited me to go to his house, of course i was so excited and went. we didnt do anything other then kiss a little bit. over the next few days id text him occasionally but he never text back. i still really liked him but didnt see any point on trying to talk to him if he didnt still like me back. about 2 months later he started texting me again and asking me who i liked. i told him i still really liked him a lot so he invited me to his house again and of course i was so excited again i went to his house and we did a little more then before but nothing bad. i kind of feel bad for giving him a 2nd chance bc of how bad my feelings were hurt the first time...should i keep going along with it since i like him or dump him like he dumped me?!

2006-12-15 18:30:22 · 7 answers · asked by Cay 1 in Singles & Dating

we don't have sex anymore.
he said he is interesrted.
he said he loves me, this has been going off and on for the lasted year.
when we talk about it he says i dont put in effort but i do,
more then he does.
i think he is having some medical issue with the sex drive and he don't want to admit it to me. what you think

2006-12-15 18:26:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-15 18:26:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-15 18:25:22 · 7 answers · asked by jorge t 1 in Friends

What if its vice versa and the guy is 19 and the girl is 15? Or, to add on to it, what if this 4 year age gap takes place when the girl is 23 and the guy is 19? Or the guy 23 and the girl 19? Does the older age make the age gap less of an issue? Does the fact that the girl is older make the age gap more of an issue? Just wanting many opinions, so feel free to express away.

2006-12-15 18:24:59 · 8 answers · asked by jessica r 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey everyone, my friends and my g/f's friends are pressuring us into kissing (we are "kissing virgins") BUT we are in MiddleSchool. If we do kiss, nothing bad is gonna happen right? cuz we really like each other, and from what i understand that is all that matters...Please Help Me, i dont want to regret anything.

2006-12-15 18:24:40 · 9 answers · asked by No Rock? No Life! =) 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 18:24:29 · 9 answers · asked by boobooshurt 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 18:23:57 · 1 answers · asked by Aashya jha 1 in Singles & Dating

It's not in my best interests to be in this position and I need help. It's soo depressing. How can I get my head screwed back on straight?????

2006-12-15 18:23:48 · 4 answers · asked by Lame Eagle 2 in Friends

2006-12-15 18:23:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's a guy with whom i've been friends for the past 2 yrs and i do trust him.But recently a prank was played on me and i was upset about it for many days as i really felt bad about it and i did not know who did it.My friends told me that 'he' did it.When i asked him, he swore that he did not even know about it.Whom should i trust..........my friends or him?.

2006-12-15 18:22:24 · 19 answers · asked by Angelina 2 in Friends

i know this guy and way back from last year he wanted to go out but i didnt. Now i realize i like him. but in th ebeginning of the year he had a gf. but then broke up. now i just heard him say he loves this girl but idk if he was serious. But the problemo is i cant stop think ing of him. What should i do??

2006-12-15 18:21:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 18:20:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was at a dance and my bf wasnt ther yet so i was jus haning around waiting when some guy asked to dance. I thought i would be done but it was fun so i kept dancing and now my bf wont talk to me but i think i came and saw me dancing. i dont like the guy i was dancing with! i jsut liked dancing!
what do i do!?

2006-12-15 18:17:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where is the best place to make contact with quality people to talk via email? I am from Melbourne Australia and love to talk about anything and everything.

2006-12-15 18:17:23 · 5 answers · asked by The Fish 1 in Friends

my bro is smoking. he admitted to tryin it (with his friends who do smoke) to my rents and i have seen him do it. i can also smell it on his clothes when he gets home from wrk. i want to tlk to him about it, but he always gets on the defensive when i even say hi. how can i tlk to him about this?? pls help. it wil be greatly appreciated. :)

2006-12-15 18:16:53 · 6 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family

Don't be modest...Brag about yourself. Tell the world what makes you hot.

2006-12-15 18:16:52 · 16 answers · asked by Laughing Man Copycat 5 in Singles & Dating

my mom is a nag and my dad is sometimes off track

2006-12-15 18:16:33 · 7 answers · asked by trebrown06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom and me haven't really been getting along so I'm really considering becoming emancipated. My friend moved out for the same reason and he hasn't been happier so what do you think?

2006-12-15 18:16:15 · 5 answers · asked by hot_kokoa 3 in Family

well like i said i have feelings for a guy i been dating for 3 yrs. he has lied, walked out on me to do the things he wants, looks at other women while im standing there, now he has come back acting like he wants things to work.he even missed his jobs christmas party to stay at home with me, and he never misses those christmas parties. im not trusting him at all right now. he has temperarily acted like he has cared before. how do i know he is sincere now. should i really just give up on a three yr relationship. i stopped having sex because i dont want the risk of getting hurt. should i wait to see if he has changed? how long does it really take to see if someone has changed. he is a dj on the side and he has left me multiple of times to go do a party and now he is saying he is going to stop for a while to work on us. what should i do? or should i just let it all go for real?

2006-12-15 18:14:52 · 5 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating