we don't have sex anymore.
he said he is interesrted.
he said he loves me, this has been going off and on for the lasted year.
when we talk about it he says i dont put in effort but i do,
more then he does.
i think he is having some medical issue with the sex drive and he don't want to admit it to me. what you think
2006-12-15 18:26:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
communication is the key I have been married for over 16 years and we separated over 5 months ago and that is the main reason why, and he never had one real reason why and never went to see the doctor so after several years ( yes several) it took so much from me as a woman i couldn't do it anymore.
2006-12-15 21:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you are having problems in this area. The key is to openly communicate each others needs with each other. Let him know how you feel, ok? You deserve that, and explain to him you think you do put in effort, and just what would it take for him to think you had? If you suspect there might be a valid medical problem, maybe you can convince him he really should see a doctor. Good luck!
2006-12-16 02:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by Genius Squirrel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might be having some medical problem recently developed such as diabetes, hormonal imbalance, erectile dysfunction, or merely excessive stress. Try to take him to a doctor to rule out these causes. As he says he is interested in sex, but doesnt indulge in it, there could be some medical problems.
If not, check if he has developed some other interests such as taking drugs, or even have other women in his life whom he finds to be more attracted to. i hope these arent the case with your husband and that he would return to his normal loving life with you soon.
2006-12-16 02:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This could be one problem. But tell him that if he loves you and values his marriage he will go to the doctor. If he refuses, then it may be something else wrong.
2006-12-16 02:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When was the last time he was in to see his doctor?
2006-12-16 02:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
short comment : word is a pray.dont play with your word.
so say it the best way you be happier. and believe that already happend. it might come true. all that you always says
2006-12-16 02:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by dian_sinta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be, he needs to learn to trust a Doc or you. it will only get worse with out confidence
2006-12-16 02:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree ..its happened to a few poeple i know
2006-12-16 03:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need counseling
2006-12-16 02:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋