This girl that I just met at school lives in a condo that her mom owns. She suggested that I move in, i'm looking for a place. One day, she said her mom is thinking about selling the place, then she says its her that wants her mom to sell the place because of the burden of morgage payments and that her mom isn't thinking about selling it, then she says "if it were to happen" while I stay there we can move into another place together...then she says "but my mom said if it were to happen I can live w/ my uncle who lives in the same city so...I don't know how that would work out w/ you staying there..." What is wrong w/ this girl! Why isn't she being honest w/ me? We've become "friends" since this semester and honestly...I don't want to move in w/ her because she is being very vague. On top of that, for some reason... she always seem to pressure me into moving in making statements like, "So, when you move in during the summer..." My dad says to just play her game and be vague too.
2006-12-15 18:37:06 · 3 answers · asked by bettyboop 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My dad said take care of #1, myself. Play her game and be vague back to her. And, when the time is right just say, "Look your're being awfully vague, I don't feel comfortable in moving in."
2006-12-15 18:38:39 · update #1
Ok, just from reading the 1st answer...you have the best answer...I don't need to read the rest...I am a "indecisive wimp". I don't mean that in a oh pity me way but really you slapped me in the face and gave me some realization. F*** this girl, she's not being a friend, and I'm not moving in, that's my f**k** decision!
2006-12-15 18:52:40 · update #2
you shaky, indecisive wimp. you need some tough love. you dad should get out the razor strap and show you how bad things can get when you make absurd decisions. i make a bad decision one time and i beat myself.
2006-12-15 18:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't people in this day and age just be honest with one another? Why all this fooling around with vague answers and words? Tell her how you feel. What is so hard about that? If she wants to play games, then tell her to play them with someone else!
2006-12-16 02:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really disagree with your dad. It sounds as if she (and maybe her mom) don't want you there anymore. Start looking for a new place and when you find it, let her know and move out. You have to feel comfortable where you live and she isn't helping you.
2006-12-16 02:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋