2006-12-15 18:23:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yourself. You should love yourself the most. Know that you are not the cause of their divorce. It's between the both of them and they should work it out between themselves and not put you in the middle.
2006-12-15 18:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by nannygoat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have to choose or even make that choice.
They are divorcing each other not you. They will still love you the same way as before and you should love them the same way too. Just look at it this way. Now you will have two home. No parents fighting in the house. Two bedrooms etc and if your parents decide to marry are people after, Then you will have two more people too love you. Wow your one lucky person!
2006-12-15 20:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think you should love one more than the other?
Even though your parents are (getting) divorced you can love both of them and even better, you can love them as much as you want or as much as you always have done.
There is no reason to love one less than the other.
Good luck, I know from experience that the time after your parents divorce can be tough.
2006-12-15 18:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by Aschwin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't put it like that. It hurts my heart. A divorce is a meltdown in the relationship between your mum and dad. You didn't do anything wrong at all. They are individuals, just like you are you. Just continue to treat them like you have been when you were together. Just because they can't live together, that doesn't mean their splitting up automatically should make you change your relationship with either one of them. Give yourself a hug and hang in there. Good luck!
2006-12-15 18:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by Genius Squirrel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should love them both equally. I will advise you to watch out for either parent trying to turn you against the other. Your mom wanting you to hate your dad, and vise versa. Do not let yourself fall in that trap. Don't believe things like, "your dad doesn't care about you, or he forgot" Stand firm, and let them both know that you will not be a pawn in their game, and you do and will love them both no matter what either one of them says or does.
2006-12-15 21:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is entirely upto u unless u r the cause of divorce. So long as they respond positively u must keep in touch with both of them.
2006-12-15 18:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all sorry for your parent's break-up but I don't think you have to decide on loving people. You automatically love people who care more about you and sometimes "love" can not be relative. Its just love and there are different kinds of it.
2006-12-15 18:25:44 · answer #7 · answered by miss_magic047 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really cho? who thinks about that when their parents are getting divorced....and of corse your mom! lol jk u should love both...
2006-12-15 18:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by ~CaMeRoN~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there...
You should always love your parents equally... because they are both the reason why you are alive!
2006-12-15 18:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of them. U were born through both of them so you have no choice
2006-12-15 18:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋