Family & Relationships - 15 December 2006

Unfortunately, my husband was unable to accept the invitation owing to shiftwork commitments therefore our friends cancelled the invitation, thus leaving me "high and dry" on my birthday.

The friends are well aware of my husband being a shiftworker.

I was hurt by their actions and have tried to explain how those actions made me feel, however to no avail. Have I over-reacted?

2006-12-15 17:46:50 · 22 answers · asked by Jgirl 2 in Friends

I am meeting my boyfriend in person in two months time. As the we get to know each other on the net alomost everyday he started telling me that he wants to marry me. How will I know he is telling the truth?I have been in a hurting situation that I was promise that I am the only gf.As the days of his arrival is coming I am reminded of my ex because it was similar to this situation.It seems I am eager to meet this new bf and I am very interested to have a committed relationship but my past haunts me.What will I do?I am tired of being hurt again

2006-12-15 17:46:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just broke up as the title says. When ever i see her its kinda awkward. Do you think we will be friends again

2006-12-15 17:43:47 · 11 answers · asked by Beanblabber 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey...
My Boyfriend and Me are here and we have nothing to do..We have played games and done things on the computer...Everyone else is alsleep so its just us what should we do any one got ideas???Please help us out we are so bored...

2006-12-15 17:43:06 · 16 answers · asked by Brittany 2 in Friends

This girl at work, is everything that I would possibly want in a girl. She is just my type and I can't stop thinking about her. I do not have a problem with talking w/ girls but I do when i comes to asking a girl out. She always smiles when she sees me and so on. She calls me "Muscles", I really hate it, but w/e. But here is the thing, I work at a restaurant and she always calls me over to her table to help her open up wine. I thinks she can do it, but she even compliments me all the time at her table and she likes when I help her with things at work. I on the other hand, suck at complimenting her I feel so awkward doing it. So does this look like a green light to finally ask a girl out on a date. Thanks...

2006-12-15 17:42:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

notch and get him to not only be sexually attracted to you but like you as well??

thanks


By the way,WHY we broke up is our business. That is not the question. I need advice on what the question exactly reads/

2006-12-15 17:42:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am normally not a romantic sap, at least not as much as most of the women I know...but I have absolutely NO romance or tenderness in my life. I'm engaged to be married and we have no passion, not at all. I find when I watch sappy movies I want to cry (and do, a little) over what I don't have in my own life. I read books and wish those men in the stories were mine because I don't have a sex life anymore. The spark is just not there anymore. I love my fiance and don't seriously want to find someone else or cheat or anything. To top it all off, we just bought a house together and we pretty much moved across the country. I am lonely beyond belief, both emotionally and physically. I find myself having these harmless but passionate crushes on men I hardly know just to get some passion in my life. Am I pathetic? Please serious, replys or advice only.

2006-12-15 17:40:12 · 9 answers · asked by Prickly P 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

It can be anyone... mom dad friend.. brother sister.. girlfriend boyfriend.. best friend..

I love my two Al's!

2006-12-15 17:38:55 · 25 answers · asked by GirlWithQuestions 4 in Family

I spend most of my time at my bf's where he lives with his sweet old fashion parents and older 27 year old, jobless, dope feen, disrespectful slob brother. The brother eats all the food and never pays for it, doesn't lift a finger and has his family in fear around him only cause they dont want him blowing up. They have called the cops and was in peace the few months he was there, but once he's out same thing. They've kicked him out, but he stalks and harassess his younger brother (my boyfriend) to point where he just cant take any more. He's even rang the doorbell all night until someone let him in. Even if the cops are called again, he vanishes a day or two, but returns to the house begging his mom to let him in and he'll change. They don't know what to do and his behavior brings the whole family down and makes things worse for them in various ways. Any idea how to get rid on this guy in any other way than they've already tried?

2006-12-15 17:38:33 · 9 answers · asked by Toni M 2 in Family

2006-12-15 17:38:10 · 8 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so i like one of my really close friends who is a boy. and he's a grade lower than me. but still, we are great friends. i was wondering if i should ask him out. should I?

2006-12-15 17:37:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 17:36:20 · 14 answers · asked by lakshmi c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im in love with a good friend whos dad recently died last year, ive known him since we were kids, he even liked me for awhile but i never did like him until last year when his dad died...i started to love him, now i tell him that everyday but he never says nothing back. we talk on the phone for hours go out and laugh at everything and sometimes says little comments that makes me think he likes me, just recently i told him how i was talking to a guy friend of mine and he got really mad he said he needed time to think. weve had little fights where i tell him i dont want to be friends with him because thats the only way ill stop liking him but he insists we still be friends because he loves how i am. I'm so confused I know he likes me i see it in his eyes he looks straight at me, or once we kissed and i knew he liked it, his eyes got all googly yet he tells me he we should just be friends. everytime i tell him i love him he says im lying and that i dont mean it.

2006-12-15 17:36:15 · 8 answers · asked by anabel_r_mtz 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 17:35:06 · 8 answers · asked by matrixboy m 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy always flirting with me, but talking about other girls>? Is he talking to me to talk to me or to make me jealous? What does a guy actually do when he wants to make a girl jealous?

2006-12-15 17:34:03 · 4 answers · asked by nope 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think marriage would even exist?

2006-12-15 17:33:55 · 18 answers · asked by lucky 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We've lived together for 2.5 years. I want to get married, and he keeps blowing me off.
He has a good job and makes really good money. I'm just finishing up college and already have offers for job interviews. I'm not saying we have to get married tomorrow, but I'd at least like an engagement ring.. or a promise ring.

My sister got married in August & he said weddings are expensive and he adds other comments like i dont have a job yet, I dont make enough money..etc. My moms offered to pay for the wedding.
I've already told him that if we were to get engaged, i would be happy with that for now. At least then I'd know he had good intentions.

He bought me a diamond ring in July as my birthday present.

Everytime we pass a jewelery store now, he says I already have a ring. I know it was a ring just to make me shut up..

how much longer would you wait for him to propose?
why does he avoid any conversation about marriage?

2006-12-15 17:33:18 · 15 answers · asked by Giselle 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been going out only 1 months and I don't know what to give him for cristmas, I want to give him something really special that he will allways remember.

2006-12-15 17:31:39 · 17 answers · asked by ANTO 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 17:31:35 · 7 answers · asked by matrixboy m 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it a common happenstance to be married five years and my spouse still has not added me to the title on our house. He earns two to three times more than I, insists on splitting everything down the middle and I'm the one to buy all the groceries...I dont even know if love is there anymore but I don't think I could afford being on my own. Any input?

2006-12-15 17:30:28 · 12 answers · asked by katypopaty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad cancelled my trip to cancun and merida. Why? because I had an serious argument with him. recently he had been using my little sister as a comparison of who I should be. He had been blaming every faults on me even if my sister starts the argument. I think this is very unfair? what do you think?

2006-12-15 17:29:13 · 9 answers · asked by Caitlynn L 1 in Family

i dont like my life.u know i am divorced .in that it is not my fault.after that when i decded to start my life again then the person to whom i started loving him ,he now ignoring me.i am very tired of what to do.i dont want to live any more .i think that all those who r around me should remain happy.in this way i suffer a lot.i really dont want to live anymore

2006-12-15 17:29:06 · 7 answers · asked by Priyanka g 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 17:28:55 · 15 answers · asked by Questioner 1 in Singles & Dating

notch and get him to not only be sexually attracted to you but like you as well??

thanks

2006-12-15 17:28:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I've kissed 35 but it could be up to 45... lol. Just talking kissing here.

2006-12-15 17:27:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a bf ive been dating for 3 yrs. he has done so much wrong that i dont care where he goes or how long he stays gone. it use to drive me crazy when he was gone cause i didnt trust him. well i think he noticed i dont care anymore. now he hanging around me all the time. i cant get rid of him. well he has done this before when i act like i dont care. but this time i really dont care. but now that he is trying, do you think that i will come around, and start caring again? i have kind of given up hope on us. even though i care for him. he has lied alot and by passed my feelings for a while. now that it is the other way around he wants to try. should i try or just go with the flow. i really dont have no faith in us even though i care for him. what should i do?

2006-12-15 17:26:56 · 12 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

A coworker/ Friend and I recently have grown apart. We both began our job at about the same time and became what I thought were really good friends. However I now feel as though I'm getting the brush off. This indvidual will hardly speak to me unless I make a pointed effort to speak to them. However on several occasions I'll get a call from this indvidual asking me to pick them up to go to work. I've always agreed to and this indvidual is very cordial aht this point but shortly after they become very distant and cold. Should I confront this person and let them know my feelings?

If I do confront will I be considered needy?

2006-12-15 17:26:40 · 6 answers · asked by David O 1 in Friends

2006-12-15 17:25:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Can I ride a ducati to sixth and main to get the girls. Do they like the backseat of a red or black ducati, should I stick a card of the queen of diamonds on my windsheild, is that hot? Is it all about the wheels or the sheiza?

2006-12-15 17:25:08 · 8 answers · asked by poopdeck 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex msgs me (MSN). I am dating a new guy and have no feelings for my ex. I know he wants to be friends and I thought I did, but I think I need to move on. We broke up in Sept. What should I do. It was a hard break up and wasn't that amicable...HELP!

2006-12-15 17:23:29 · 11 answers · asked by Elle 1 in Singles & Dating