I am meeting my boyfriend in person in two months time. As the we get to know each other on the net alomost everyday he started telling me that he wants to marry me. How will I know he is telling the truth?I have been in a hurting situation that I was promise that I am the only gf.As the days of his arrival is coming I am reminded of my ex because it was similar to this situation.It seems I am eager to meet this new bf and I am very interested to have a committed relationship but my past haunts me.What will I do?I am tired of being hurt again
2006-12-15 17:46:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should go into every new relationship with a let's see attitude. You don't really know him, you have an idea of him by his writings. Take it slow...most long distance relationships that are just starting don't fare well. RELAX, ENJOY!
2006-12-15 17:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm....excuse me, but I would say that you are headed for another emotional train wreck on the railroad of love, dear.
There is no greater risk of heartbreak than meeting someone on the net for the following reasons:
1) There is no way to verify anything anyone says or represents on the Internet, in IM, or in an email.
2) Because there is complete anonymity, you have no way of knowing who you are "talking" to - even on the phone.
3) The Internet is a mine field of losers, second-rate hucksters and downright perverts.
4) You and your b/f have no common friends and know nothing about each other's history or family culture.
I know, I know...you hear about some good things happening from time to time with meetings from Internet relationships, but, boy, is it ever risky. And, you, coming off of a very negative relationship recently?
I wish you well, but be prepared for the worst. I'd hate to see you get crushed again.
2006-12-15 18:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute--stop and get the whole picture here....he says all this stuff on a site line? Can't tell me that you really think this guy is on the level--be honest. Why not a human contact in your own hometown? Certainly you can get up and go outside and talk to real people......go get a job or a hobby and make real contact--tell this guy you are too busy to talk anymore. What a scam don't you see it? How could you possibly believe that he wants to marry a girl he never met or saw? That would be a big disappointment and this is all a waste of time. Merry xmas
2006-12-15 17:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys met on the net?
Honestly you cant trust anyone from just meeting them on the net
2006-12-15 17:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by preppy_gurl101010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use new concept Gandhigiri from film Lagoraho munnabhai.
2006-12-15 17:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by haret u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theres know way to know but if youve have never met him i honestly dont think he should be saying he wants to marry you you should talk to him about tell him how concerned you are about it ...
2006-12-15 17:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by confused & in love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself time to get over the past relationship.
2006-12-15 17:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant trust anyone on net..not for committed relationships...
2006-12-15 17:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋