i have a bf ive been dating for 3 yrs. he has done so much wrong that i dont care where he goes or how long he stays gone. it use to drive me crazy when he was gone cause i didnt trust him. well i think he noticed i dont care anymore. now he hanging around me all the time. i cant get rid of him. well he has done this before when i act like i dont care. but this time i really dont care. but now that he is trying, do you think that i will come around, and start caring again? i have kind of given up hope on us. even though i care for him. he has lied alot and by passed my feelings for a while. now that it is the other way around he wants to try. should i try or just go with the flow. i really dont have no faith in us even though i care for him. what should i do?
2006-12-15 17:26:56 · 12 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well to be honest with you, you are the only one that can really answer your question. If you have given up on ya'lls relationship, and you whole heartedly have, then you have already answered your own question. Yet if you have so much as a shred of hope for ya'lls relationship then you have to ask yourself, if you feel deep inside that he really has changed, and if you want to try to work it out.... at the risk of having your heart torn again in the same ways he has already torn it. Yet it really is possible that he does love you enough and that by you treating him as he treated you... that he has felt like he made you feel and realized what he has done and is trying to make right by you for his wrong doings. I must say it is possible, yet not probable. I hope this has helped you and wish you all the best. You do deserve the best... Just Always remember that!
2006-12-15 17:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Fantasy Kel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like this guy is a real loser and he has treated you like crap throughout the three years you've been dating.
I am sure you still have feelings for him that is natural, but you need to wake up and see what is really going on .. This is not the way that normal relationships bloom and grow. The truth is, this is just little bit of hell that you're gonna have to put up with from here on if you stay with him ..
There is no future with this guy. Please do yourself a favor and move on. It just isn't worth that torment.
2006-12-15 17:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by Gnome 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi Manchester gal. feels like you've harm his ego extremely, yet which will educate him for bragging, i'd hate my G/F bragging about me. Your no longer the actually lady who fakes and orgasm. i imagine each lady and guy do at your time of their life, i understand I do if i'm drained, only to get it over with so i can get to sleep. You were courageous at being honest and also you looked as if it would have taken the time to describe the region, If he won't be able to settle for that, he desires a lesson in turning out to be up and anticipating the extraordinary failing now and back. your both taking section in ping pong in mattress, him telling you want to reduce weight, you telling him you pretend. no longer fairly a mattress time tale is it? best desires Peter
2016-10-18 08:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by ashworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is not with you at all. He is the liar who has lost his rights to your confidence. Better you have only been dating, instead of looking at divorce proceedings right now. Personally, I think you've wasted enough time on him, girl. He's just playing around with the concept of love and that's not fair to you. It sounds like he is just using you, and you deserve so much better than that out of your life. Break up with him and find someone who cares about you and enjoys making sure that your feelings are looked out for, ok? I tell people the rule to finding out who is right for you is to ask yourself this: if this person I'm dating, if we got married, and then one of us got hurt so bad that we were bedridden, can I trust him to care for me for years to come? Would he clean up after you or you after him? Once you're sure that you have found someone who that situation would be ok either way, then you have found the right person for you. Good luck!
2006-12-15 17:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by Genius Squirrel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seems like the pressure is off when he is not around, maybe it is time for you to move on girl.
2006-12-15 17:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by tracey s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have kids together, I don't see why you would want to try to work it out. Sounds like it's over!
2006-12-15 17:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a really lame, boring, horrible relationship.
2006-12-15 17:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah... there is a very slight chance that he will reignite the spark... but its probably not gonna happen
im guessing he is too agreeable, clingy or that he trying to please you too much... im pretty sure thats it.. tell him to be a MAN!
2006-12-15 17:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by ryanisalifestyle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up. He only acts right when you don't sounds like crap
2006-12-15 17:30:25 · answer #9 · answered by space case 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
spilt up and move on. you'll never be able to reestablish trust.
2006-12-15 17:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by The Dude 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋