First stop thinking you have to make everyone happy. Cause you cant' you could be the nicest person in the world and if there grumpy mean or just don't feel happy they won't they could be depressed in things. Like you are feeling now. So thats the first order of business okay you must get that out of your head that you have to be the pleaser to all cause you can never live up to that nor can you alter peoples feelings inside all you can do is make sure how you feel.
And by how your talking and not wanting to live tells me your depressed and you need to look outside of this box your in. think of all the good things in your life. Sure its nice to love and be loved but you can't think its the end of the world if you don't have that or going through a dry spell. Everyone does that your not alone. Heck people fall in and out of love plenty of times doesn't mean its the end of life. something else always comes your way.
Start thinking of the positives you have. you have your health you can see, hear. walk etc... things we take for granted. Think of the good things you do have in life and do'nt think of your short comings that will pull you down the well soon enough. you want to stay above water and always swim not sink.
So try changing your attitude on how you look at things. Trust me I know what im talking about i have had a very hard life and im only half way through it but you can't throw in the towel you just have to keep going and hope for the best. but don't let the negative or the bad things in your life control your outcome for the future.
You can make it. Have heart and keep pushing forward. You'll see the dark clouds will pass. its only temporairly
good luck.
2006-12-15 18:16:45
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answered by For ever in my Heart 7
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You seriously need to speak to a doctor about not wanting to live anymore, but first listen!
There are a lot of people that feel the same way as you do. I am one of those people. What keeps me going?, well, I believe I wake up every morning because I still have unfinished business here on Earth. I am still here to serve a purpose or to change my life or someone else's.
Guess what?, People do care, you have been neglecting yourself and giving too much too other people. This is one thing I am trying to get into my head. We have to put ourselves first. It's not selfish, it's the right thing to do. If we are unhappy with ourselves, how in world can we really help anyone else?, even though we do it on a daily basis. I'm with you girl., but take a moment and breath.
Life is beautiful, look around.
take care
2006-12-15 17:39:37
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answered by Anonymous
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You already know your problem, you stated it in the headline of your question. You have a bad temper. It's the reason why you don't have any friends and is probably the reason for your divorce. You have a bad temper because you are self centered. That is apparent from the things you say. You want to sound noble by saying that you want others around you to be happy, but let's be real, you are really looking for pity. My advice would be for you to begin to work on looking at things from other people's point of view and not always thinking of yourself so much. When you think of your previous marriage, instead of saying that it was not your fault, look for all the times when you did something that brought about the demise of that relationship. You want someone to do for you what you are not even doing for yourself. That is too much for anyone to bear. Until you change the things in yourself, these types of occurences will continue to happen in your life. They are there for a reason.
2006-12-15 17:35:41
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answered by GoodCounsel 2
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If you take your own life it is the most selfish thing to do and the people left behind are shattered.
It sounds like you need some counseling and perhaps some medication. Then you need to work on your internal self talk and change your negative attitudes.
You have more choices than you imagine. It is possible to pull yourself out of this. Stop letting love or the lack of it control your life. You are giving way too much power away to whoever hurt you. Please get help.
2006-12-15 17:36:02
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answered by clcalifornia 7
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you'd be surprised at how many of your friends might feel the same way about life. I had been going through an extremely angry, bitter and depressing time of my life and i finally went and told my best friend about it... turns out SHE had been feeling the same way, had gone to the doctors to get anti-depressants and was even wanting to end her life. I had no idea she felt the same way as me. But I know how you feel... when you get so depressed to the point of you don't want to live anymore, it is extremely hard to look at the positive parts of life and it's hard to even want to look at them. I am having boyfriend issues right now and it's weird, going on here actually is helping me feel get my mind off of it...just remember that you are not alone and you can always have someone to talk to about it and someone who will listen... like me :) or the ppl who are replying to this question
2006-12-15 17:35:45
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answered by Anonymous
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you know i use to feel like this so i look at my self in the mirror and what i did i went out to the malls and walk around ate lunch
then join a gym and meet people and started to go out to bingo some times dunning the week and some times won money lol.
so may be you should try this.you would feel a lot better about your self because when you work out in a gym you can work out your angry and stress after that you can feel really good about your self you should try it.it work for me.
2006-12-15 17:39:25
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answered by little_bear 3
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Go to the doctor and get on some depression meds. I'm sure there's people that would miss you if you were gone.
2006-12-15 17:32:15
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answered by PS 4
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