2006-12-15 17:28:55 · 15 answers · asked by Questioner 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont worry there are many people just like you..and trust me your wife will love you for it..she wont want someone whose slept with 30 guys..keep up the good work!
2006-12-15 17:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel proud of yourself, and not unusual, that you havent had sex even at 23, in this permissive age. You must have felt peer pressure to show that you too have had sex, and the fact that you have resisted it so far shows your upbringing. ( I am presuming that your virginity doesnt arise from factors such as problems like erectile dysfunction (impotency) or other medical causes, and that you are a normal person choosing to remain a virgin so far.)
When you do decide to give up your virginity, get some good girl who has been a virgin like you, ao that both of you would lose virginity at the same time, and that too after marriage. The concept of sex only after marriage seems to have been given a burial, unfortunately, in modern society.
If you have voluntarily controlled your sex urges so far ( excluding masturbation to a reasonable extent which every male resorts to in his life), you should be commended for it. Dont worry about what others might say, but go by the strength of your own convictions all your life. You will turn out to be a fine person!
2006-12-16 01:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unusual? Nah...rare is more like it. Guys are sooo willing to just give it up to any girl these days. But then again..you have to ask yourself just WHY you haven't had a girlfriend. I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. At least, not one that I think counts. But thats just because I've known these guys since elementary school. I know everything about them..and there's no fun in that..
2006-12-16 01:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, I don't think you should. Sex is a beautiful thing but if a person hasn't found the right person yet or hasn't found the right one yet + would like to wait until they're married for that, that's nothing to feel unusual about - it's something to feel commendable about.
2006-12-16 01:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Ilmari_Karjalainen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your are only 23! Some people like allansc2005 or whatever his name is, is 40 something and still a VIRGIN! He has only had cyber sex.
2006-12-16 01:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not about the virgin thing but yes bout the gf thing im 12 and i have a girl that likes me well sry if i insulted u
2006-12-16 01:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by environmentalistpenguinsinginggw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't trip man, you'll be dipping your carrot soon. Look for a real nice girl.
2006-12-16 01:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i give you mad props for being a virgin. i actually find it very sexy! the lady you eventually marry will be very lucky. its would make me have more respect for you.
2006-12-16 01:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope be proud! Stand tall and just wait u will find the one.
2006-12-16 01:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all. some people take advantage of their youth by doing homework, getting employment and other life changing steps. i hope you are one of those.
2006-12-16 01:33:20 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋