Family & Relationships - 15 December 2006

Even after reading all that was presented, I am still not sure of the answer. My step-dad has been living with a woman for close to 4 years in California.... since not too long after my mother died. My step-dad and my mom were married for well over 20 years. We are very close, but I have several worries about him and the woman he is with now...... and I wonder if she is trying to gain something monetarily through common law marriage or whatever...... she is from out of the country, but just got her U.S. citizenship......
Does anyone know about what rights she could try to claim?
Appreciate any knowledge here.....
This whole situation makes me sick.....

2006-12-15 17:01:37 · 6 answers · asked by denise g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-15 16:59:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So we hung out at my college thursday night, she slept over. So today we go back to my house she drops me off. We planed to hangout so i get a messase is it cool if i hangout with me friends b/c i have to be home early b/c i have work and were going tohang out tommorow. So i argued for a little and then i said fine. She said she be home by 12 so i caller 12 15 and she hasnt answered or called me back. shouldi be mad?

2006-12-15 16:58:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I don't know why, but I love to share my practice of philately with small children, they really love the licking involved. Is this normal?

2006-12-15 16:58:40 · 8 answers · asked by rh3706 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 16:58:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 16:57:32 · 15 answers · asked by sexygirl4adam 2 in Singles & Dating

I wish I could genetically engineer my own men. Maybe then, they'd come out right.

2006-12-15 16:56:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy who's an RA in my building. We've had casual conversations, and he's occasionally asked me out to eat with him and his friends or just with him. He doesn't really seek me out, but sometimes he'll stop and chat with me for a few minutes. Other times he rushes by with an abrupt "hi" as if he doesn't have the time or interest to stop. A couple of times he's touched my hair, either with his hand or by hitting me with a piece of paper. When he and his friends talked to me tonight, he looked at me a lot, which he usually doesn't do. He told us where he was going for dinner, but didn't ask us along. He also told me he was going to have a boring weekend. Should I take these as hints that he wants company? I want to ask him to coffee, but I'm not sure if he only talks to me because I'm a resident and it's his responsibility as an RA. I'm also in a floundering relationship, and I think he knows. Is he interested, or just polite? Should I ask him to hang out?

2006-12-15 16:56:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend and I have been friends for 6years and we have always been very close. I mean no matter what the situation is we always had each others back. We have always been there for 1 another during each other's most highest point as well as the lowest and all that's in betweem. No 1 or thing could come between what we created not even family members. Now the problem is that my friend got into an ugly situation with a couple of her family members and at the particular time or moment I was'nt on her side. I felt at that time that some of the things she said was'nt cool and I let her know that. Later on when things cool down I talked to her again about the situation and let her know where I felt she was incosiderate at,I also amitted that I had a conversation about her with1of the family members.I later apolgized for my action but she admitts dat cause of my action with the family member she no longer feels the same about me. Now I'm a hater and the bond is broken.Im not a hater hel

2006-12-15 16:55:23 · 5 answers · asked by mnmpeices 2 in Friends

2006-12-15 16:55:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 16:55:17 · 23 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

met a girl via MSN about a month ago. I have loads of fun chatting with her... she's friendly, cute, funny and beautiful at the same time.
The problem is i think i like her.
She already has a boyfriend but she seems unhappy with him..
once she said she had more fun chatting with me then with her bf.
Should i tell her what i feel now or what ?
and she invited me to a site .. www.lovehappens.com...
what is happening and waht should i do ?

2006-12-15 16:55:12 · 6 answers · asked by Stalloyde 1 in Singles & Dating

...make you dump him? Think of one nasty, creepy, bad thing or habit that would be an instant turn off for you, assuming you did not already know about it beforehand.

2006-12-15 16:54:18 · 15 answers · asked by Middy S 2 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when you dont want to have sex with your wife? You been married a long time (18 yrs) and you and your wife are just basiclly roomates. youve had alot of crap you both overcame and theirs alot of hurt on both parts. your wife tries to make occational moves on you but, you dont want to do it. 4 months worth of dont wanna do it. Why.
What would be your reasoning for this?

2006-12-15 16:54:13 · 11 answers · asked by Crissy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm so tired...that's why i'm here. how about you?
are you glad you're home or would you rather be out somewhere?

2006-12-15 16:54:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We broke up over a year ago, and she has gotten married in this past year and seems to be really happy. She is kind and polite to me around others but she gives me this look that is hard to explain its not happy or sad but its like why didnt you marry me. Although she is married do you think she still has feelings for me?

2006-12-15 16:54:00 · 4 answers · asked by SONNY_D 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 16:53:47 · 7 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 16:53:05 · 2 answers · asked by DFlavor 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother was diagnosed with cancer and within 2 weeks she was gone. I'm really having a hard time coping. I am mad at everyone. I wan't my mom back. Life doesn't feel worth living but it's still here. How do I live without my best friend?

2006-12-15 16:52:49 · 9 answers · asked by jacksonvillegarycollins 3 in Family

I have a small business and i just cannot give up. I am getting deeper and deeper in debt but everyone keeps saying don't give up, things will get better. I have dreams of things piling up on me and caving in but i just cannot say "I quit". Its the hardest thing in the world for me.

2006-12-15 16:52:14 · 10 answers · asked by rose 1 in Family

2006-12-15 16:50:59 · 21 answers · asked by Jacks036 5 in Marriage & Divorce

what they inspire or attract to?

2006-12-15 16:49:53 · 20 answers · asked by harini h 1 in Singles & Dating

Let's just say you keep having dreams about a person you can no longer have a relationship with due to the fact that the person is now married with kids, and the dreams become more and more realistic (including sense of touch and colors like red) and emotional and more and more frequent. You know this person is not happily married, but you can't seem to stop thinking about them and they've mentioned in the past that they dreamed about you and missed you, and you also know you've had no luck dating since you went out with said person. You also know that contacting this person is a bad idea. What do you do?

2006-12-15 16:49:49 · 25 answers · asked by raiyneofgailin 2 in Singles & Dating

to put it bluntly, i am interested in this girl who is one of my classes

but there are a couple of problems:
1 there is no time to talk in that class or anytime surrounding that class
2 it would be really awkward to strike up a conversation with the class situation
3 i am so shy it is not even funny
4 this is driving me insane


any advice?

2006-12-15 16:49:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 16:49:06 · 17 answers · asked by angelsweet 1 in Singles & Dating

My aunt and uncle gave me $ 100 dollars for Hannukah ! I am very thankful and everything but then my older brother got $ 200 ! I think they love him more!
Why did they do that he is like 1 year older than me!

2006-12-15 16:49:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i m 21/m from pakistan, i was sexualy exploited many times.i was not concious that, how serious this matter realy is . no body knows abou this but you guys.i need your help,what should i do now. feeling guilty everytime,living in inferiority complex,has no confidence to face this fact cuase of people ? you guys please help!!

2006-12-15 16:48:51 · 3 answers · asked by !i!i!i**\/\/@q@$**!i!i!i 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need to know what would you get your girlfriend for christmas if she lived 2000 miles away... i really want to show her i really care for her... Thanks! (Not too expensive by the way... so no diamonds! lol)

2006-12-15 16:48:51 · 8 answers · asked by jess 1 in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy for a little over a year. I really liked him but found out that he was full of lies, and was dating someone else in his hometown. Whats a good way to anonymously get revenge?

2006-12-15 16:48:50 · 10 answers · asked by lezmone 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 16:47:57 · 26 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Singles & Dating