My best friend and I have been friends for 6years and we have always been very close. I mean no matter what the situation is we always had each others back. We have always been there for 1 another during each other's most highest point as well as the lowest and all that's in betweem. No 1 or thing could come between what we created not even family members. Now the problem is that my friend got into an ugly situation with a couple of her family members and at the particular time or moment I was'nt on her side. I felt at that time that some of the things she said was'nt cool and I let her know that. Later on when things cool down I talked to her again about the situation and let her know where I felt she was incosiderate at,I also amitted that I had a conversation about her with1of the family members.I later apolgized for my action but she admitts dat cause of my action with the family member she no longer feels the same about me. Now I'm a hater and the bond is broken.Im not a hater hel
2006-12-15 16:55:23 · 5 answers · asked by mnmpeices 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ask her if she wants honesty or if she wants someone to lie to her and tell her things are ok when they are not. chances are she will want honesty. tell her you'll always be there for her and you'll be the one to keep it real with her and not be fake like some other people may be. let her know that sometimes this may cause you to disagree with her but that your always there for her no matter what.
2006-12-15 17:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is your true friend she will/should be able to look back and realize she was out of order and she was wrong...and you have a right to think what you like...just bcz two people are tight doesn't mean they are always gonna agree on everything...you are a not a hater but you may need to step back for awhile to let her to get her head right...she probably is mad at you bcz she knows you are right and she is too embarassed to admit that she was out of order...
2006-12-15 17:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by nackawicbean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is try to make her understand that you did what you did out of Luv for her. That you were concerned about what she was saying, cause it wasn't like her. And from now on, if you all have a prob. Go to her, straight to her, and express your thoughts. She's feelin you betrayed her, and yeah, you kinda did. Prove to her it won't happen again.
2006-12-15 17:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by Julie S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
true friendship is being able to be totally honest with eachother. try to talk to her again.
2006-12-15 17:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by space case 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She posted the other night that you were spreading "nasty" rumors about her.
2006-12-15 16:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋