Let's just say you keep having dreams about a person you can no longer have a relationship with due to the fact that the person is now married with kids, and the dreams become more and more realistic (including sense of touch and colors like red) and emotional and more and more frequent. You know this person is not happily married, but you can't seem to stop thinking about them and they've mentioned in the past that they dreamed about you and missed you, and you also know you've had no luck dating since you went out with said person. You also know that contacting this person is a bad idea. What do you do?
2006-12-15 16:49:49 · 25 answers · asked by raiyneofgailin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let's just say you keep having dreams about a person you can no longer have a relationship with due to the fact that the person is now married with kids, and the dreams become more and more realistic (including sense of touch and colors like red) and emotional and more and more frequent. You know this person is not happily married, but you can't seem to stop thinking about them and they've mentioned in the past that they dreamed about you and missed you, and you also know you've had no luck dating since you went out with said person. You also know that contacting this person is a bad idea. What do you do? HOW do you do it??
2006-12-15 17:15:05 · update #1
no matter how you feel, you must consider the fact that he is a married guy with kids and destroying a family isnt a good thing. it was his choice to get married..
2006-12-15 16:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by ria 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to walk away from this. If the marriage is bad, it will end on it's own. Don't be the cause of it. Imagine if you were in the wife's shoes. I know that it can be painful, but are you wanting this person because you can't have them? I've been there before and the nonstop thinking and dreaming of that person, put my life on hold for 6 years. What did I get out of it??? NOTHING. All you have is time. Don't rush or push anything. It will happen for you. Whether it is him or someone else. Good luck...
2006-12-15 16:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love isnt a thing you can fight but you cant fight the fact he is married with kids either. If he is willing to leave his wife and settle for visitation with his children then maybe trying to work things out is good. But dont be a home wrecker. BUT you can reck a home thats already recked. So think logically, plan ahead, and dont live in a dream. We live in reality and reality has consequences and you have to think before you act. Good Luck.
2006-12-15 16:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by to0_lo0ve_yo0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and stop thinking about the person. Get them out of your head. After a few days or a week they'll be history.
2006-12-15 16:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by twicewise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A band like AC/DC could not pull a love ballad without ruining their photo. They paintings for a few bands, and they do not for others. AC/DC is nearly entirely specific from some other band at the scene. They're curious about a laugh, kicking again, and letting it out. I doubt the men could **** round and do it.
2016-09-03 12:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by yarrington 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This shows that you're deepl in love with'em...
but dear this is not going to happen
Coz he's a married person and now if you go to him and display your feeling then perhaps his house will break.
Think about his kids..
where will the go ????
Coz kids usually suffer due to their parents...
so try to keep your mind off them..
and make your self more busy so that you dont have any time to think about all that.
And trust me, i know whats the pain of Father & mother sepperation coz i've suffered it...
and even i know the sorrow of love when you fall apart from the person you love.
So Best of luck.
2006-12-15 16:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by zubi k 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
All you can do is hope his marriage falls apart. Since he told you that he has had similar dreams about you, there's hope.
It sounds like his marriage just might not be working out, all that well.
I would talk to him on an occasional basis and wait and see.
You know he thinks of you often, so that's a good sign.
Good luck.
2006-12-15 16:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by Molly 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well...i'm in a similar problem....i kept having vivid dreams about this other guy..i ended up contacting the guy and its caused lots of problems cause i'm in a relationship (however the other guy said he dreams of me too)...so i'd say do something new...either go away on vacation or do something different sexually with someone else...anything to get your mind off of it.
2006-12-15 16:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do nothing because like it or not....he's married with kids. He isn't with you. You can never move forward if you are stuck in the past. If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you. Just because he mentioned that he dreamed about you...dont get your hopes up. I had a dream about Tom Cruise and he and I aren't gonna be hooking up anytime soon. ;-)
2006-12-15 16:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by Tori 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Get on with your life and find someone who isn't married. Stop living in the past and wishing for something that can't be. If he is trying to get back with you while still married, tell him to get lost.
2006-12-15 16:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by Country girl 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋