2006-12-15 16:55:17 · 23 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO, i can't believe that people think that what they are feeling just by looking at someone is love. In that one moment, you can't know their personality, their good and bad characteristics, habits and flaws. Those are the things people fall in love with, not looks. What everyone thinks is love at first sight, is really lust and desire. You can not fall in love with someone by seeing them for the first time, without knowing their personality.
I think what these other people are saying is that now they love that person, and they just think they loved them at first sight?
2006-12-15 17:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by jenny s 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I truly do! I met many guys for lunch and movies through a dating service. I started thinking that I would never meet the right person. Then, one day he called me and we planned on meeting in four months at a coffee shop an hour drive for each of us.
No one called the other to verify this in four months. We just basically went to that coffee shop as planned. He was there, and oh my golly...I couldn't believe it..we spent six hours at that coffee shop, then we drove to another coffee shop half an hour from there and spent another six hours there. Then we both drove home. I couldn't think of anything but him! We kept things cool for a time and I still went to the movies with some other guys.
I went to a party near where he lives and he said to stop by if I wasn't having a great time. I did that..and we have been together for nineteen years in March. We got married last year.
2006-12-15 17:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. An uncontrollable attraction in the route of someone you purely met isn't love in the initiating sight. it truly is in problem-free words attraction. you do not comprehend something about them to justify with the flexibility to say that you adore or are even "in love" with them.
2016-11-26 22:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in picking up a vibe with a guy
Love can't happen at first sight since you haven't even gotten to know the person yet or WHO the person is like their character.
2006-12-15 16:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by India 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being attracted to someone, yes. You have to get to know a person before you can say you are truly in love with them. You can't honestly say that you are in love with someone based only upon their looks. That's lust, not love.
2006-12-15 16:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by doodlebugg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I think there is a lust in first sight, but until you get to know someone you can't really love them.
2006-12-15 16:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by bluechick 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nah..I don't believe love at first sight exists. Lust, definately. And who says that isn't a great start?
2006-12-15 16:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe lust at first sight, but not love. You can't love someone until you know something more about them besides their looks.
2006-12-15 16:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Love_Forever 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not. But lust at first sight, or just like I do believe in.
2006-12-15 16:57:41 · answer #9 · answered by reflective_pool 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, and i believe in Lust at first site too
2006-12-15 16:58:22 · answer #10 · answered by Crissy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋