Do MEN respect women that have sex before marriage with men?

Question

Notice I wrote "men" instead of "man"

I mean like do they respect women who had sex with many men or more then HIMSELF before marriage.

I MEAN LIKE IF THEY ARE GOING TO MARRY THIS WOMAN!!

Answer 1

I say no, in the first place its hard to find a man with any respect for women, but then again, a woman can always gain respect when she has allure and class. Beauty + Brains = Respect. Sex is unavoidable in the twenty first century, but sex in excess to the point where you begin to have a reputation is totally grounds for a man to disrespect a woman. If you hang out with guys, listen to them when they think your not. They'll start to talk about sex and then start talking about sex with certain girls to their friends. In my mind these guys don't respect these women. They only respect women they love or who they want to maintain a relationship with. Casual sex = little to no respect. Sex with a history of some kind of relationship usually = a greater amount of respect among men. In the long run, I think most men would prefer to marry a woman who more or less is all his. Think about it, it's never fun to have a boyfriend who's hooked up with every girl you know! All the ladies have already experienced your new catch! Respect comes with time before sex. Hold out for awhile and your sure to have him calling you, not for sex alone but for a piece of your mind as well!

Answer 2

Depends on the guy and what his beliefs are. I slept with my husband before marriage (he was my first and only) and I know he respected me. However, there are some men who do not respect a woman who has sex before marriage with other guys or even them for that matter.

Answer 3

nicely the cat is out of the lower back now- no longer particular or somewhat care "how adult males would reply" as a lady- I care a great deal! that's in problem-free words a "idea" and in no way a accessible one at this aspect in heritage. female have the right to say sure or no. Its a call, no longer a social clamity. I do imagine that a sense of emotional adulthood and an excellent own duty comes with having sexual relationships. WHY- Have premarrital sex- because i had to "attempt before i purchase" with each and every thing in existence- at the same time with a existence better 0.5 with each and each and every of the operating factors. If in problem-free words after I signed on the doted line- i wanted a healthful relationship and little ones. We made particular it replaced into all good.

Answer 4

I think virginity is so rare now that men just be careful not to marry a woman that is promiscuous. Some men enjoy knowing their mate is experienced, but it's not the best news of the day.

If a woman is a virgin, I think she should consider finding a virgin man (another rarity). Still, being in love is more important. I think she is in a perfect place to teach the man spiritual intimacy from the start so he doesn't have to learn it later.

Answer 5

I think to most men it doesn't matter. Some men like an experienced woman, other prefer a virgin, so really it depends on the man.

I guess the perfect woman would be an virgin who is a FREAK in bed. Good Luck finding one of those!

Answer 6

It depends on the guy, a respectable guy would respect you regardless of your past, but an a**hole would point it out and make a big issue out of it!

Answer 7

If she feels respect for herself he will feel that too. You sure don't want to many of those before marriage.

Answer 8

Well, it's a good way to tell a good man from a bad one. If he doesn't respect you, yet has has premarital sex himself, he's a stupid asshole.

Answer 9

Absolutely! My wife and I were not virgins when we married. We both had other partners before we met. It had no effect whatsoever on our mutual respect.

Answer 10

No, unfortunately the vast majority of them don't. I wouldn't do it. Men are shallow and thoughtless and give little to no consideration for a woman's feelings. Most anyways..