2006-12-15 16:53:47 · 7 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't say it is really a matter of respect ......
more if they choose to ACCEPT fact that she had other guys before him.
2006-12-15 16:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that guys can have premarital sex and women can't? I don't want to get married until I'm in my thirties so, I'm not going to wait that long. There is nothing wrong with sex as long as it's between two consenting adults who both want it. My boyfriend doesn't care that I've been with other men. That was before I had ever even met him, and since we've been dating I've always been faithful. He's been with other women before me, and I don't care. I love him and he loves me, we just aren't married.
Do what you want as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else. And unless you want to have kids, always remember safe sex or no sex. Birth control, condoms, etc are always a must have.
2006-12-16 01:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by Manx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. My boyfriend and I have talked marriage for some time now (we've been together for three years. He's in his 30s; I'm in my 20s). I think it would have been unrealistic of us to expect that the other person was a virgin. We're older and all. :) But he respects me regardless of my past, and I respect him regardless of his. We love each other as is.
2006-12-16 00:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
mum is the word here...wat one doesnt know cant make one judgemental about it. Unless your past is of the kind which can interfere with your future, you dont need to divulge it to ur would be..then no question of respecting or otherwise arises. Personally as i am a virgin, it would hurt me if my fiance was not...
2006-12-16 01:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by pembanboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if he loves you and if he wants to marry you - than he should accept you as YOU....and realize that past is PAST - he is your FUTURE!
2006-12-16 00:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mekayla 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some do respect
2006-12-16 00:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not care just so she has not had as many men as i have had women and no like std or anything i would not care at all
2006-12-16 00:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋