What if its vice versa and the guy is 19 and the girl is 15? Or, to add on to it, what if this 4 year age gap takes place when the girl is 23 and the guy is 19? Or the guy 23 and the girl 19? Does the older age make the age gap less of an issue? Does the fact that the girl is older make the age gap more of an issue? Just wanting many opinions, so feel free to express away.
2006-12-15 18:24:59 · 8 answers · asked by jessica r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're speaking about yourself, then I'd go for it !!!
Older chicks are the way to learn what chicks like and don't like. I was 20 she was 24 (nurse) and we had a great time and she taught me lots of things. You wouldn't want to get real extreme though, ( Like 10 years) not until you're older.
Just remember life is basiclly a learning curve so the more you find out when your young the less you'll have to learn later.
( About women and life in general)
2006-12-15 18:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by Clyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of odd because of the age difference. Age doesn't matter to some, but it's really all relative; I think in high school, middle school, even early college, a gap like that can be telling of the older partner. On a maturity level, it seems kinda iffsky if they're fishing around in the younger group. I'd advise being cautious, but you know the situation much better, as you're directly involved.
2016-05-22 22:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the way I see it, age is just a number. I have been with a guy who was 2 years younger and now my current boyfriend is 6 years older. I am 20 and he is 26. The main difference in the two is that the first guy was way less mature than I was and it just didnt work out well. He was controlling and possessive. But the guy I am dating now is totaly opposite. What I think is, there shouldnt really be an issue with age because its all relative to the way people act. But thats just my oppinion!
2006-12-15 18:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Angel52186 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A four or five year difference in ages (regardless of sex) is not important. However, if one of the persons (either sex) is over 18 and the other is under 18 then the older person is in serious trouble with the Police and the younger one is stupid. Don't do it.
2006-12-15 18:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it does, and the difference is simple experience, now a 19 yr old would understand what i meant while a 15 yr old would what? huh?, ha ha u mean sex, that's how naive a minor can be when the age difference occurs while the couple is older is simply because they are older and mature and understand life's consequences more than younger teens.
2006-12-15 18:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by JOhNe=mc² 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better when the man is older but not by more than 5 years. Women tend to get old faster because of child bearing and nursing and other community social demands.
2006-12-15 18:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
samething, i know a lot of people say boys can overcome and handle sex better at a younger age, and not end up on a strip club or on walfer. but, . . . nope, I guess i was wrong.
2006-12-15 18:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by BERT G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it's a problem..if they really love each other then who cares??
2006-12-15 18:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋