i'm a girl who is smart and responsible and have no past love life coz i study...i do have suitors but i mastered the art of saying no to them bec. i like this guy alot....he's much better than he's "cool" friends,he smarter and more sincere...but he likes a girl in 9th grade i'm in the 8th...what can i do to compete with this better looking girl to get his attention???
he also can be a player with girls...he sometimes make comments that immply he likes a girl...yet he'll repeat it to another girl 2 mins. later...he could be serious but i dont know. when???
I could try to be his friend but he doesnt give anyone his num.
if i ask his friends they'll know i'm interested.
If i talk to him he's just answering in 2-5 words,
or he just teases me alot.
would i keep trying to get his attention or just forget him, coz we might never even be friends to start with and i'll just move on and be dissapointed in myself for liking a guy knowing i dont have a chance with like i always do???
HELP!!!
2006-12-15 19:54:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is just a crush. you will get over it.
i had 3 or 4 cushes on different guys in 8th grade. i got over each one and never told them. i did flirt with them but did not try to date them or be their girlfirend.
you said he is a playa. why get involved with a guy you know will play with your emotions and make you all crazy?
just keep crushin and don't try to get wih him.. hey you can even flirt back with him but do not get with him. you will just be a notch on his belt.
2006-12-15 19:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by kdf_333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a 20 year old guy i don't remember too much what it was like the be that age but I'm pretty sure that it is best to go for what you want in life..i always have I'm with the girl of my dreams...but i had to wait 3 years for her! if you really want to get this guys attention the best way would be to do a few things...
Dress to Impress: get his attention by dressing in things you know you look good in and things that make you feel confident and possibly even sexy
Flirt: this is simple...joke with him..touch him as much as you can, i know that even when a girl touches me on the back or waist as they are walking by me or whatever i get excited
Laugh: if he says something a little bit funny just laugh
the combination of these things should get his attention...don't be shy!! go for what you want...if you have to tell him you want him
there's nothing hotter than a girl saying that....
Good luck to you!:)
2006-12-15 20:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay focused in school, there are much better things in life than stressing about guys...whether you want to hear it or not, you will eventually meet one when the time comes.
When I tried looking for mine it never worked, the man I'm with right now we had been working together for a few months when he asked me out...its been 4 years since that day and we are now living together.
Just be patient and your time will come, guaranteed.
2006-12-15 19:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by monkeysgirl04 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's for you to decide. If you really like him, go for it. That's what high school/middle school is all about. Eventually you'll learn that those types of guys are nothing but trouble, but for now, kick back and play the field. You aren't getting married tomorrow.
2006-12-15 20:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by Low Key 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget about him. The right guy will not be mean or snobbish to you.
2006-12-15 19:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by jen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will need help if you get the guy that is a player.
2006-12-15 19:58:03 · answer #6 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeay-ah
2006-12-15 19:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
act snobbish and hard to get thats if he likes u as well
2006-12-15 19:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please find someone who clicks with u,not a snob who is probably afraid of any girl with a mind.YOU ARE YOUNG ,no need to rush into anything.
2006-12-15 19:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, he is jus a fraud. he is a play boy. If u r flirteous, u can flirt w/ him. If u want true love, leave him, he is a bad choice
2006-12-15 19:58:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kirsten 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋