My boyfriend and I have been dating 2 years. Overall most things are good on a daily basis. But, lately he has been lying to me all the time. Like tonight, he said he was going out for an hour or two with the guys. Well, it is 3:30 AM and he is still not home--and I asked him to bring me something to eat hours ago. The other day he told me, I',m going to the store, be right back. Two hours later I had to call him to find out where he was. Even last night I woke up at 5 in the AM and he wasn't in bed next to me. When I asked him about it, he lied and said he was there--I know he was not I stayed awake until almost 7AM before he came back to bed.
What's with all the lying?
2006-12-15 19:28:50 · 11 answers · asked by rchl782 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My dear lady~
Do yourself a favor and get rid of him. I can't begin to hypothesize on what he may be doing, but I can say this: truth is the most important thing in a relationship. If you can't trust him, he's not worth ****.
Even though you may love him, and it'll hurt to get rid of him you have to drop him. It'll save you pain in the long run.
We have a tendency to make excuses or ignore "minor" problems. It's easier to do this than to make a difficult decision.
You have to love yourself right now and say, "If he's going to lie, I'm out of here."
It's tough, but people can be selfish.
PEACE OUT.
2006-12-15 19:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do to make him stop lying. He's going to do it because that's what he's used to doing and he knows he can get away with it. You've already decided to accept this and you're not going to settle for more, since you've already decided to settle for less. That less is a lying possibly cheating boyfriend. Either way, you know you can't trust him, but you're okay with that. You've made your bed, so now you have to sleep in it. Too bad you don't know you deserve better. Trust. ';-()
2016-05-22 22:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lying because he's a guy and this is what guys do.
Dump his sorry ***!! You're too good to be treated like that.
2006-12-15 19:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Jen Armero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its maybe because you arent ment to be together. As sad as it sounds itmight be true.
If he contstantly lies. Then its probably that! Sorry
2006-12-15 19:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by ang x marieeeee. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously doesn't respect you any more than you respect yourself, or he wouldn't be lying to you and you wouldn't be dating him. Kick him to the curb and move on.
2006-12-15 19:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Feeling new @ 42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems he got bored with your friendship..... Inorder to drop you soon he may do so
2006-12-15 19:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by barath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes cheating-
dump him-
then read the book "he's just not that into you" buy greg behrend
2006-12-15 19:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes cheating on you honey.......Im sorry but thats like a big super sign
2006-12-15 19:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by lothargrl_4_life 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably lies to YOU because YOU are the one dumb enough to date him.
2006-12-15 19:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by painfully_average 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe he bored...make changes...you can do it.
2006-12-15 19:36:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋