do you think women flirt with djs cuz my bf is a dj and its causing problems between us. i dont trust him. when we are together he looks at other women and stares at them. so it makes me wonder what is he doing at these parties. i know it could be flirting going on. so i would really appreciate your opinon. ty. he has lied to me in the past so that is why im trying to be real about this so i will know what i need to do clearly in the future. breaking up is an option. cuz i dont need a flirting lieing dj as a boyfriend.
2006-12-15 19:30:24 · 21 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he looks at other women in your presence, then there is almost a one hundred percent chance that he is doing that and more in your absence. Furthermore, I advise women not to date men from various professions: massage therapy & dj's. These are two fields that expose a man to almost constant temptation and if he is in any way weak to the charms of women, he won't last. Let him go before you have to deal with a broken heart.
2006-12-15 19:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by GoodCounsel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl..Let the truth be spoken! DJ's cant be trusted!!!! I mean c'mon,chics dress their best when their out at clubs and to most of them the scene at the club is some sort of fantasy land where they can try just about anything...ESPECIALLY flirt with the DJ! I highly doubt they'll care if he has a girl!
You obviously have trust issues with ur boyfriend. Not saying ya'll should break up.BUT just make sure u+him find common ground!
Good luck!
2006-12-15 19:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sistr P* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi -
All men flirt but so do all women. anyone wo says they don't is just not being honest to themselves.
That being said, part of a DJ's job is to flirt with the patrons. The least he could do is to admit that to you.
The main issue here is trust. You either trust him or you don't! If you don't trust him then it's over. With no trust there is no relationship. And you also know what they say.
"Once a cheater, always a cheater!"
2006-12-15 19:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by kellz_car 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not be with someone you cant trust!!! but if he is a dj, he probably doesnt have enough time to flirt, djs have to pay attention to what they are doing and keep the music goin. but i would never be with a guy that stares at other women. next time you see him stare at another woman slap him in the head and tell him that if he loves you then he should stare at you.
2006-12-15 19:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Working as a DJ is one of those things that puts a person in contact with lots of members of the opposite sex in a festive atmosphere. That's a scenario that if he is not emotionally devoted to you, will prove too tempting for him to resist. It's not that he's a bad person, but you have to understand that committing to someone is an act of maturity, that if pushed too soon will lead to misunderstandings and hurt. You may want to ease-up a little with him, and instead of wondering if he's creeping on you...look at him in terms of how mature he acts. Real Love requires a grown-up state of mind....
2006-12-15 19:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the person but i have had friends that hooked up with djs at clubs. i know he probably sees alot of women dressed for the clubs and i mean the whole thing...the cleavage and short skirts. if i were you, i'd ask him about this. but most guys deny cheating but flirting/cheating is different from acting on it. as in, maybe he is attracted but loves you too much to do this. but, that is what we all want...most cases i'm sure there is alot that goes on where wandering eyes are concerned. i hope i gave you some insight. good luck!
2006-12-15 19:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by kowalley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wud say that if its been an issue in the past then its still on the table. Maybe you could ask around to get more info, theres no point bringing something up that isnt an issue.
But on the other hand you could try and confront him, if hes been blatently looking at women, then theres some issue. Try to be sensitive at first, not all guns blazing. Ask him why, becuase he doesnt like you? etc. may get to the root of the problem
x
2006-12-15 19:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by scout_wolof 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL YEAH THEY FLIRT WITH DJ'S!
My friend is a dj and his girls solution to this problem was going with him to the places he was dj. Sometimes is doesnt hurt to look but let him know that you there for him to look at all the time.
2006-12-15 19:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Running Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is kinda part of the job,your there to make people happy.And well girls flirt also.But young guys it's in there blood,just natural they like to look and the hormones are racing.But you said he lied to you.You will have to decide if you can over look the lie and trust him.Trust is the most important ! No trust no relationship.and if he can't take the time to make you feel comfortable with him.It's time to move on.That's one guys opinion.
2006-12-15 19:44:39 · answer #9 · answered by knightrider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is fine. HOWEVER, the lying is not. Trust is one of the most important aspects in a relationship and you don't have that. If you trusted him completely the meaningless and harmless flirting would mean nothing to you. But since you don't trust him, it bothers you.
Move on.
2006-12-15 19:44:51 · answer #10 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋