Do you think i do stand a chance to get her ??

Question

she is a sales/business development manager.Aged around 30,single and is pretty attractive.I am a 27 Year software developer.Most of my life i have spent around books and technicalities...Until one day i went to breakfast where she also used to come for having break fast.I saw her a couple of times...and i do not know how it happened..but my heart used to beat fast when i see her.In a matter of couple of months she and i both started recongnzing each other...She and i both used to look at each other and smile...by now i really wanted to go and talk to her...but not sure how.Well well...God worked it out for me...my company had arranged an expo event where she had come and voila!!! there i saw her...I found a situation and went and talked to her finally when she was alone.Later we met couple of times at break fast...talked about all kind of things she asked me questions like am i married...Will i marry same girl of my cast what do i/ususally my parents

will look for when we chose a girl...stuf like
that...she did not tell much about her...but...revealed that she is still single and lives alone...[ like me ] we always used to meet at breakfast in hurry...so i called her one fine evening and asked her out for dinner over week end...She was fine and said "It sounds good" ...everything went fine....I mailed her next week regarding the possible good places...where we can go for dinner...She now says "i am busy with my boyfriend over the week end but we can always meet at breakfast sometime"...I just do not understand.what went wrong....I have seen her looking at me and my heart some how says she likes me.I really do not know what to do further...Tomorrow is my birthday.I am plannind to meet her over evening for a cup of coffee and get her some sweets...of my birthday.What should i do to win her over ? I really like her..and want to hold her hand for rest of my Life...I do not know but my heart says shis the first and last of my Life

Answer 1

Well I hate to say this but it sounds like maybe once you two met and started talking she just lost any interest she may have had. Best thing to really do is don't push. If she has lost interest then trying to talk her into seeing you or going out will make things worse. She may start avoiding you all together if she feels trapped or she feels like your staking her. Not to say that's what your doing or anything but if she feels like that then she will avoid you all together. Maybe you should just lay low and just tell her anytime she wants to have breakfast or coffee let you know. If she See's that your not pursuing her like she expected you to ;she may start to pursue you.

Answer 2

well
try to know if she really has a boy friend, if so try to know her commitment towards him,if she really means it,
better just be her friend.

if he is just her friend ,& she does not have any such things ,
then tell her abt ur feelings, if she agrees ,then u proceed.
before coming to the decision of marrying her ,make sure that u both really LOVE each other,
it may even be a infatuation.

ALL THE BEST.,

Answer 3

you must talk to her about your feelings to her,ask her if her relation with her bf is serious ,i think she doesnt know you're interested in her than much because shes older than you..go and ask her and tell her about what is in ur heart and see what she will react..

Answer 4

IT SOUND TO ME THAT YOU REALLY LIKE THE LADY AND IF YOU FEEL SHE IS THE RIGHT ONE FOR YOU WHY WAITING, YOU KNOW A LADY CAN WAIT JUST SO LONG GOOD LUCK AND IF YOU WILL KEEP ME POSTED.I HOLD MY THUMBS FOR YOU THAT EVERYTHING WILL GO WELL.

Answer 5

If you want her, go and get her. She sounds like a wonderful woman.

Answer 6

everyperson has a chance to love and to be loved.. by the way i didnt finish reading ur novel. i got bored..