He just assumed I was going to come see him tonight after work...?

Question

Does he have me wrapped around his little finger or what?


Or was it a slip of the tongue and it doesn't mean anything?

He told me to bring his stuff to him after work. He has already asked me to say good bye to him every night. And I do. Am I under his spell or what?

And what's his position in all this...just friends or what?

I'm crazy about him!

I was cool with what he wanted me to do. I thought it was revealing that he assumed I'd be there. I thought it was cute, too.

We work together. I had part of his lunch at my desk. He wanted me to bring it to him "when you come see me tonight"...I thought it was sweet that he reminded me I was coming to see him.

Answer 1

Nope....he wants you girl...... but you didn't specify a thing about how you feel about him....only that you're responding like a pet.....

Answer 2

It seems that you are unsure of your relationship with this guy. How long have you known each other? and What do you want from this relationship?

Sometimes, when you have been with somone for a while, you tend to take the other person for granted. And hence, his assumption to see you soon after work means he already felt it as a routine. If it makes you uneasy, you should be comfortable enough to raise this issue.

If this relationship is making you uncomfortable or unsure, you need to sit and discuss the matter. There is no point thinking about it, agonising yourself when he can easily give you the answer.

Perhaps, you may be plesantly suprised, or if not, could make the relationship work with some changes installed. Better yet, you'd know if you want to stay or leave the relationship. Good luck.

Answer 3

This is an example of the lack of communication and how you two express yourself. It is a free world and you do not have to be where you don't want to be. Humans are, however, creatures of habit. Maybe his assumptions are based on the comfort he has in seeing you a lot. He figures you're just always going to be there. Talk and make your position understood. If he is at all a respectful man, he will see what you mean...do not give into demands or commands---you are not a slave---you have a life of your own----maybe you need to get out and live it a little.
FLASH--he is not a mind reader---tell him your problem and tell him your corrective action---if he doesn't like it---too bad,,,move on,,,snap out of it and have fun when you want to. If you continue with this weepy act, you'll become a victim of a controlling man.Good luck and merry xmas

Answer 4

what made him think you were going to go. maybe his way of saying come over.
do you feel your being soft with him
if you dont want to do things for him stand up and say sorry but im busy tonight maybe another time
but if you like doing stuff for him then its not a big deal want ever makes you happy

Answer 5

He told you bring his stuff to work, go tell him where he can go.Your not a slave unless you want to be one.Sounds like he wants to control you. you don't have to go to his work to say good bye to him all the time.Unless he is insecure, and that means trouble later.Usually the controlling kind.

Answer 6

I think he is just the bossy and authoritative kind or just a control freak.When it not you running errands it will be someone else. You have to stop running errands for him and learn to say no once in a while and see how he will react.

Answer 7

a girl or a guy should never b a doormat, for trouble start there, ur partner or friend start to take u for granted.from time to time u should learn to say no

Answer 8

xounds a little possesive.......but, if you in-able the character act, he'll always use it against him??