If he coulda make it to see you, does it mean he is not into you anymore?

Question

I and he, we are in long D, for about 1.5 years...things are no good in the second half...so many time i wanna call it quits but still i love him. I give myself a deadline...2006...if he coulda make it to see me before 2007, i plan to call it quit completely....He told me before he wants me go visit him in this Xmas, so just now when he called, i planned to give it the last shot, asked if we are going to meet. He told me he is going to somewhere else..visiting his mom..so he wont be home in Xmas...the feeling hurts.....i dunno if i should still trust him...one minute he gives you icy treatment, the next he is sweet and said he loves me....I m too upset but just dunno what to do....i knew i shoulda let things drag on..but just coulda have a clear cut.....

i dunno why it is so difficult for me to have a clear cut with him, it seems to me that all people around me can leave this kind of thing so easily..and start a new relationship again....m i too stupid? too stubborn?

Answer 1

Long distance relationships rarely work.Your story is the norm.Sorry,but distance does not make the heart grow fonder-It makes people close by look better.Find another guy close to you.It's harder still to make a relationship work if you have to see them often-then ir's more real...and that 's not alwaya a breeze either.Good luck..move on and CUT HIM OFF!!!

Answer 2

I believe that the other answers are too opinionated , I bet this guy loves u alot but isn't showing it tell him u want some time apart say a week ar two and see how he changes.

Answer 3

I WOULD SAY THAT IF HE LUVS U HE WOULD ASK U TO GO W/ HIM.sounds like u r not priority 2 him.people that care about u find a way 2 make u happy& they sacrifice when needed,but that shouldn't be all the time!

Answer 4

id say, go and meet him for 1 last time to give him a chance, try talking to him, if he doesn't look at ur eyes, while his talkin.... ud better walk off from him....