I have had a nasty break-up with my son's dad cuz he got another woman pregnant after he told me he wanted to work on our relationship. I already know he's a loser, liar, felon and recovering junkie as well. He treated me badly this time and it has been really tough to get over this because of the way it went down. Going on Tgivins he's on the phone saying he loves me and misses me ( long distance) but after he got arrested on a technicality and she bails him out he calls and says he loves her and is in a relationship and is staying with her cuz he lost his place. He let her get on the phone and get lloud and ghetto with me. Disrespectful to me and I've known him for 10yrs. she 2mths. I t pisses me off how he strung me along for months and it hurt deeply. Now When I close eyes at night I have nightmares about him and I don't want him in my head. I started going to meetings cuz he is an alchie and He has hurt me, What else can I do to make it stop?
2006-12-15 20:31:11 · 4 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He alsosays he wants to pay child support so he can visit our son, but I won't let him near that woman cuz he told me she was jealous of me cuz he talks about me to her and I think she will take it out my baby cuz he talks about him too. She is rude and has a nasty attitude.
2006-12-15 20:47:43 · update #1
He also tries to make me look like I want him back in front of her and I don't. I know he is a loser and I wish I could get rid of him for good and live my life but I'm stuck because of our kid. Atleast last night In a dream I cussed him out like a sailor and made him look feel like shyt.
2006-12-17 23:24:18 · update #2
I'm sorry to hear about your ex. It sounds like its for the better that you are apart. Stinks that he does this to you after knowing him 10 years. It's also hard as he is your son's dad.
I'm not sure what the best way to get him out of your head as you are still apart of each other through your son (hoping he cares for his son as you do).
Try to keep calm, express your feelings to your friends and love ones and keep busy with other activities.
Best to you!
2006-12-15 20:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by JAD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok,u know that he's a jerk.That's very important.Now,try saying that every day to yourself.And find another man,who is worth your intention.No man is worth your tears,and the one who is will never make you cry!
2006-12-16 04:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by Keti 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order and if he contacts you again ,have him arrested.
let the ho bail him out again.
2006-12-16 04:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will help, so will a temporary, rebound, no-strings-attached relationship......
2006-12-16 04:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋