ok so me n my ex started talkin again after 2 months of not talkin.i love hi mso much n he says he loves me.we hav been doing the friends wit benefits thing n im just so bothered bout it i want him so bad.ok so last nite i saw him n i txted him wen i got home n i never got a txt bak or a goodnite call which he usually does.i understand tho but then dis mornin i sent him a txt n i never got nuthin but then he called @ midnite 24 hrs later.he asked me y i didnt IM him n i asked y didnt u txt me.he sed he left his fone @ home but i kno he had it all morning til 1pm.he cud have jsut sed hello but he sed that he dont like txtin on his fone so i suggested dat we dont txt no more n jsut talk @ nite n he was jus like i didnt call u for drama n he was so mean to me like yellin n everythign n the things he sed were so rude.we hung up on bad terms.i dunno wat to do shud i contact him or wait 4 him? im so sad cuz i love him so much but he was so mean today its like i cant tell him how i feel.
2006-12-15 20:38:52 · 14 answers · asked by Fahion_Gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he always twists things around n makes it somehow my fault i was jsut tellin him how i feel n he went crazy. i did the same thing to him once n he felt bad bout it n he acted weird n he knows how it feels so i brought that up n he went crazy. i tried my hardest to resolve things i even sed i was sorry but he just was so mad he has a major temper prob. i really tried to make things better cuz i dont like goin to bed mad n i love him so mcuh i cant stop cryin. plz help me!!
2006-12-15 20:41:09 · update #1
get him off your mind for a while get really busy on things that really matter,then see if he had called you or not.. never wait for a man hand an foot unless your married to him.
2006-12-15 20:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by Dude.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a clue---wake up---he doesn't feel the same about you. Sex is not a casual thing, regardless of that, he probably feels that you had sex with the intention of tying him down. Obviously you are both young and not up on emotional issues and the love that is required for both parties to be sharing sex. Stop the drama and the needy act---find someone in person and develop a relationship that is fun and rewarding. If he doesn't like it---too bad--it is a free world and you do NOT owe him an explanantion. Find a real friend and you'll forget about all this.
2006-12-15 20:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as i'd love to tell you there true love and everything gonna be groovy in life; it ain't. Yer tryin to be wit hthe man cause you love him, but chance are hes only seeing the friends with benefits, now the only advice i have for you is, if the sex is good, stick wit h the benefit thing, if its not so good, or honestly some bit of moral fiber in you sees how wrong it is to lower yer self like that, then wal kaway from it, go find a relationship where u can have love, cause a relationship built on lust is nothing but a cruel mockery, and will never last.
2006-12-15 20:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by manticorepink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Points.( it makes things easier)
1) Confused from the beginning didn't know why he broke up with you and i think he remembers.
2) Don't want 2 continue this relationship.
3) A man never leaves his phone at home unless his mother is the one checking up on him.
4) Your feelings(drama) are moving him away from you.
5) You are trying 2 hard when the man is running to the other side of the field.
6)He moved on and changed his mind.
7) he wants you to IM him because mayb he has a girlfriend he his hiding from you and try to talk 2 you other than letting her know...coz girls tend to check the phone ( thats my opinion).
8)Forget him it's not worthy because if he really loved you he would rush to the phone when you call.
9) i think he wants a one night stand 2 remember how you do in bed( it's very possible)
10) move on you know he don't want you, don't try when u can give up and your the one wasting your brain cells on him when he ain't worth it.
2006-12-15 21:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by Unknown_Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you have a conflict of interest. One party is not satisfied and your consciences are fighting back. You have to sit down and talk about it in a neutral environment. This is meant to be a peace talk therefore don't do anything that can jeopardize that process like; trying to hurt him with things he did in the past. Listen to his side of things and come to a consensus.It is said that the people we love are the ones who hurt us the most and this is not going to happen with you. Every relationship has such things and it's normally a learning experience.This helps us to learn that no one is perfect. It will be OK with time
2006-12-15 20:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like he listens to you and with out communication there is just sex.And that lasts till some one else comes along.If he wants you he will call and he will listen to make you happy if he really wants you.If you love some one you want them to be happy.But if it's booty call who cares you you feel. wait for him to call but don't wait to long move on.
2006-12-15 20:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by knightrider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but i think you need to find a guy that is a better person. no offence, but he sounds like a jerk.
dont worry, you will find the right person, just be patient.
2006-12-15 20:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is not willing to txt you back when you know he had his phone then don't worry about him and find some one that is willing to care for you as much you care for him
2006-12-15 20:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by megan p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up!!!!It's clear that he does not like you.Stop crying for someone who does not care for you.Get on with your life with someone else.
2006-12-15 20:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by Angelina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he don't love you, he don't respect you and you need to realize youwere a booty call and that's it. Get him out of your system and don't sleep with him again you will be torturing yourself.
2006-12-15 20:43:18 · answer #10 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋