I have no issues with both parents...i enjoy their company and warmth...do i really need to take side of my spouse...i just hate not bing myself with them...
2006-12-15 20:49:53 · 11 answers · asked by docKnowitall 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well that depends on what the quarrel was about. There are time when yes you do need to support your wife. But in other cases the spouse can be the one in the wrong. The best thing you need to do is think things through and try to understand your spouses reasons for the quarrel and if you need to support her then you should. She is your wife. But if you can find a way to help both of them to settle the problem then you should. Maybe get both sides of the story first hand and then make your decision on what needs to be done to settle the problem so their all talking again.
2006-12-15 20:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no reason for you to take a side other than I'm sure your spouse wants the support.
They're all suppose to be adults. If you haven't already, sit down with your spouse and get her feelings on the matter. Let her know how you feel. Don't let their quarrel become yours!
Good luck! I don't envy you your position!
2006-12-16 05:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay neutral. let both sides of the situation know that you are neutral, and make sure you stay that way. If you hear comments from either side, just say "hey, i don't want anything to do with this". i've seen my parents do this often, they might get into a small argument at first, but then in the middle of their argument, they'd be like "why are we even arguing? this has nothing to directly do with us" and then they'd laugh it off.
2006-12-16 05:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be on neither side but solve the problem coz if u take any of them then the other relation in is danger
but if u it becomes to serious to the height then u should be with ur spouse coz he/she is the one with whome u have too live and have first responsibility toward him/her
2006-12-16 04:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by lesley spears 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play the go-between to bring them back together, but for your own immediate well-being it is important that your wife thinks you are generally on her side if you want her support in future.
2006-12-16 04:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by Bart S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they ask who side r u on ,it should be your mother even if she's right or wrong because your father is stronger then her he can hit her without you knowing it's bested to stay with your mother,help her out she gave you brith didn't she ? so repay her.
if your choice is nither your mother could be in danger anything can happen to her so in a way be her body gurad untill things cold down.
2006-12-16 04:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by Dude.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go sit on the couch. I would, I wouldn't even get
into it. That's what I would say to.
" I'm not getting into it. Enough said".
2006-12-16 05:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be there for her and not say anything bad. You'll be okay.
2006-12-16 04:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
middleman to settle amicably
2006-12-16 04:52:43 · answer #9 · answered by shaikhmohdmusa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the winning side(go w/ your wife) you have to live w/her
2006-12-16 04:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋