How do I do this?

Question

I was just diagnosed with herpes and my co-worker texts me askin me "if I want a quickie before I go to work. no one I know nows about it except for my best friend, my family, and my boss(I work midnights and I haden't slept that day so I took it off). This gut even says he'll wear a condom. What does that mean and how do I tell him about my illness without freaking the guy out?

Answer 1

Don't sleep with him because of 2 major things:
1. He's a co-worker and that alone is trouble
2. he will tell everyone you slept with him and gave him herpes
3. he could even sue you for not being honest ( Slim Chance he can prove it was you)
You don't have to tell him th real reason why you won't do it with you but if all he wants is a quickie then he don't respect you and you don't respect yourself either.

Answer 2

I agree with star... you work there..if it does not work out you or him may become bitter..it would be hard to keep the job. If it is a one night thing...even worse for a work relations,,,, he may tell everyone..hey she is easy.... you dont want or need that

sorry about the herpe thing..thats got to suck

You say..what does that mean... it means he wants to have sex with you real quick.. no commitment..asnd dont tell him...just stay away.

Answer 3

Since you work with him, I wouldn't go there. What if he decides to put out an email to everyone in the company that you have it?
Avoid this one like the plague.

Answer 4

be this way...Can he get the disease with a condom? if he can't then, share some stories to him about people with herpes.and their experiences if you know some..even make up one with the scenerio you are in but make a a fiction situation.pose it to him to get his response. if you like his answer tell him the truth. if you don't say no to him and don't have sex with him.

Answer 5

i agre with star