Family & Relationships - 15 December 2006

Especially if you had an affair before they separated? When he says "I left my wife and kids for you" - is this proof that he actually loves you?

2006-12-15 08:36:31 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i really need big help please!
okay so its like what everyone wants; a boyfriend or girlfriend and i am one of those people. i really want a boyfriend and i already have someone in mind.

this is what is going on so far:
he already knows (so does everyone else at school)
i am obsessed with him
dont know eachother
no classes together
dont talk to eachother
we have so much in common

it is sad, but i feel that we were meant to be. i swear he is just like me. his birthday is a week before mine - he is athletic - he is very hot(not to say i am =]) - he seems nice - his mom is a teacher - he is half mexican half white - he is shy - he likes USC! that is what we have in common; his mom teaches at the same school as my mom. it is very scary and even when i was looking at the yearbook, his picture was right under mine! i really feel that we were to be but why do i keep turning away from my chances? what do i when the winter ball (a dance) comes!!!

PLEASE HELP!!!!!
?=/ HELP!!!!!

2006-12-15 08:36:09 · 13 answers · asked by adrienne n 1 in Singles & Dating

im in highschool and this guy (who use to go to my grade school a long time ago) who is in college now is really freaking me out. He's saying how he wants to "do stuff" with me and its scaring me.. and I dont know what to do expect go along with it so thats what ends up happening. So now he thinks that were going to like have sex but im only in highschool and i really dont want to. But i'm afarid to talk to him anymore because thats all he talks about. what should i do?!

2006-12-15 08:34:55 · 14 answers · asked by ssaarrr* 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

would you cheat on your girlfriend or stay faithful. the friend is smockin hot.

2006-12-15 08:33:57 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wonder sometimes..which is better...obviously they both have their pro's and con's...but people often say things they dont mean...if we could only show each other instead of saying...would it be better...or worse???...just interested to know what you think...;0)

2006-12-15 08:33:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 08:33:07 · 27 answers · asked by baby belle 1 in Singles & Dating

my younger brother, my cousin and i live together. my cousin is also younger than me but he would not listen to what i say. the thing is he is beyond messy. he would never clean up after his own mess. he doesnt wash the dishes for weeks, he never put stuff back after use, he would never help cleaning the house or any of the chores and so on.. we tried to talk to him about it but he just doesnt care. its painful living with him. he was gonna move out two months ago so my brother and i thought we could take it since it was temporary. but now hes changed his mind and decided to stay. we cant tell him we want him to move or show anything like we dont wanna live with him becuz he is family.. IS THERE ANYTHING THAT WE CAN DO TO MAKE HIM WANT TO MOVE OUT WITHOUT LETING HIM KNOW THAT WE ACTUALLY WANT HIM TO?

2006-12-15 08:31:36 · 12 answers · asked by christine c 2 in Family

2006-12-15 08:31:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friend is a single guy who would like to meet someone, but he doesn't drink, and doesn't have any desire to go to a bar. I would just like some different ideas to give to him.

2006-12-15 08:31:04 · 5 answers · asked by madiline_98 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy I used to flirt with where I used to work. He asked for my number after I left the job, and called me after a couple weeks. I was definitely interested in seeing him so I called him back when I got his message. I've left him a few messages that casually mention getting together sometime and he doesn't get back to me very often. His messages are nice enough and don't give me the idea that he doesn't want me to contact him. But all I've gotten are promises of "I'll try to call you" that don't happen. I didn't think I was getting too forward or pushy with him, but I wonder if I made him think I was TOO interested. Is it a good idea to leave it alone for a while, no calls or messages, and see if he picks up interest again?

2006-12-15 08:30:54 · 5 answers · asked by tessa 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont get exactly what you do.what are you supose to do with your tounge

2006-12-15 08:30:10 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley010 5 in Singles & Dating

I asked my boyfriend to get me a ring for Christmas and he says no. First he says because every year Im going to ask for something more expensive and then he says because all I want to do is go around telling everybody that we got married! and then he says why is a ring so special? and why cant I just want something else. I told him it doesnt have to be expensive and that he could get one for under 100 dollars, but I dont know if he going to get it or not now.

2006-12-15 08:29:59 · 27 answers · asked by ♥Mizz.Purdy♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

he is all the time to calling me fat and telling me what i need to eat. evertime i eat i try not to eat as much. i act like i am full and not hungry. i really don't think that i am that big but he thinks so because i got pregnant and gain about 40 pounds. he is use to dating this real skinny girls until i gained all that weight.so what should i do ?

2006-12-15 08:29:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband had a baby 8 months ago and things got really bad he wasnt coming home, cheating ext. I moved him
out of my home well now he said he would change and I beleived him well he is being great to my face but he saying terable stuff behind my back like the only reason he is with me is because he is loanly ext and I just cant live with some one who really doesnt love me. but I am living with him now and cant seem to get up enough money to move into my own apartment. should I wait until he helps me because he is saying he is going to move in with me in a appartment in jan or should I try to find the money some how.

2006-12-15 08:28:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Earlier I asked if my fiance is ready to get married. The majority of you who've answered say "no", but ask him. So, should I buy him a ring and ask him if he is ready? We've been together for a year and a half, have a baby, and live together. It would really make me happy to be married.

2006-12-15 08:27:37 · 8 answers · asked by JoJo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

does anyone else besides me just feel totally down about the way their life is going right now? does it seem like everything's just headed downhill? if not, can you tell me how to get my happiness back?

2006-12-15 08:27:15 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 08:27:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Elmo wants to mack the ladies and throw some game. How do i do this? Any tips?

2006-12-15 08:26:20 · 3 answers · asked by The Elmo 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my bf but sometimes he loves me to much and it gets on my neverves, enough said

2006-12-15 08:25:44 · 12 answers · asked by Lucretia F 1 in Singles & Dating

but when u ask him u believe he would never do it? u never caught him and he loves u very much. do u break up the relationhip just based on gut feeling?

i feel every guy does suspicious things one time or another but if he tells u he didnt and he is very against cheating what do u do break up with him anyway? i want to marry him but dont know what to do. he looks me straight in the eye and tells me no. doesnt get defensive or anything.

2006-12-15 08:25:14 · 7 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 08:25:01 · 2 answers · asked by Fabiokrc 1 in Friends

2006-12-15 08:24:49 · 19 answers · asked by xsierra91x 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in Cancun last week and I saw that these gals at my hotel who were hooking up with only those guys who were giving them attentions and kissing their asses. Those guys were ugly and way out of shape. Whille other good looking guys like me who are in shape didn't got anything simply coz we didn't try. That's messed up. Why girls do that?

2006-12-15 08:24:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

first night of wedding. never had sex. should i use condoms or he should use. please be nice.

2006-12-15 08:23:59 · 30 answers · asked by ALMAS 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not trying to sound like a *****, and I can see this is a popular question, but its TRUE!!! I mean, seriously, are there any men, in my age box (21-25) that know how to respect a female and be in a committed GROWN UP relationship? No smart-*** answers, please. I simply want to know, who are the good men and where can I find one. Thanks.

2006-12-15 08:23:34 · 8 answers · asked by Kenya 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 08:23:21 · 3 answers · asked by xsierra91x 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend has some little problem with her ex bf... she has a baby with him and he said he will always be there for her but now he is like ignoring her and like acting like nothing happened between them and he says he still mloves her but he doesnt act like it. he just talks to his friends and those preppy gurls. Its like he treats his friends better than his love ones. thats sad! can anyone give me some advice on how to get closer to a man that lost interest in you. is it possible.

2006-12-15 08:22:20 · 8 answers · asked by adamsgurl 2 in Singles & Dating

After me and my dad came from the bank I had left my money on my dresser in a evenolope that had my name in it. I was looking fo rit this moring and my dad had said he had it. I got so mad. I think he's trying to tak emy money and he's the overseer of my savings account at Wachovia.

2006-12-15 08:22:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how many of you all think that SONIA is a nice name...

Please be considerate.

Thank you...

2006-12-15 08:22:04 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-15 08:21:58 · 6 answers · asked by nicole_elise88 1 in Friends