I need help!?

Question

my friend has some little problem with her ex bf... she has a baby with him and he said he will always be there for her but now he is like ignoring her and like acting like nothing happened between them and he says he still mloves her but he doesnt act like it. he just talks to his friends and those preppy gurls. Its like he treats his friends better than his love ones. thats sad! can anyone give me some advice on how to get closer to a man that lost interest in you. is it possible.

Answer 1

Your friend should talk to him and see what`s up with him.(: Good Luck.

Answer 2

I absolutley think it is possible! She should start out by making some time for them as in a date night where they can either go out or just stay home and watch movies. Of course they would need a babysitter(maybe you?) but it is an excellent way to reconnect. She should really try to get to know him all over again. If they have kind of grown up together may be his(and her) interest have changed, they should find out what they both enjoy doing.

Second, they should make a family night, just a couple of hours where both of their time is totally committed to hanging with their child. Not only will this help them get closer, it is an excellent way for them to bond with the baby which is very important!

It sounds to me like he still may be young, it's hard to have a baby and all of those responsibilities so he may be rebelling right now by hanging out with his friends and other girls. He will eventually grow up and realize he had a good thing. If not tell your friend their are millions of fish in the sea and she should not waste her time waiting around for one that wants the worm but won't bite the hook! She can be a good single mom and be happy, tell her I said good luck and stay positive.

Andrea

Answer 3

Two issues here. If we're talking about child support, get something in writing from him or go to court and get a court order for child support. Don't fool around with this. And remember, all the child's life he will still be the father, so maintain a decent relationship with him for the sake of the child.
Next issue...getting him "back". Do you want him back? What has he demonstrated in the way of honorable conduct? Talk with him. Explain the situation and ask if he wants to maintain a relationship or not. If not, child support is necessary and should be insured by a Court order. If he wants a loving relationship, ask how he intends to show it. When a child comes into the picture it changes everything...now you have to focus on the child as well as yourself. Good luck with this.

Answer 4

WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO I KNOW ALL IS EASIER SAID THAN DONE BUT THIS DUDE DOESN'T RESPECT YOU OR CARE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS, SCREW HIM AND SINCE HE IS ACTING LIKE THIS NOTHING YOU DO IS GONNA CHANGE THE WAY HE FEELS AT MOST HE'LL SEE HOW VULNERABLE YOU ARE AND USE THAT TO HIS ADVANTAGE AND START USING YOU JUST BECAUSE HE KNOWS YOU'LL DO ANYTHING TO GET BACK WITH HIM AND WHO NEEDS THAT. YOUR BETTER THAN THAT RIGHT? YOU WANT A DESERVE BETTER RIGHT..? CAUSE IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE IT NO MAN WILL SO BE DONE WITH THAT DUDE YOU'LL GET OVER IT AND LOVE YOURSELF EVEN MORE WHEN YOUR WATCHING HIM DO IT TO THE NEXT GIRL AND THANKING GOD THAT YOU WERE TOO STRONG TO PUT UP WITH THAT B.S.

Answer 5

a.) it's not really your business or your life
b.) you guys sound young..and if that's the case the man really isn't going to want to be tied down in a relationship with a baby..
c.) if he's lost interest..he's lost interest and esp if b.) is the case..it's time to get moving on.

Answer 6

Don't even try just move on. Better in the long run. Why stay with a jerk.

Answer 7

TELL HIM TO GET HIS ACT TOGETHER ACCORDING TO WHAT U WROTE HES ACTING LIKE A TOTAL ASSHOLE!!!!

Answer 8

stay out of it nose body it don't involve you