Family & Relationships - 15 December 2006

just for fun...or not...depends how you feel i guess...;0)

2006-12-15 08:51:05 · 70 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 08:50:05 · 19 answers · asked by Tina R 1 in Weddings

Ok this is going to be quiet a long one but please be patient with me as I have lost all hope. Well I have been seeing this guy and it’s coming to be 4 months which great because my longest ever relationship was 3 days lol. But on a serious note I feel a break up coming. During the 4 months we have seen each other 4 times we mostly speak on the phone. Right now I haven’t spoken to him for 5 days he never rings me but has the audacity to say I don’t ring which I do but he never picks up. Whether he purposely avoids my calls or not? I don’t know. He doesn’t live far from me and I understand we are student and money isn’t on our side but I don’t care about things like that. I always drop everything to see him when he asks me too. For example he would tell me he wants to meet up tomorrow and he wont call for another five days. I don’t know what to do I love him and he says he does aswell but this is not a relationship this is a big joke! im feeling so hurt!

2006-12-15 08:49:51 · 27 answers · asked by Confuseddotcom 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy I know from my fiance's job just left his fiance of three years, after a one night stand at the Company Xmas Party with one of the Company Freak(s). She and her sister have been with several of the employees already!! Her sister is already pregnant w/twins from one of the groundsman. She is attractive, and everybody, including my man, think it's exciting and okay that he'd just up and leave her for someone he doesn't even know!!!
Number 1, I can't believe either one still have their job. You'd think the company would take more pride in their values and frown upon fratinization among employees, exspecially the "married or almost married" ones!!!
What gets me, is that he could believe the grass is greener, just becasue she's hot, doesn't mean the same as the three years he has shared w/his fiance. The ups the downs... the struggles, the rewards! I know he will regret it, and truthfully, I can't wait until he does!!!! What do you think?

2006-12-15 08:49:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’ve been friends with this woman for years. She wanted to date me-so we dated for a few months. Then, she decides she just wants to be friends again. I was hurt-so I tell her I want to distance myself for a while to heal. She got angry with me. We kept going out just like before (now as “friends”) with only a kiss and hug every now and then. Other than her job and family, she spends the rest of her free time with me. She told me that nobody has shown love/concern for her like me-possibly including her own mother. She has had only abusive relationships with guys and was sexually abused as a child. She even told her therapist that I would be the perfect boyfriend, but she won’t go there. She told me that she has never had such an in depth connection with anyone like me-male or female. What’s up? I don’t get it.

2006-12-15 08:49:42 · 3 answers · asked by happy4u 6 in Singles & Dating

I manage a Tanning salon. I hired this girl back in February, to be one of my staff memebers. She actually ended up be pretty awesomem in a lot of ways. We became really good friends, and she also became my assistant manager. Back in Oct, I left the company and started a different job. And they promoted her to Manager of a the salon. Well, that job didn't work out, so i wanted to go back to the salon. So i did, they ended up demoting Heather, only because she wasnt doing a good job at managing. And she's really pissed, she says she knows its not my fault, but I just dont believe her, i think she blames me... What should I do, how do i approach things?

2006-12-15 08:49:37 · 4 answers · asked by orangefil 1 in Friends

one of my friends is moving and he wants to hang out but i know how he is and im pretty sure he is trying to sleep with me. i have messed around with him once before but didnt sleep with him. should i just go ahead and do it cause hes moving and hes very good looking or should i still be the one that hes never gonna get cause thats how he views me?!?

2006-12-15 08:49:02 · 15 answers · asked by Jessica H 1 in Singles & Dating

either something you wish to be your happy ever after sometime in the future...maybe you found your happy ever after already...or maybe...just a single occurence that worked out for you...happily ever after...;0)

2006-12-15 08:48:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 08:48:04 · 10 answers · asked by ocjess 2 in Weddings

2006-12-15 08:46:49 · 7 answers · asked by bowiegirls_eye 4 in Singles & Dating

I just found out that my fiance was trying to get back together with his ex, the girl was trying to win him back the last time, but this time he was the one who is trying to get back with her because she said she is sexier now. What do I do?

2006-12-15 08:46:40 · 5 answers · asked by jinky l 1 in Singles & Dating

I am always waiting for the right person to come along, and as a result I have not dated a lot of different woman and I am a 25 year old virgin. I am told I am an attractive guy and have a good personality. I am in decent shape, as I am involved in martial arts and am a 2nd degree black belt. Anyway I am shy about the fact that I am a virgin and keep it secret, Im not sure if I should be that way or not. Girls get confused when I don’t jump into a physical relationship with them off the bat like most guys would. Anyway, I think this is why my recent relationship ended because she did not know this and I was shy about getting physical.

So my question is this:

1.Is male virginity a turn off / Turn on?

2.When in the relationship should this information be revealed?

3.Should I keep it secret?

4 How would you react?

Thanks.

2006-12-15 08:46:19 · 23 answers · asked by Answerguy44 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy, and I have already tried to ask him out. He has said no, but wants to be friends. Well, I say hello to him everyday, but he never really wants to hang out or talk to me. How do I get that to change?

2006-12-15 08:46:10 · 11 answers · asked by .:Feliciano:. 3 in Singles & Dating

Well then i am too, i want to know if there are any girls out there that feel the need to give me there YM name.... I have a webcam... its pretty sweet, hopfully you do to.

2006-12-15 08:46:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Both of us want sex really bad

2006-12-15 08:45:37 · 27 answers · asked by Precious Flower 2 in Singles & Dating

What's the common practice in today's dating world?

The Guttmacher Institute in Great Britain says that con dom use for oral s ex is something the se xually active of their country need to improve.

2006-12-15 08:45:23 · 10 answers · asked by OU812 5 in Singles & Dating

my parents dont want me dating ne more cuz of someof my past relationships but just recentley sme and one of my guy friends are starting to talk.how do i tell my parents about him???

2006-12-15 08:45:22 · 2 answers · asked by Xtina12 2 in Friends

He loves soccer and I had thought about making him a collage of himself playing but I'm tight on time for different reasons and I need a back-up plan. I would like something kind of homemade but I don't really know what. Any cheap but GOOD ideas I could buy or make would be very much apprieciated. Thanks sooo much!

2006-12-15 08:44:30 · 11 answers · asked by sporty girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

yeah both my best friends are belic and/or anrexic what doo i do!?!?!?

2006-12-15 08:44:27 · 14 answers · asked by chelsea_baby712 2 in Friends

This girl i really like has just made me really angry, she told me to F*ck off......i dont even know the reason, i was just tryiing to make her happy, i was cheering her up....she said i was being loud to her.....???we used to go out heaps, to movies, lunches dinners, all her idea not mine, i use to go along, i really liked her, never knew why i never asked her out to these things....anyhow,...one week she was really silent to me, like she would only talk cause she had to kind of thing, and she would laugh as much....we work together....it just got worst from there, and it seems to be getting worst each day for me....she seems to be laughin alot with her mates, just acts wierd towards me, and im pretty much the same....i just dont understand why she has gone so angry towards me?.......maybe i done something i dont know.she always used to like to touch me, and play with all my stuff....i use to annoy her heaps,and always use to conformt her...whats the story ppl????im a bit confused..

2006-12-15 08:43:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When is the best time to sart dating someone?

2006-12-15 08:43:40 · 7 answers · asked by kiki 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this girl who's been my friend for about 2 years. Recently she has started hanging out with this girl from her past, and has started doing coke, but is hiding it from me, i'm not stupid. to top the case we were going to all go out tonight to celebrate my 21 birthday she sent me a text message about an hour ago telling me she had the flu and couldn't make it. I'm so angry at her. She keeps lieing to me and I am sick and tired of it. What should I do? I'm not good at confrontation and dont want to go up to her and say anthing, but i dont know what else to do?

2006-12-15 08:43:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It's Christmas, office parties and all that, are you worried about your other half at this time of year?

2006-12-15 08:42:27 · 41 answers · asked by Alicat 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I DONT KNOE IF I LIKE HIM OR I JUST FEEL WEIRD.

2006-12-15 08:41:48 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 08:41:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband moved out 10 months ago. He said that it was because we were not getting along. We have been married 9 years and up until the seventh year, things were pretty good. Anyway, shortly after he moved, I hear that he is seeing a woman that we both know from the neighborhood, a "gay divorcee" if you know what I mean. We have three kids, 2, 5 and 8.
Up until a month ago he said that I was not very nice to him and that is why he was not moving back. Was I supposed to be nice to him under these circumstances? Anyway, I don't know what has gotten into him (my behavior and attitude have not changed) but a week ago, he said that he wants to put his family back together, that he has dumped the woman and he wants to go to counseling. I don't know that I can take him back. Older freinds and family (and strangers) say that all men do this, it is a midlife crisis. Any advice here?

2006-12-15 08:40:45 · 16 answers · asked by lisa p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm divorce and my ex-husband says it's better to file for our taxes together cuz we have a newborn and we would get more money back cuz it's all four of us now, and he said he would send me half. So should I file with him?

2006-12-15 08:40:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

its a complicted situation but a hooked up with a cousin of a friend and i still see him around but i found out that he told my friends (his cousins) all this stuff but i dont know if i should confront him about it in fear that it might make things even weirder between the two of us and that my friends are gonna get weird on me 2.....

2006-12-15 08:38:43 · 17 answers · asked by Elisa M 1 in Singles & Dating

are you all EXCITED??
i am way too excited to hear results of early admissions

2006-12-15 08:38:02 · 8 answers · asked by cool nerd 4 in Singles & Dating

Left my hubby of 8 years 3 months ago, married way too young. Had secret feeling for boss for quite sometime. We ended up hooking up and he told me he wanted to leave his wife and now it has been 2 months and he still has not done it. I truely love him and I believe he loves me. He has told his wife he does not love her and wants out but she does not take it seriously. I know I am wrong for what is going on, but we love eachother. I need really honest advice, I already know this is unethical & disgraceful, but I am doing everything I always was against. I guess you dont know until it happens to you.Help, how do I know if he will leave her?

2006-12-15 08:37:24 · 18 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce