It's Christmas, office parties and all that, are you worried about your other half at this time of year?
2006-12-15 08:42:27 · 41 answers · asked by Alicat 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have had an affair.
I'm not worried about my other half, as he isn't going to be out socialising much this christmas.
2006-12-15 08:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have never even kissed another man since the night i met my husband six years ago. Im not worried that he will have any affair at any time of the year. There is always the possiblity that a spouse COUld cheat, but I dont waste any time even thinking about the notion. (just enough to answer your question LOL )
2006-12-15 11:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by Akida 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a question? who gets worried about such things? If your spouse BF GF what ever decide to get it on what can you do. The time of year has nothing to do with it and it should not be an excuse. The longer you have been married the odds are that you will fool around if the out spark is going out and I know most people don't like to hear that but it does depend which side of the field you are on.
2006-12-15 09:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by 456tbj 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm almost 50 and my wife is too. I personally am not worried, cause I trust her and she trustes me.
Christmas parties are just Christmas parties. My wife works at a firm and I'm a musician, but we know how we feel about each other and respect each other. Christmas is just another way to love each other.
2006-12-15 11:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by SongMaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not worried anymore, he already met and left with a person he worked with. if u have to worry than the relationship just isn't worth it. not worth having anymore. no i did not have an affair but was on the receiving end and it did hurt me quite a bit, took me awhile to get my self worth back, and move on. if someone is going to cheat there is nothing u can do, but move on and know that if they can be taken away that easy than they probably never had a mature love for u anyway.
2006-12-16 00:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I do not worry about him. He tells me all the times he is tempted and we just get a laugh out of it together. No, I would not have and will never have an affair.
2006-12-15 09:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have for the first time after being married 14 years. This helped me cope with my divorce to my 3 times cheating husband. Now, I am at ease.
2006-12-15 08:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because I trust her totally. She has loads of male friends (some that I have never even met) and I just know that she would never "do the dirty" on me. She tells me she loves me virtually every day. She has a genuine personality. She values my positive traits and glosses over my bad ones. Apart from my mother, she is the only other person on this planet that I would trust with my life.
I'm very lucky. I KNOW she would never go with anyone behind my back.
2006-12-15 08:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have had many affairs and No I'm not worried about my wife having one. It's just sex, fun, a biological need. It isn't important in a strong marriage. Just don't take it seriously and it will do your marriage no harm.
2006-12-17 03:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have had an affair. I never dreamed I would but you can't help who you fall in love with.
I don't want to split from my husband to be with this man but I do think we should separate. I would love my husband to have an affair but for selfish reasons... I would feel less guilty if I knew he had someone. ( I would be content to be on my own, sadly I cannot be with my lover.)
2006-12-16 08:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by Ellie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋