its a complicted situation but a hooked up with a cousin of a friend and i still see him around but i found out that he told my friends (his cousins) all this stuff but i dont know if i should confront him about it in fear that it might make things even weirder between the two of us and that my friends are gonna get weird on me 2.....
2006-12-15 08:38:43 · 17 answers · asked by Elisa M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should start talking sh*it behind his back. It's called fighting fire with fire.
2006-12-15 08:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on what you mean by "confront" and what you mean by "stuff"....
Letting him know that you are hearing all these rumours, and they could only possibly come from him would be fine. Argument, however, would be unbeneficial to everyone.
What sort of "stuff"...is it stuff that would make you seem less desirable to other men? Or does just the exposure of your intimacy bother you? If it is the latter, well, that is the way of the world, these days. Hell, people video tape each other, and put it on the web nowadays. It even happens to big stars, who should know better. A story about the two of you circulating will likely cause you no great harm.
2006-12-15 16:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him if your under 18, if not let it go. It's childish and life is too short. Learn from your mistake and never hook up with a brother, cousin or ex of any of your friends. That's always a bad idea, because, as you see, if it goes wrong, then it affects the other areas in your life.
Let the nonsense die down and move on. Good luck.
2006-12-15 16:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, sounds like drama and rumors. This stuff may not even be true. The best way to go is just ask him about it. Seriously, he could have said that you're amazing to him and somehow that could get switched around through conversations... all of a sudden somebody could think he said "you're amazing to him in bed." Do you know what I mean? So, talk to him about it. If he says he didn't say it. Believe him unless you know 110% otherwise. Trust is the most important part of a relationship.
Best of wishes,
-Mr. Untouchable
2006-12-15 16:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Untouchable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Elisa, you can't control others. You can't make someone stop talking about you. What you can do is be comfortable with yourself. Those who know you will recognize the lies when they hear them...and, if they're friends, they will defend you. Those who believe the lies probably don't like you or wouldn't like you anyway. You are your own best friend. Honor yourself. Be honorable. Know that you are perfect just as you are. You have always done the best you could. So also, incidentally, has this talking person done the best he could. Good luck, I believe in you as I know you believe in yourself.
2006-12-15 16:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-12-15 16:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by onecutebyrd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely confront him. He shouldn't be talking about what went on between you with other people. Good Luck!
2006-12-15 16:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, you know that time we hooked up I noticed some things about you that were not exactly ideal. If you keep spreading stories about this, I'm going to to start spreading my own, and in my version you're not exactly a huge stud.
2006-12-15 16:44:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should confront him, why are you going to let someone continue to talk about you. Tell him that he should at least have the B@lls to say it to your face!
2006-12-15 16:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by ReRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was a hook-up.. than you should expect trash talk.. sorry it happens. a lot of people kiss and tell about their conquests and whatnot. you aren't going to to do anything by confronting them except make it bigger.
for future reference i wouldn't have a hook-up with someone you know isn't going to talk ****..
2006-12-15 17:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should confront him to find out the truth.
2006-12-15 16:43:35 · answer #11 · answered by tx lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋