Especially if you had an affair before they separated? When he says "I left my wife and kids for you" - is this proof that he actually loves you?
2006-12-15 08:36:31 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you serious????
He left his wife, a woman he VOWED to be with forever, in the eyes of God.
He left his children.
He lied to his family, to screw you.
And you ask if you can trust him?
What is wrong with you?!
If he is saying that to you, he regrets his decision. He will be back with his family (IF his wife takes him back) in 6 months to a year. You won't exist.
Granted, he was an idiot for what he did, but you are just downright stupid. I hope you get exactly what you deserve.
2006-12-15 09:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that is something she is going to have to deal with for the rest of her life. What makes a person think that if the man left his wife for another that he is not going to turn around and do the same thing to the other person. The relationship started off as a lie. There are so many people in this world I just cannot understand why a person would want a married one that has children.
2006-12-15 09:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you ever trust anyone? He should have said that he left his wife for you and not his kids. His kids should still be a huge part of his life, if they aren't then he is a fool. If that's the case, then he just left his "old" life to be single w/o kids or responsibilities and then for sure you can't trust him. Beware, and think about this...what is it that makes you so appealing? Can this feeling go away? Hope not, but watch yourself.
2006-12-15 08:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by low1sk8er 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can anyone ever trust a man who can leave his very own children, a man that his own children are not able to trust,he left his own flesh and blood. The fact that he left his wife and kids only profs that he does things for himself and that if another woman came along he would satisfy him self again. If he can do this to his own children and his wife, How can you think he would be faithful to you.
2006-12-15 08:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always felt that if he is willing to leave his wife and kids for you then he will easily do the same thing again. A lot of men/women will get bored with the routine of married life and will leave for that young single person who make them excited about life again. But after a time a routine is set once again and the person is out looking for that adventure once again.
I'm not saying that it is always like that because people are all diverse but it does seem to follow a pattern such as that for quite a few. It's really risky :(.
2006-12-15 08:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You slept with a married man?? Well, I guess you made your own bed, now you have to lie in it (No pun intended). In other words, I guess you get what you deserve. Now, because you were so selfish and immature, and only thought of your own desires and wants, there are innocent children out there who no longer have a daddy at home. Dad's are very important to have in the home to help shape a child's life.
So, when you two are a couple, the excitement of doing something wrong without getting caught won't be there anymore for him. So, yeah, I give it 3 years tops before he starts to wander.
2006-12-15 17:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH NO! i'm sorry sweetie. but anytimes a man says "i left my wife and kids for you" is only throwing you a guilt trip. that's all. he should only leave his wife because he no longer loves her. leaving his wife should have NOTHING to do with you. so is he saying if it wasn't for you he's be in his "happy" home? as far as leaving his kids...that's a whole other issue. i would never trust a man that would abandon his own children. does he still see them? does he make an effort to maintain being a father to them?
love is about wanting to do things and making every effort to keep that person happy as well as yourself.
2006-12-15 08:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this. You are placing your trust in a liar. What you can trust is the lie. In truth, he probably thinks everything is OK. But I suggest pre-emptive counseling at once. You must be having some doubts or you wouldn't be asking this question. This does show that you do have some smarts.
2006-12-15 08:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh H-E-double sticks NO! Let that nut alone! What reall man is going to leave his wife and kids for another woman. You know the answer to this question why even ask?
2006-12-15 08:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by egreen3rd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is proof that he loves himself so much he was willing to leave his children and wife to have an affair and that he'd definitely do it again if he gets the itch. You are fooling yourself if you think you can hold this man.
2006-12-15 08:40:52 · answer #10 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋