he is all the time to calling me fat and telling me what i need to eat. evertime i eat i try not to eat as much. i act like i am full and not hungry. i really don't think that i am that big but he thinks so because i got pregnant and gain about 40 pounds. he is use to dating this real skinny girls until i gained all that weight.so what should i do ?
2006-12-15 08:29:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kick him out he's a ****.
2006-12-15 08:32:28 · answer #1 · answered by Rhapsody 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What? someone called him a ****, nooooo. You mean twit. A **** is good
and should never be confused. Listen sweety don't let him put you down
he's jealous he couldn't get pregnant. The weight will come off when it does
and not because he says so. Who he thinks he is, he should be nicer to for giving him a child, what a jerk. I wish I had somebody any shape size or race.
2006-12-15 08:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband should not be talking to you like that and you should not put up with it. Have a good look at yourself, do you think you are over weight? are YOU bothered by it , if so lose weight for yourself and not because you husband is telling you If you think your weight is not a problem you need to put an end to this emotional abuse, tell him you don't think your fat and he must stop at once or your marriage will be at risk
2006-12-15 08:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband said that to me, I would haul off and ***** smack him. Then I would sit back down and continue to eat my supper. He's mentally abusive and you should seriously consider getting out of this relationship before things become worse, which they will. You don't have to be with him, in order for your child to have both parents in it's life. If he's abusive to you, don't you think he'll eventually treat the child the same way? People like this can not see past their own wants. I would get out now.
2006-12-15 08:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by Danelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he is shallow and if he really cares about you, he would present this nicer. Let him know this hurts your feelings, and if he keeps telling you stuff like that, that is emotional abuse... PHysical wounds heal, but stuff like that hurts you forever. Don't let him do it. That's unacceptable in a husband. Also tell him he can work out with you if he really feels it is that big of a deal cuz that will serve as a motivation for you as well as a bonding experience
2006-12-15 08:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by happily married ( : 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a dude I can only say that maybe he needs to forget about the skinny girls and enjoy being with a grown woman. Of course I am biassed. I prefer a fuller figure (probably even fuller than you are).
2006-12-15 08:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by toff 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is when you tell him to F*** off and get a better guy that can treat you the way you need to be. If this so called "guy" (more like a boy) is calling you fat, then you need to get out of this relationship. That is called emotional abuse hun...
Best of Luck!
2006-12-15 08:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would literally throw him a cheeseburger to shut him the hell up! don't let any man talk down on you like that. If he truly loved you he wouldn't be saying all those hurtful things to you and if he did love you he would love you for who you are not what you look like. Get a divorce he's a total jerk!
2006-12-15 09:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by dominicandyme22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him get to you. If you feel like your happy the way you are then ingore him and tell him that if he doesn't accept you the way you are then you'll leave him. It's not right the way he's treating you. My husband would never tell me I'm fat even though I am a bit overweight. Guys who do that are just jerks and unless you feel like your overweight yourself and don't want to lose weight then don't do it for him do it for yourself like I am. Sounds to me like you need to leave him since he doesn't like you for you.
2006-12-15 08:37:29 · answer #9 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your husband and want to continue the marriage?
How attractive you are to him is important, and visa versa, especially these days.
Some men are naturally attracted to big women and some not.
Maybe he's thinking about what you'll look like in a few years or after kids.
It sounds like he really cares for you and how you look.
Don't you think it will be worth the effort to diet and exercise for BOTH of you?
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2006-12-15 08:32:05 · answer #10 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell him that he needs to build more muscle and grow four inches. he should not be treating you like this. if you want to lose weight, by all means, lose it, but don't do it just because he tells you to. maybe try telling him that you're comfortable being who you are.
2006-12-15 08:35:16 · answer #11 · answered by Vae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋