Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

My in-laws chose to leave town two hours before my son's 2nd birthday party to attend the funeral of her brothers wifes mother. They then came home later that night and did not attend the funeral the next day. My husband and I are both hurt and mad, we feel they could have went to the funeral instead of the visitation and attended our sons party. All of my family and friends think we are right to be hurt, but my in laws feel "they did the right thing" What do all of you think?

2006-12-12 08:01:08 · 4 answers · asked by raynesmomie 1 in Family

If you were a man who had brought your only son up single handed and he is now living away from home and has a good job. Would you follow your life long dream of travelling around the world on a motorcycle or stay with a girl you met a year ago, the girl has made it very obviuos she does not want you to go. It would also mean throwing away a very good job.

2006-12-12 08:00:12 · 25 answers · asked by rastus 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

some times we are together but he doesnt even do nothing or talk he rather be with his friends than with me but some time he getes really nice and stars to huge me and start kissing me in front of other but his not not a shy guy at all.

2006-12-12 07:59:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked about my cheating husband a while back. ( he goes to my space and flirts with slutty women all the time, he is registered with about 10 online dating sites, he guards his cell phone with his life, he lies about it all) there's no talking to him; he denies everything. He still acts like everything is ok .I've confronted him about some stuff but like I said he just lies I know for a fact that he is doing all of this stuff and I can't hardly stand to look at him knowing what I know but its like my heart says leave the a**hole but my feet won't move He doesn't know that i know about everything and he acts like he loves me so much (yeah right) so what is my problem. I've lost all trust in him and most of the respect i had for him so ...HELP!!

2006-12-12 07:59:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a "close" new friend that is becoming more but every time he kisses me I laugh. how can I stop.

And guys is this good or bad

2006-12-12 07:59:31 · 15 answers · asked by Crystal Blue 3 in Singles & Dating

what do i have to do to get a guy in my grade(7) to like me??? I AM CLUELESS also wut can i talk about w/ guys when we never spoken a word to each other AND there is not that much to comploment about...................HELP

2006-12-12 07:58:05 · 8 answers · asked by ilovebrooks3112 1 in Singles & Dating

I caught my husband talkig with another girl on the phone 2 nights ago. It all started when my husband and I were watching a movie and since I had to work the following day and he didn't I went to sleep. I hear him talking to one of his guy friends on the phone so I didn't pay to much attention to that. 2 hours later I wake up and I don't see my husband laying down next to me. I get up and I go to the living room where he's whispering on the phone. I asked him who are you talking to and he said Erica. The argument started from their he told me that he just wanted to know weather she was still dead or alive. I got so mad vey mad he got in my face and started to scream and cuss. I started to cry and he covered my mouth with his hands. I kept cry so then he covered my mouth with his hands but this time he got his knees and placed it under my chin and was pushing it back. I was in alot of pain I couldn't breath. Until now my whole jaw hurts and all of this becuase I caught him. What to do?

2006-12-12 07:58:00 · 33 answers · asked by mysteryousmtz 6 in Marriage & Divorce

If he kissed a boy, does that make him gay?

2006-12-12 07:57:59 · 16 answers · asked by Peanut Butter 5 in Singles & Dating

Can a 20 year olg girl go out with a 17 year old guy?? Or is it to sick?

2006-12-12 07:57:17 · 28 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Singles & Dating

If you worked full time and your wife stayed home with the kids, but she realized she's burnt out from caring for the kids all the time and wanted to return to work, would you resent that? Support it? Let's say she's been doing all household chores at home for a year and a half since your child was born and now with returning to work, she would expect you to start helping her?

2006-12-12 07:57:01 · 15 answers · asked by Jennifer F 6 in Marriage & Divorce

How many girls can say their BF loves to go downtown? Not many i know and I'm incredibly lucky. The problem is that 8 times out of 10 he misses rather than hits... I've tried to talk while.. kind of coach because I know you can't read my mind lol But i dont want to make him feel like I'm not appreciative cause when He does it right it's golden .... SO How can I direct him to where he needs to go without him getting offended. lol and I hear the guys already What the hell is she complaining about I know I know .... It is mutually Benificial relationship BTW. Just really could use some advice

2006-12-12 07:56:56 · 15 answers · asked by Melanie F 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm gonna be back home with my family. My boyfriend is going to be working as usual.

I'm just wondering who else isn't going to be spending Christmas and New Year's with their significant other.


And oh... I'm not devastated or anything lol. It's only a month. Besides, I miss my parents and I get to spend quality time with them!! : }

2006-12-12 07:56:24 · 4 answers · asked by ( Kelly ) 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband and i have been togeter for almost 4 years we have 2 kids. problem is his family still has the picture of him and ex-girl from 1999 on the wall. i told him it makes me feel bad to see that pic in his mother and sister house, he saids he doesn't care about the pic, but i HATE to see it and i don't want my kids lookin at it. he said he can't tell people what to do with there stuff when i ask him to ask them to take it down and put it in a picture book. what should i do? stop me and my kids from going to there house or what.

2006-12-12 07:56:22 · 6 answers · asked by Daya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 07:56:21 · 3 answers · asked by cookie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love them both, but I need to be with only one.

2006-12-12 07:55:52 · 15 answers · asked by Sweetthang 1 in Singles & Dating

Can you help find my ex?

I suddenly thought that if enough people read this, someone might know where this deadbeat dad is.

He quit a job intentionally so his wages couldn't be garnished for child support. Then he disappeared. The child support office doesn't know where he is, so they can't help me.

I have reason to believe he is somewhere around Chassell or Houghton-Hancock, Michigan.

His name is Brian John Komula, age 43 and he owes back child support for his daughter. If anyone knows an address or phone number for this little fraction of a man, please e-mail me the information. No one has to know where I got it and I will turn it over to the child support office and let them take things from there.

Thank you,

Sue

2006-12-12 07:55:50 · 4 answers · asked by newbiegranny 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Let's say she is really sweet and obedient to me (atleast right now) and says her husband ditched her for another woman. Is this a good idea or is this too much baggage, etc.?

2006-12-12 07:55:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I suddenly thought that if enough people read this, someone might know where this deadbeat dad is.

He quit a job intentionally so his wages couldn't be garnished for child support. Then he disappeared. The child support office doesn't know where he is, so they can't help me.

I have reason to believe he is somewhere around Chassell or Houghton-Hancock, Michigan.

His name is Brian John Komula, age 43 and he owes back child support for his daughter. If anyone knows an address or phone number for this little fraction of a man, please e-mail me the information. No one has to know where I got it and I will turn it over to the child support office and let them take things from there.

Thank you,

Sue

2006-12-12 07:55:02 · 2 answers · asked by newbiegranny 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

whenever he sees me in the hall, he shouts my name, and when i look back at him he looks up to the left for a second, and back down to my eyes and smiles.

what does this mean? it happens every single time he calls my name, and its annoying me.

2006-12-12 07:54:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

went out for 6 months with her since summer, we broke up about 1 and a half week ago, she's 20 i'm 21, I was her longest relationship, she has trouble committing.. i treated her like princess... she said i was her first love, first partner, she gave me everything, but lately we argue more and more because she seems to put less effort into relationship. then finally argument came up and it was intense, i yelled, she swore.. she never want to work it out with me, she just wanted to let it go and acted like nothing happen.. I know she's still immature about relationship. but i love her very much. While she was still mad, she said that we're incompatible, never could be together again, now that she's now mad, i know she misses me but she doesn't say, and i also know she has trouble committing still.... i dunno if i can ever get her back , it's killing me, help me please :'( !!!/

2006-12-12 07:54:35 · 3 answers · asked by tele t 2 in Singles & Dating

Women - as many of you know, men traditionally go to strip clubs the night before their wedding for their bachelor party. Many, if not most, of those men have sex with a stripper and/or a prostitute at some point during their bachelor party.

What do you think of that tradition?

Would you be OK with your fiance going to a strip club the night before he married you?

Would you be OK with your fiance having sex with a prostitute the night before he marries you?

2006-12-12 07:54:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i knew she had it,and i thought she would confide in me. is this a trust issue or just a mother daughter thing? i would really like to know.

2006-12-12 07:53:50 · 38 answers · asked by madema 2 in Family

Everyone has some idea of what they are looking for in life.

At the age of 29, I still wonder at times what I'm expecting out of life. Some days I know exactly what I "want" and need, but other days I have no clue..

So, what are you looking for in life?

2006-12-12 07:53:49 · 7 answers · asked by Jerry 1 in Friends

Do you feel that women have way to much attitude torwards eachother? And why do they feel the need to judge eachother harsher than men judge us?

2006-12-12 07:53:04 · 24 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I miss having dates to the point of thinking of calling an ex but is it worht it?i'd lose my cool reputation

2006-12-12 07:52:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have short red hair, and most guys around here love it, and say that I'm sexy, but I just wanted your opinion on what you think.

2006-12-12 07:52:02 · 9 answers · asked by red.cherry2001 1 in Singles & Dating

well i woke up and she was there!

2006-12-12 07:51:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom and dad arent together, and its been that way since I was 5. My dad cheated on my mom with an ugly woman. and now my dad and that lady have money problems, because she is a golddigger, and my dad sees that but doesnt do anything about it. My dad says if she's cheating on him, he's going to leave her, but the same way goes to my dad because he is cheating on her too, with another girl, and none of them know anything except my mom because i tell her everything.

I dont call my dad as part of the family anymore, since he hardly sees us (me and my bro). I have a b-f, and he doesnt know, but when he comes to it, he complains that he might not be a 'good guy' and he doesnt have room to talk. Ever since he found out I turned 16 and about to work, he is starting to care about my grades in school, when before he never has. He is only interested in what Im going to earn. He always blames me for everything, and this affected me last year in school, and i got straight F's.(more details)

2006-12-12 07:51:07 · 8 answers · asked by ThexSilentxOnex 2 in Family

i've been with this guy for a while. i think that i love him, but there is another guy that i really like too. the guy that i am with is beging to become very obsesive and i don't know how much more of it i can take. can someone help me out here because i really don't know what to do.

2006-12-12 07:51:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am looking to get back in touch with this guy. i have not seen him for ten years. the last i heard he was living in berwick upon tweed and has about to get married. can you help?

2006-12-12 07:50:35 · 7 answers · asked by queenjoef 2 in Friends