I miss having dates to the point of thinking of calling an ex but is it worht it?i'd lose my cool reputation
2006-12-12 07:52:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know the feeling, I am a single father with sole custody of two teenage daughters, and all I have is them in my life. I work shift work sometimes, and sometimes the weekends. The holidays are just around the corner, and I will be spending it alone. Yes, I do have family and friends and my daughters, but to hold someone to kiss someone, to walk hand in hand with someone, to go to bed with someone and wake up with someone, well I lguess you get the picture, is what is missing in my life.. I will continue to search, I do have a lot to offer, just need the chance. Take care and I wish you the best. And thanks for listening.
2006-12-12 08:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! It's totally not worth it, remember that he's your EX for a reason. If you think meeting new people will cheer you up then get out there and meet some new people. Join some kind of club, volunteer somewhere, church gatherings, check your paper for singles minglers etc. But I believe you should be happy as an individual before you get into a relationship. Don't depend on someone else to make you happy because they will probably let you down eventually. Besides, as someone else already said: being single rocks!!
2006-12-12 16:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not check out the dating sites or ask a friend if she knows someone single?? This is a good time to hang out with your friends and family member and just have fun. Dont bother calling the ex just because your feeling a little lonely. Trust me it will just make things worse!! good luck
2006-12-12 15:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is about choices. Why don't you just date someone else? Maybe its not about being single. Maybe its a depression/anxiety thing. Being single, in and of itself is not exactly a cause of unhappiness. If you were busy doing things that made you happy, being single wouldn't be an issue unless you made it an issue.
Please don't say you're in high school. Then I know it would be purely a social thing. In which case I'd say "maybe you should think for yourself for a change!" =)
2006-12-12 15:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by jamisojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being unhappy in a couple or single... it all comes from inside. If you seriously think being in a couple will make you happy, you're wrong. That just gives away all your power to the other half. You alone are responsible for your happiness... it's sorta like the half full or half empty glass... it all depends on how you look at life... I for one, don't wait for someone to make me happy... it never works.
2006-12-12 15:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by The ReDesign Diva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being in a slump about it. Go out with your friends. I know its hard when you get back home from hanging out with the girls. Start being aggressive. If you want a date, go out and get one. When i say this, i mean, go up to a guy that you think is cute, and ask him out yourself.
Alot of women today are afraid of going for what they want because of rejection. You are a beautiful confident woman. Go for that man you see staring at you. Dont wait for no one to ask you, go ask him. Go find your man and stop whining about not having a man or date.
2006-12-12 15:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being single rocks girl! Get some single friends & hit the town.
2006-12-12 15:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by IMHO 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with some friends to relax, get involved in activities that will take your mind off b/f's.
Have fun, you'll be happy when you do.
2006-12-12 15:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out more, meet new people, go to all the new years eve parties and meet someone, be talkative and friendly, your bond to meet someone honey. Good luck!
2006-12-12 15:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by sarabmw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me too. I just eat snow crabs once a week, but constantly stay on the search for a new love. Have faith that they will find you and seek you out.
2006-12-12 15:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by Kawainani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋