Women - as many of you know, men traditionally go to strip clubs the night before their wedding for their bachelor party. Many, if not most, of those men have sex with a stripper and/or a prostitute at some point during their bachelor party.
What do you think of that tradition?
Would you be OK with your fiance going to a strip club the night before he married you?
Would you be OK with your fiance having sex with a prostitute the night before he marries you?
2006-12-12 07:54:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the tradition of a bachelor's party is pretty much incomprehensible to women (myself included) - its just a "man" thing. Yes, some of us do sleep with the stripper at bachelorette parties, but it's not something that happens often or is celebrated with our female friends.
I have no problem with my man going to a strip club period. So the night before our wedding would be fine. I think I would want to be off enjoying my last night of singlehood with my girls - not sleeping with the stripper though.
So there's where I draw the line. No sleeping with the strippers or a prostitute. That's just wrong. Strippers and bachelor parties? Not cheating. Sleeping with the stripper? Totally cheating.
2006-12-12 08:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by M K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? Sex with a prostitute the night before the wedding! Can you say "stood up at the alter"??
I am TOTALLY against the whole stripper thing for any kind of bachelor/bachelorette party. There is no reason for it at all. If you love the person you are planning on marrying then there is no need for you to see or sleep with anyone else!
2006-12-12 07:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by TTC Cycle#20 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
look, if he became handcuffed and dragged, then you actually can not often be too mad at him, are you able to? He wasn't there for the strippers, yet to help his chum. this would don't have any implications for me on no matter if to have self belief him. I do have self belief him--i'm constructive that if my husband became in a similar situation, he'd look (because you could't no longer; heck, i'd look) yet no longer contact, drink sodas all evening, and be rather uncomfortable. a similar is probable authentic for your guy. constructive, i'd be miffed for an afternoon, yet no more desirable than that. only because he went to this bachelor celebration would not propose he's about to educate right into a demanding-ingesting, pot-smoking adulterer and abandon you and your infant. It feels like perchance you've different topics on your marriage, or you're hormonal from the being pregnant. And sure, i'm a Christian--my husband is a pastor.
2016-10-18 04:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a strip bar, I'd be fine with but having sex with a hooker or anyone else is cheating and I wouldn't of married my husband! My husband was taken to a strip bar by his friends a day or two before we married. But having sex with someone is a whole new ballpark! Get real man! LOL So he can come back and give me some sort of disease? No thank you! If he is my man, he is my man and no one else's. I don't share with no other woman and I won't ever fight over a man if he can't decide who the hell he wants to be with! Take him! If that's the case! I can do better than someone who would cheat on me before or after we marry! period!
2006-12-12 08:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you crazy? of course not! if i were getting married it would be based on committment to me and trust! i never saw the point of a man going to those places before anyway! i mean he should know he never cares for or wants to see that anymore! his wife should be all he needs anyway!
2006-12-12 08:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you know what that is one major reason why i refuse to get married i will cut his f#^*in dick right off, rip his balls open and make him watch me do it to. its the most its desgusting thing, but guys love that easy lay, i hate man whores who like to go off and cheat lie to your face, then finding you got clymidiah of some nastyshit you get from male sluts. they make me sick, why get married if your just gonna get you dick wet by another girl then your own girlfriend who is clean. i would never touch him again if that were to happen to me
2006-12-12 08:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
We would both go to the strip club. Why should he have all the fun?
2006-12-12 07:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by noonee333 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No and no. thats cheating and disrespectful. it would make me feel horrible. i hate that tradition. why are men such pigs? Do something else.
2006-12-12 07:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i wouldnt mind him going with some buddies just drinkin and having fun (with his friends) but any further and its over
2006-12-12 07:58:52 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its an awesome tradition
2006-12-12 08:40:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋