i've been with this guy for a while. i think that i love him, but there is another guy that i really like too. the guy that i am with is beging to become very obsesive and i don't know how much more of it i can take. can someone help me out here because i really don't know what to do.
2006-12-12 07:51:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
run - you don't want to be with a guy that's possesive - I was married to one and it only gets worse with time
2006-12-12 07:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by lynnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy you are with is too obsesive and that is your problem let him know. But if it is bugging you because you like another guy then you have already chosen. I would not tell you to let either know how you feel just think about it and decide from there. I will tell you this the grass is always greener on the other side.
2006-12-12 07:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by Tosha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 18, or can you make your own choices?
What you decribed sounds like you just want someone to say "go out with the new guy and ditch the "obsessive" guy."
So just go do it, the world isn't going to end tommorrow because of your choices.
2006-12-12 07:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by jamisojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you don't love the guy if you really like someone else. Since he's becoming very obsessive, it means he's insecure and is wry to lose you. No answer from me because you're both wrong.
2006-12-12 07:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to weight your pros and cons here. I mean there has to be differences in both guys. But to be fair to them you can't have them both. If you think youre falling in love with the one your with then I would stick with that feeling. But like I said before weigh it out.
Good Luck!
2006-12-12 07:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by Sam s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have doubts in your relationship then you really don't love the guy you are with...give yourself time and see other people, maybe even give this other guy a chance. no guy can force you to be with them it's not right if your present guy hurts you make sure you report. take care of yourself and remember we only live one life enjoy it. good luck
2006-12-12 07:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to ask yourself what you really want, what you deserve, and how much you respect yourself. Don't settle, you have to go with your heart (I know corny and predictable), but its true. Sometimes its hard to keep our hearts and minds from working independantly, but you should just follow your heart. Think about how you feel when your with the both of them, what qualities they bring out in you. You'll know......I'm sure you ALREADY know what to do. We all already know the answers to our own questions.
Good Luck.... :)
2006-12-12 07:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by kit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont' like jealouse guys or controlling guys. Make a choice and go for it. Let the other guy go. Its not fair to drag him along.
2006-12-12 07:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by rdwngfever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it b/c how else is he gonna know? if you love the guy then a> he probally loves you and will understand B> you shouldnt be thinking about this other guy cuz thats not what love is about.....
2006-12-12 07:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by confused_mexican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only think you love him then you don't
When you are in love you will know it
2006-12-12 07:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋