went out for 6 months with her since summer, we broke up about 1 and a half week ago, she's 20 i'm 21, I was her longest relationship, she has trouble committing.. i treated her like princess... she said i was her first love, first partner, she gave me everything, but lately we argue more and more because she seems to put less effort into relationship. then finally argument came up and it was intense, i yelled, she swore.. she never want to work it out with me, she just wanted to let it go and acted like nothing happen.. I know she's still immature about relationship. but i love her very much. While she was still mad, she said that we're incompatible, never could be together again, now that she's now mad, i know she misses me but she doesn't say, and i also know she has trouble committing still.... i dunno if i can ever get her back , it's killing me, help me please :'( !!!/
2006-12-12 07:54:35 · 3 answers · asked by tele t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
since we've broken up it seems that she can't stand not talking to me for more than a day , i usually just stay put.. but she kept messaging me... does that mean she's just seeking emotional comfort?
2006-12-12 07:55:18 · update #1
we've broken up once for a week because of same issue before..
2006-12-12 08:13:25 · update #2
All couples go through ups and downs. This was your first argument and it seems to have been the most extreme. If both of you are willing to make up and work through the situation I'm sure you both will be fine. She's trying to talk to you and most likely misses you if she's constantly messaging you. Call her and ask if you can talk and work out your differences. Mention your feelings and how afraid you are of her commitment issue. That she should put her trust in you and you do the same towards her. Apologize that you both got out of hand. I'm sure if she loves you and is as heartbroken as you are right now, that she'll give you another chance.
2006-12-12 08:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what hes want and try to talk to her
2006-12-12 08:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by fleming_sharon1979 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you let her read your questions here...
2006-12-12 07:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by The ReDesign Diva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋