Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

She never really liked me but since we got married its gotten worse(no he DID NOT leave her for me)She uses thier 7yr old mike like bait to control tom.Here are just SOME examples i am not allowed to watch mike alone,it tom is not there he is to go home to her.She has talked so badly about me to other parents none of mike's friends can come over to play.I can't have any contact with mike's school/teacher i can't even pick him up from school.She always trys to get tom to go to her parties that she is giving for mike even though we have our oun parties for him.i went once and her and her family sat there and glared at me to whole time,not fun.The worst part of this is tom allows this to happen.We fight over this all the time and he always says i can't control what she says.Thats true but he does not have to go along with "her rules" ether.They both have joint custody so doesn't he have a say?how can i handle this,tom will not stand up to her for anything so i'm on my own.

2006-12-10 08:21:22 · 16 answers · asked by kimmywoodward098 1 in Family

2006-12-10 08:21:20 · 13 answers · asked by EL GANGSTA. 3 in Family

Me and my boyfriend were talking for about 5 months then we decided to go out and we have been for like a month!!! Everything is perfect I trust him, he respects me and my decisions, he has a great personality, and he is super sexy!!! But he is 18 and I'm 15!!! My parents don't want me talking to him but i do anyways!! its hard even though we go to the same school!!! Should i continue with this relationship!!!

2006-12-10 08:21:11 · 7 answers · asked by Jasmine T 1 in Singles & Dating

She never really liked me but since we got married its gotten worse(no he DID NOT leave her for me)She uses thier 7yr old mike like bait to control tom.Here are just SOME examples i am not allowed to watch mike alone,it tom is not there he is to go home to her.She has talked so badly about me to other parents none of mike's friends can come over to play.I can't have any contact with mike's school/teacher i can't even pick him up from school.She always trys to get tom to go to her parties that she is giving for mike even though we have our oun parties for him.i went once and her and her family sat there and glared at me to whole time,not fun.The worst part of this is tom allows this to happen.We fight over this all the time and he always says i can't control what she says.Thats true but he does not have to go along with "her rules" ether.They both have joint custody so doesn't he have a say?how can i handle this,tom will not stand up to her for anything so i'm on my own.

2006-12-10 08:20:59 · 3 answers · asked by kimmywoodward098 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has photos of his ex girlfriend in his wallet and he says he doesnt want to get rid of them. Is he still in love with her??

2006-12-10 08:20:56 · 20 answers · asked by Melissa M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked another question but everyone just said im an asshole so ill start over. I'm 18 years old and i have a lot of money and already have things like houses and cars. But i have very few friends because everyone in highschool hated me. they'd say things like "oh we cant all have our own house + car" which made it really hard for me to make friends. So i just stuck with the friends i had in elementary school but now we've all split up and gone our separate ways. I do things that rich people do, but i do them by myself... like i eat out everyday but usually by myself and the girls i DO go out with either never want to go out to eat or dont want me paying for them. Im really just VERY bored as i recently moved to a new city for university and dont know what to do. I go shopping but even that gets boring after a while. Im a pretty good looking guy, i got a nice personality (i dont brag in real life!) and im fun sooo what should i do? btw i dont drink or smoke that often either!

2006-12-10 08:20:55 · 11 answers · asked by waterbottle09090 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy knows how you feel and says he feels the same way. Yet, you know in your heart hes only telling you this to keep you around for sex. If you know this yet keep going around him because you love him so much and dont know how to be with out him what do you do. To get over him I mean because I tried and tried to get over him and can't. Plus theres this other guy that does really love me but I can't seem to give my heart to him because I love this other guy so much. What do I do?

2006-12-10 08:20:27 · 13 answers · asked by mystical 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in Chicago,IL and my fiance and I aare getting married on the 27th. Will our local courthouse perform the ceremony?

2006-12-10 08:20:07 · 6 answers · asked by chloerochelle102887 1 in Weddings

i took a video of my gf's feet in nylons..i think they are cute but they smell and she wants me to suck her toes..what should i do..heres the video

http://youtube.com/watch?v=rh-ixTOzCRs&mode=related&search=

2006-12-10 08:19:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 08:19:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 08:19:36 · 6 answers · asked by hotcarlinallday 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i dont know what to get my bf for Christmas.

2006-12-10 08:19:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have had a harsh time growing up. My whole childhood i got virbal and phisical abuse. I have to wait a couple more years before i can move out. All of my memories are of everyone getting beaten, things getting stolen, and etc. My mom became a drug addict and has stolen every dime she always leaves us without food,money,and a car. These events have made me so miserable leading to me becoming emo. I feel like i am worthless. My life is a bad one i might add. It makes my grades slip and everything. Both of my parents have told me they hated me and didnt want me. I want to improve this and come out of my dark depressed shell. HELP this has gone on far to long.

2006-12-10 08:18:42 · 5 answers · asked by britt_hearts_green_day 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i used to flirt with my crush all the time and i kinda backed off becuz i didnt want 2 scare him away. then i think this one **** girl Eden found out and whenever i try to talk 2 him she grabs him away and starts talkin 2 him. (by the way i figured out that he likes me) now he never really talks to me and stuff any more and always talk to Eden and stuff but he still stares at me and sometimes he talks to me but not like before and why is he like this. hes real confusin.and for somereason im kinda afriad to flirt with him infront of her becuz i never really get a chance. tomorrow im really gonna try and do what i used to do to him. and i made a list of like everything to do so i dont get stuck but anymore tips how i flirt with him while Eden is there. i want him to like ask me out before Christams break or something. him, me and eden are int that class together. i really wanna flirt with him but sometimes i cant get myself to so i kinda need help. thanks to eveyone who helps!!!!!!!

2006-12-10 08:18:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I say this because the situation is bad in the sense that this is a secret a affair, that is so drama- filled, and basically needs to end, but the twist is we are like best friends. How can I back-off, but remain a friend at the same time?

2006-12-10 08:17:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why do people make such a big deal about dating outside of your race? There is a couple at my school, the girl is african american and the boy is white, and everyone makes fun of them. they bravely face the hallways, hand in hand and await the taunting day in and out. What is so wrong with this? this is america and it isnt the 1800's anymore, so why arent people more liberal about this yet?

2006-12-10 08:17:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so that you can find out if he's single and still interested in u?

2006-12-10 08:16:58 · 15 answers · asked by south e 2 in Singles & Dating

This is for a chrismas present and I want him to have the best.

2006-12-10 08:16:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A man escapes from prison?
where he has been for 15 years. He breaks into a house to look for money and guns and finds a young couple in bed. He orders the guy out of bed and ties him to a chair. While tying the girl to the bed he gets on top of her, kisses her neck, then gets up and goes into the bathroom.
While he's in there, the husband tells his wife: "listen, this guy's an escaped convict, look at his clothes! He probably spent lots of time in jail and hasn't seen a woman in years. I saw how he kissed your neck. If he wants sex, don't resist, don't complain, do whatever he tells you. Satisfy him no matter how much he nauseates you. This guy is probably very dangerous. If he gets angry, he'll kill us. Be strong, honey. I love you."
To which the wife responds, "He wasn't kissing my neck. He was whispering in my ear. He told me he was gay, thought you were cute, and asked if we had any Vaseline. I told him it was in the bathroom. Be strong honey. I love you too!!"

2006-12-10 08:16:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom,she thinks her little girl and boy is the family pride!!!!!!Ok,I have this dresser,well first of all,I have an aunt,lets say she's not all upstaires.And she was goign to take my dresser,and my mom says i WORSHIP her,like i think she's my gardian or something,because i wanted to show her my earings cuz i wanted to get them done.And i ended up not doing it,but later got them done,and she was like in a yelling voice"katelyn,you worship her!"But anyways,She was goign to take my old dresser(and did)for her little daughter katelin(yes we have the same name!)And she tore all my stickers off and they were special to me!!And i was just listening to a jewelery box that belonged to my great aunt jill,And she started yelling at me.saying i was going to break it.And i spent money on the stickers!And she said,i'm sorry but the jewelery boxes are special to me.And my sister puls my hair,and it hurts and i kinda sorta yell,not loud just a little yell,cu z it hurts,and she yells at me.

2006-12-10 08:15:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

me and a married man had faniced each other for a year had a one night thing no sex just kissing i txt him the next day his wife found the txts . i still want him and i know he still likes me what should i do please help

2006-12-10 08:14:50 · 15 answers · asked by vickivickilovevicki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-10 08:14:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and I are together for about 2 months..he tried his best to make me happy when he knew I didnt like the fact that he drinks and smokes..he tried his best to quit without even me asking him to..but I keep on starting out the fights..I fight with him over silly things..the fact that he is is moody and gets really angry over the little things makes me go nuts but we are crazy about eachother and we wont give up on eachother no matter what coz we've been through alot together and we still love eachother to death..he even is thinking of meeting my parents to propose to me and all..
so i need to make it up for him..I need to make him happy but i dunno why! and how can i stop argueing with him over the little silly stuff!!

2006-12-10 08:14:23 · 7 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 08:12:59 · 4 answers · asked by hotcarlinallday 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 08:12:49 · 7 answers · asked by judy m 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-10 08:12:23 · 29 answers · asked by genie 3 in Singles & Dating

how many of you guys out there have or are considering dating out of your race? how did your families react (assuming you told them)? are you still in a healthy relationship with that person? detailsss..thanks

2006-12-10 08:12:16 · 6 answers · asked by S. 4 in Singles & Dating

I can't believe that I'm saying this. I'm not a teenager. I would have never asked this a month ago. I've had infatuations before, of-course, but I could handle them and I've always been very practical about relationships. Moreover, I've been very, very happy single (I have no shortage of amazing men wanting a relationship with me, but I just couldn't prioritize one).

Now I'm floored. By a stranger. No, he doesn't fit my physical "ideal." In fact, for the first two or three weeks of my heart-pounding infatuation with him, I didn't even know what he looked like, because I have poor eyesight and I couldn't bring myself to look directly at him (yet I knew that no matter what he looked like, he'd be beautiful to me). Moreover, the first time I remember noticing him was when he was behind me. I heard the door open from behind and my heart leapt into my throat. I turned around and there he was.

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2006-12-10 08:11:46 · 6 answers · asked by solaralley 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a male friend, problem 1 im a 41 year old virgin and he is 34 not a virigin, hes in america at the min on hol and texts me regular, asked me out once then changed his mind i was hurt but at least we stayed friends, i miss him but he said he would go out but only if i give it to him !!!! i come from strict catholic family and was reared to stay a virgin till marriage i know things have changed now but im scared and nervous what should i do this is a guinine question so please no messers i would appreciate any advice thanks

2006-12-10 08:10:51 · 18 answers · asked by deanna 1 in Singles & Dating

I joined the dance class at our high school this semester, I thought I would be a interesting class. I'm a little suprised when I met my teacher, he is a Mr. I thought a female teacher would fit for dance classes than male. But anyway, he dances very well and we all like him. Last time I was chosen with 4 other girls to perform in a theater. He asked us to wear nude pantyhoses. The day before the performance, he said he want to check my pantyhoses. There were only two of us in the dance room, and he took off my shoes, held my foot for a long time looking around. He said that he loves my pantyhose and also said I have nice feet. Then he put my foot in front of his nose and smelled it. He also kissed my toe with my pantyhoses. I felt that was kind of wired afterward, why he was so excited about my nude pantyhoses? My friend told me his behavior is called teasing, but I'm not sure. What should I do? I need help.

2006-12-10 08:10:19 · 18 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Family