I asked another question but everyone just said im an asshole so ill start over. I'm 18 years old and i have a lot of money and already have things like houses and cars. But i have very few friends because everyone in highschool hated me. they'd say things like "oh we cant all have our own house + car" which made it really hard for me to make friends. So i just stuck with the friends i had in elementary school but now we've all split up and gone our separate ways. I do things that rich people do, but i do them by myself... like i eat out everyday but usually by myself and the girls i DO go out with either never want to go out to eat or dont want me paying for them. Im really just VERY bored as i recently moved to a new city for university and dont know what to do. I go shopping but even that gets boring after a while. Im a pretty good looking guy, i got a nice personality (i dont brag in real life!) and im fun sooo what should i do? btw i dont drink or smoke that often either!
2006-12-10 08:20:55 · 11 answers · asked by waterbottle09090 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont say how big of an asshole i sound like... just tell me what you think I should do? I donate money to the poor and cancer and other good causes already.
2006-12-10 08:22:04 · update #1
And i go to school i dont just loaft around all day... but it gets sort of hard to meet people when I live by myself
2006-12-10 08:22:31 · update #2
Ok here is a serious answer....sounds like you try to hard...dont tell people that you have money....just be yourself and try not to be so full of yourself_
2006-12-10 08:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A difficult one - for so many reasons, not least that unless your future partner is also comfortably off, you might be wondering if it is you or their moeny that is the attraction.
The school folks have big issues with jealousy - understandable with young uns.
Perhaps you could take some work - you can afford to be VERY picky - and just do soemthing you like doing in order to meet some new people. You do not have to disclose your income to people do you?
If theidea of working does not appeal, then perhaps think of some other challenge that might bring you into contact with folks - travelling the world, visiting the gym, sponsor a local racing car enthusiast to help someone have their dream come true.
Without knowing anything about you, it is hard to know what to suggest, but perhaps they give a few seed for further thoughts and ideas.
2006-12-10 16:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mark T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think one problem with being rich is that you'll never be happy. You will never know if people actually like you or only like you for your money. I'm sorry that you are having a hard time making friends but maybe the problem is that you aren't normal enough for people. Like maybe if you did normal people things and tested it out for a bit you would see what it's like and have more in common with people. Just a suggestion but good luck!
2006-12-10 16:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by AshleyH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you don't drag about all the money? Because even though people may say that money calls women, it ain't necessarily true. You should be more loose, be open, friendly, not a smug... It will all work out. The thing of the money... you don't have to say you have a car and a house of your own... it's not necessary or important to pick up friends.
2006-12-10 16:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving you the benefit of the doubt (altho if lots of people got that impression about you, they can't all be wrong, now can they), make friends by connecting with people in classes you are in, or ask someone to join you at lunch time - most people have to eat lunch, then talk about things you have common - classes, movies you liked, books, music, whatever your interests are. I have rich firends and poor friends - it is a non-issue.
2006-12-10 16:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur in college u should join some clubs, oh and don't tell people that u r rich. oh, and just so u know friends r hard for everyone to make, and there isn't anything to do in ANY town; everyone gets bored, no matter how much money u have.
2006-12-11 16:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by Chana K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lOL- you have to get involved with the social seen - join a frat, play a sport, and get a stupid job - not cause you need ti, just to meet people. dont show off your money, thats bad taste anyway. just go do what everyone else is doing, and dont tell them you dont have to. everything will match up sooner or later. or just go buy yourself a nice little sorority chick, the run about 45k a year. they aint much fun to talk to, but they bend nice.
2006-12-10 16:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by savgbst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet young man, not only as a mother do I wish only the best for my THREE daughters,
(all about your age) I also wish them to find caring, feeling, considerate, parteners & freinds.
You don't say how you became so well off. It seems to me you with that knight and shinning armour you wear, and the white horse you should gallop to our address, and I' ll let you decide which one is cinderella. email us . interest point. Tell us about you. Not how rich you are.
2006-12-10 16:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by sweetdreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont brag,dont flaunt and dont be rude to people less unfortunate than you,when a woman sees how you treat people that you dont know they register that as how you may treat them or their family.
2006-12-10 16:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by Marie A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off the library computer and go F**K yourself...
2006-12-10 16:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋