Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

I'm not looking for it now but how do you know when you really love someone besides family and friends?

2006-12-09 01:59:07 · 7 answers · asked by Cat T 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy who is two years younger than me, I am pretty sure that he has a crush on me. But, I also like this guy who is two years older than me. The first guy I see more than the second guy. What should I do?

2006-12-09 01:58:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’ve been married for 3 years, and for 3 years I’ve endured abuse from my wife, verbally, physically and financially. What was thought to be a happy union turns up otherwise.
Ever since we are married, my wife created an environment in which I must obey and never argue. If that authority is been challenged, I’ll will be physically punished.
On average 5 times a week, I will be made to kneel on my knees slapping myself for questioning her or little mistakes that she could pick up. If I dun do it, she will threaten to leave the house. At times when I felt unfair and refuse the punishment, missiles of book, cup and whatever she can get her hands on will come hurling into my face. For three years, I’ve kept my silence and pray that my patience and love for her will somehow touched her and made her understand. Today, I’ve suffered two long cut on each of my forearm when she got into fit. I finally decided to make a police report, but I did not press charges. I still love her.

2006-12-09 01:58:32 · 11 answers · asked by CLOUDY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So my girlfriend and I have been going out for around a year now, we're both seniors in High School.... We've been really running into some rocky patches lately, I really used to love this girl and she was my "first love" I suppose you could say...I just dont have as much fun with her anymore, I care about her so much but I dont know if that "love" is still there anymore....

...I love talking to other girls, I'm a really big flirt and I really enjoy it..
I still REALLY CARE about this girl, but I just dont know what to do..

..any advice would be great..

2006-12-09 01:57:26 · 12 answers · asked by Bar19one 3 in Singles & Dating

my ex-husband , we were together for 8 years ,always told me that he didn't want to have a baby;also,once he said he didn't want baby with me .I never found out why.can you help me?and he always said he loved me ,but I believe he didn't as you can see he didn't want to continue living with me.

2006-12-09 01:57:06 · 7 answers · asked by mary 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

football's on - I'm off !!

chance to ask all those irritating questions that start .......
this one's for girls only !!!

rewind. paolo nutini.

2006-12-09 01:57:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-09 01:56:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 01:54:48 · 14 answers · asked by little_roz96 1 in Family

3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting serious. She was very upset, but I insisted and I didnt see her for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but she finaly took me back.We were happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not. I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from her gym and someone from her work (at different times), she she had regular sex with both, until they both broke it off her. she was hurt by them using and dumping her as well as me rejecting her. Im jealous, but I know i hurt her too. we have discussed the details, though it is hard. this way i let her know it is ok to talk about how she was hurt,but also about how she enjoyed the sex, which she tells me she did, she has even told me new things i can try in bed with her...

2006-12-09 01:54:04 · 9 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Friends

I always thought the best way to please a woman is to go down on her. But my wife gets upset just at the mention. I do not even ask her to give, just to recieve, but she thinks its gross and demeaning.
I'm quite upset, since half my turn on is about pleasing her and it hurts that she doesnt understand.

What do i do?

2006-12-09 01:53:40 · 18 answers · asked by bgwjilick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what is different psycologically from nonpermiscous women who dont have huge amounts of guy "friends"

2006-12-09 01:50:41 · 7 answers · asked by stinkyhotdogs 3 in Singles & Dating

or is it 100% selfish attachment

do you want any part of that kind of love? How do you define what is "love" and what is not "love"?

2006-12-09 01:50:03 · 2 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

well i have been messing up alot lately and they are all mad at me (talking about me) what should i do???

2006-12-09 01:48:39 · 18 answers · asked by Bridgette 1 in Family

I think if i buy the socks that's 2 presents so that would be spoiling her.

What do you think??

2006-12-09 01:44:02 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

to make a long story short, im gettin married this january. i'm lucky that my gparents are paying a lot to let me and my to be husband have a nice wedding with reception on the water. Blah. So i asked my gpa to walk me down the aisle bc my dad was never there for me..he split whne i was 2 but lingered around from time to time..always tried to "keep intouch" but he did drugs in front of me, etc. i dont want him to walk me down the aisle bc i feel my gpa was more of my father figure and introduced me to God so to speak. Just wondering if that is mean of me. I'll always have respect for my dad cause he brought me here into the world. Just wondering what you think. Thanks!

2006-12-09 01:43:32 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i kinda like this boy but its is not really a major like and he is really really cute

2006-12-09 01:42:18 · 5 answers · asked by ceola11 1 in Singles & Dating

I've always wanted to go out with you. You look exactly like my favorite pornstar.

My best friend back in the states ask her date, on the 4th date, why he had ask her out and this was that reply. She stood up, lifted her side of the table enough to dump the contents of his plate and glass into his lap the took a taxi home.

How would your have reacted?

2006-12-09 01:42:15 · 22 answers · asked by jessica a 2 in Singles & Dating

I am too, maybe we need a hug?

2006-12-09 01:42:07 · 11 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 01:41:57 · 8 answers · asked by prakash_hamesha 1 in Singles & Dating

doing arrange marriage how to find out my arranged wife is virgin ?

2006-12-09 01:41:10 · 14 answers · asked by rahulmansuk 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 01:39:10 · 18 answers · asked by lover 1 in Marriage & Divorce

should I just call him and tell him I love him or should I tell him face to face? We have one class together and he looks at me a lot and I love him to death... and I'm the shy type... most of my friends have known him in the past and they all tell me that he's a nice guy--likes to help people, friendly, etc...

2006-12-09 01:39:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting serious. She was very upset, but I insisted and I didnt see her for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but she finaly took me back.We were happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not. I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from her gym and someone from her work (at different times), she she had regular sex with both, until they both broke it off her. she was hurt by them using and dumping her as well as me rejecting her. Im jealous, but I know i hurt her too. we have discussed the details, though it is hard. this way i let her know it is ok to talk about how she was hurt,but also about how she enjoyed the sex, which she tells me she did, she has even told me new things i can try in bed with her...

2006-12-09 01:38:04 · 23 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-09 01:37:42 · 12 answers · asked by FALYN H 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 01:35:58 · 16 answers · asked by ceola11 1 in Singles & Dating

attraction was from her , i met her the first time n we had some good time n found each other so interesting on the floors tht we ready to come out of the party n went outside ,talkign to her i took her hand n kissed her hand informing tht u r the prettist of all in the party , then again tempt her for the kiss as requesting her that she might make up my year beautiful if she gives me an kiss ,n the same happened ,i kiss her for long contant 5 minutes n there was i in heaven !!!! this new year i look forward to somekind of the same thing , girls plz advise how i shall get prepared for these year !!!

2006-12-09 01:35:48 · 3 answers · asked by rahulmansuk 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 3 years and with my husband for 14. We have two children. In the last 9 months are fights have esculated to the point where my daughter wakes up crying. Recently he sent me to the hospital with a mild concussion, he spits at me, insults and puts me down making me feel like I'm worth nothing. Why do I stay? I still love him and know that something has changed him. Please tell me why I keep myself here hurting and crying?

2006-12-09 01:32:58 · 16 answers · asked by D/V A 1 in Family

What do i have to do to be a good girlfriend???

2006-12-09 01:32:13 · 10 answers · asked by yep 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 01:31:21 · 23 answers · asked by Chrissy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm catholic and my fiancee is a christian. I have problems figuring out how to go about a ceremony. How can we have a beautiful Wedding ceremony, while respecting both our families? This is, not having either a priest or a pastor/minister, but not just signing some papers on a desk. Something symbolic, but that does not compromise either of our backgrounds. I'm looking for helpful clues, and hints and ideas.

2006-12-09 01:29:35 · 14 answers · asked by Belleza A 1 in Weddings