Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

This past week I've been feeling really annoyed by my boyfriend, I've been with him for 14 months now. I have a 15 month son from my x husband, but my son has known my boyfriend since he was 4 wks old. Me and my son live with my boyfriend. Lately everything about him is annoying me. He touches my boobs all the time and this week I just wanted to be left alone. I don't feel like having sex and thats all he keeps thinking about this week. Its really getting on my nerves. he also keeps being really down because he's about to lose his house. The thing is is that he's not doing anything to stop it, he has had no ambition for a long time now and just being lazy. He wanted me to move in to his house so bad because he needed help. I told him before I moved in that I couldn't till january, but then he said he didn't care about if I paid him or not. He is getting more insecure everyday about me leaving him. He keeps telling me I don't love him when I do, but somedays. Is there something wrong?

2006-12-09 01:28:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 01:27:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we were friends years ago were not friends now we go to the same school we dont talk to each other he stares at me does he like me

2006-12-09 01:26:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 01:26:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-09 01:25:52 · 8 answers · asked by sachink_doon 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been engaging in a "friends with benefits" relationship off and on for about 9 years now. It started out as friends who were very attracted to each other, and as time progressed the physical aspects of our relationship increased. We've never actually had a relationship with each other, although we've been in many long term relationships throughout the duration of our arrangement (although this rarely halted our hook ups). When we are together, it reaches incredible levels of natural intimacy. However immediately following this experience, he disengages completely from being a friend, aquaintence, or lover. He'll disapear for weeks on end with no word. I've become accustomed to this, although I don't really understand it. It's not that I want a relationship with him, I got over that a long time ago. I do enjoy the "friends with benefits" when its working, but I am having a hard time with the loss of the friendship in the off time. I guess my question is, what is going on?

2006-12-09 01:24:12 · 7 answers · asked by lrnscs 1 in Friends

Her best friend likes me too. I mean I like her friend but not as much as I like her, and she doesnt want me to ask her out yet because she broke up with her bf of 1.5 years just over a month ago and she says shes not ready.

So, what should I do? I like girl 'b' as a friend but i dont think id like to have her as anything more.

2006-12-09 01:23:50 · 5 answers · asked by destructive_llama@rogers.com 1 in Singles & Dating

he is my cousion bro and we have spent some time together and i felt that he also chherish the same .But is this wrong I just can't take him out of my mind.

2006-12-09 01:21:27 · 11 answers · asked by mogli 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-09 01:21:09 · 7 answers · asked by ellen s 1 in Family

as perfect as can be
I thought i'd keep it as a pet
and let it sleep with me
i made it some pajamas
and a pillow for its head
then last night it ran away
BUT 1ST IT WET THE BED !!!!!!

Do you know anyone that wets the bed???

2006-12-09 01:21:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont know what i have this feeling right now,i admit im still inluv my husband eventhough he gave me a lot of pain and heartache.sometimes i cant help it to cry especially when when im looking a happy family.My husband betrayed me and cheted me alot of times and now he is living with somebody.he wants to come back with me again but i didnt accept him because everytime im thinking of all the pain he gave to me i feels like he crashing my heart.The LAST TIME i talked to him i said dont call me anymore and dont bother my life and my kids anymore and i told him that i will not push him anymore for the childsupport for our kids,because his not really responsible father for my kids and he also have kids with the other girl,not this new girl.but the mother of his two kids in states they are separated now and have a new one in his life now.i didint know all about this until his mother told me that.i was so stupid i admit it just that i trusted him so much.how can i move on with this?

2006-12-09 01:20:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey my lil sis is bugging me about what to do at the mall today. wat are some good dares but not to bad just funny they are 13!!!

2006-12-09 01:18:16 · 7 answers · asked by la-la 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl , she is one year younger than me , but we are deskmates , we seat next to each other. I like her , and I don`t know if she likes me. For example : I "resqued her" to not get violated by a pedophil , and "resqued" her to not get bitten by dogs , I have 8 of 10 points at behavior for her , I took a B at some tests and she got a -A because i helped her alot, and I helped her to not get violated by some other pervert deskmates. But I think she doesn't like me.... What do you think ?

2006-12-09 01:17:02 · 2 answers · asked by the_underdog_show 1 in Friends

and now he seem to flirt with me more, and we talked to each other like...there is something going on between us....well, is there?

2006-12-09 01:14:50 · 7 answers · asked by eva d 1 in Singles & Dating

You see, this friend of mine easily tires with a person

And when he's had it, he goes to another group

He wanted to be my bestfriend, I agreed

but why is he doing this to me?

He told me "You shouldn't be too attached to me" But isn't that what friends do? they spend more time together, but he's different.

He told me I was possessive cause he left me and I started to get mad

I dunno why I did

But it felt like the world is crushing me when he did that

Okay, I admit that my approach was kinda possessive but all I want is him to be by my side...

I just needed a friend that time...

I said I was sorry, I even thank him for telling me that

He accepted my apology and smiled

But for me, I still feel something pinching my chest...I'm still depressed...

What should I do? I wanted our friendship to last even if he's like that...In fact, I'm starting to fall for him...

2006-12-09 01:13:48 · 2 answers · asked by acerbus18 1 in Friends

My mother in law is totally dependent on her children. My husband is the middle child out of 3. His older sister is 51, and younger sister is 35. My mother in law lives in a small house on the "hood" side of town. She is also a chain smoker. She has chained smoked for 40 something years. Her home is nasty, because of the chain smoke of over 40 years and also her dog pees everywhere in the house - was never trained to pee outside. No one likes to stay at her house, it's not sanitary at all.
My mother in law can no longer see. She is beyond legally blind. She takes 50 diff medications, has one of those oxygen machines, and now, developed severe cataracts and is almost blind.
She has to have someone stay with her at her house during the night because she is scared at night to stay by herself. We can't do this. So my question is: Should we put her in a nursing home or continue to be inconveinenced? And believe me, she doesn't care if we are inconveinenced anyways.

2006-12-09 01:12:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well i like, like a guy but i want him to like me to so i could ask him out or some thing plz help me!

2006-12-09 01:12:13 · 12 answers · asked by Diva 1 in Singles & Dating

My lover and i have had sex where when she climaxes she will soak the bed. It doesnt happen everytime and when it does she gets embarrassed. I love it but was wondering how to get her to do it more often and w/o her being ashamed of it.

2006-12-09 01:11:52 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife has a shopping addiction. She constantly binges with money we need for bills. I gave her 500 dollars a month to try and satiate her need to shop, but she always ends up becoming angry and verbally abusive towards me once that money ran out. Yesterday she had drained all 4800 dollars from our savings account and went on a shopping binge. I came home took the stuff and returned it. I knew she would be upset, but I was not prepared for what she said. She said you're just like "Joe"(not his real name). Joe is a man she dated who was physically abusive to her and later tried to rape her after they broke up. I've cried many tears for the pain that man caused her and to be told in her eyes I am the same as him was unforgiveable. I moved out yesterday and am seriously considering divorce. I just can't live with being compared to a woman abuser when I have treated her like a queen. Should I go back? And if so how do I forgive her for something that cut me so deep?

2006-12-09 01:10:36 · 18 answers · asked by BossHogg R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was flying my microlight when Rudolph pulled out of nowhere and i clipped prancers heels Santa fell out of the sleigh and i ran over him on the way past.
He wasn't badly hurt but the Doctor said he can't resume work until December the 26th..

Should i tell the world or as im a fat bloke who owns a
red suit stand in for him and deliver the prezzies??

2006-12-09 01:10:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

...that i have beautiful eyes- why did he do that,what does it mean?

2006-12-09 01:10:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 01:08:20 · 4 answers · asked by ish 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 01:07:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is it what you wear?
Is it what someone says about you or the way they look at you?
Is it what you see in the mirror?
Is it what you know what is in your head and intellectually, you are sexy?
Is it your hormones?
When was the last time you really felt sexy?

2006-12-09 01:06:55 · 16 answers · asked by I'm Loving Life 3 in Singles & Dating

I have the truck ready, my friends and family ready to help, my mom's house to go to. I have everything set up to leave with my kids and I am having so many mixed feelings. I have been wiht husband for 13 years, i'm 34 and he's 33. Two small children together. He is very abusive to me verbally and mentally( has choked me 3 times over 4 years ago). He has no regard or respect for me and gives me the silent treatment for weeks and just sleeps in the room with me when he wants sex or something, or when he's not mad. It's just bad for everyone involved so why am I so skeptical? I am excited yet afraid of my new life to come. I fel he will have it easier than me and find someone else and treat her better and start a new family. Counseling doesn't seem to be working fo rus. I just don't think he'll change for me but will change for someone else. How do I take the step out the door tomorrow and not look back? My family is skeptical cause I came back last year after leaving. please help

2006-12-09 01:06:24 · 34 answers · asked by Veronique 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-09 01:03:55 · 11 answers · asked by tina b 1 in Singles & Dating

Run, run, as fast as you can, you cant catch me i'm the gingerbread man!
What would you do if you caught the gingerbread man?

2006-12-09 01:03:25 · 18 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

I came to a new skool n everyone was cool (long stroy short) This boi name will he ask me out I like him alot but I dont know if I should got ouy wit him cuz he is maddddd sexy n he got braces on he goin to be even more sexy ( nice personaliyte)But I dont want to go out wit a boi who evry is feelin cuz if we ever break up Imma just be another girl on his list n I dont like dat at all n he tells me that he would not ever hurt me but how am I suppsoed to believe that ...every time I have a new question me answer becomes a new question I just dont know wat to do n every time think bout it ahh I just dont know wat to do n wen I say no He wants to know I could neva explain why.(its like explaing colors to a blind person)
-Kia_VaVy

2006-12-09 01:03:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it started from a silly crush...and now, it's escalated into a full like! i don't even know anything else about him (especially if he's single or not)! i like him because of the way he comes across as. and he's really helpful when i ask him about topics i don't understand. and i like his smile. hehe!

he's my tutor in one of my modules but he's not a full time staff (he's doing his PhD in the same university as i do (he's not old..he's about 26-28), but i'm an undergraduate(i''m 20)). i know it's against university rules for a staff and a student to get together...but i'm liking him. and i haven't met any other guys that i like ever since i came to uni this september.

should i just forget about it?

2006-12-09 01:02:39 · 9 answers · asked by lulu 1 in Singles & Dating

for a 17yearold dateign a 26yearold women

2006-12-09 01:02:08 · 9 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating