Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

2006-12-09 02:42:59 · 9 answers · asked by Teddybear 1 in Singles & Dating

I moved 1200 miles 4 yrs ago to be with my boyfriend. We went through tough times, he lost his job and ended up moving back home with his parents. I continued to stay here, but I lost my job a couple of months ago, and he and I have continued to see each other. I have been seeking work, unfortunately the area I am in there's not a lot of jobs availiable, and I am deep in debt. I just started drawing unemployment and my family has helped me out greatly, but it's not thier job to bail me out, and I want to get back on my feet. My parents feel I should sell what belongings I have and come home. My boyfriend feels that I should weather this bad luck out and if I go home, it would mean not only the end of our relationship, but he feels that if I truly loved him I would stay. I do love him very much, and my family dislikes the guy. He refuses to move out of state with me. My heart is torn, as I don't want to leave but I am faced with little choice. How should I handle it and tell him?

2006-12-09 02:41:58 · 33 answers · asked by kimber 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i posted a card but could not afford a present, can on monday though, she want me to go round her house tonight...what do i say about the gift?

2006-12-09 02:40:52 · 20 answers · asked by Just Me.... 3 in Friends

i work in an office, and have done for 2 years. there are only four of us (including myself). when we went out for our christmas meal the other night me and my boss were talking and one thing led to another. he asked me out on a proper date just the two of us for tomorow. i am really like him but dont want this to cause problem with my job if for some reason t does not all go to plan. should i go with him or just fob him of with excuses.

2006-12-09 02:40:33 · 20 answers · asked by jane w 1 in Singles & Dating

Some men who are in perfectly happy, so they say, relationships spend hours looking at porn on the Internet. Is it just a man thing or do these men actually wish they were living a life with one of those females who don't mind if the whole world sees their ASSets. Answers from men would be appreciated or women who have solved this problem in their own lives.

2006-12-09 02:38:26 · 21 answers · asked by A B 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

there goes one there goes another
so possesed by her looks who cares to turn to another.
its her time now till she is abused
well did he use her or he himself got used !
she raised her dress and let loose her hair
pretended not to know the fact, her panties she didnt wear!
she fanced her little pet got it being asmuch more popular
late arrival at occasions could she get a little regular
oh her sex scandal one such she really hates
literally stole the copy once wasnt that a disgrace!
she is a pop star a real star,i doubt tho, she is paris hilton
she is hot she is sexy ,wait is she a good match for justin ?

2006-12-09 02:37:18 · 17 answers · asked by jane24 2 in Singles & Dating

If a girl is interested in a guy and he does not show that he is interested in her or sends her mixed signals would she then try to make him jeolous by flirting with his bestfriend in front of him?

2006-12-09 02:37:12 · 19 answers · asked by jigga 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 02:36:42 · 3 answers · asked by nice_ahmed01 1 in Weddings

what is different psycologically from nonpermiscous women who dont have huge amounts of guy "friends

2006-12-09 02:34:29 · 13 answers · asked by stinkyhotdogs 3 in Singles & Dating

i feel like the world is like a circle.........................

at every point i start even when im progressing i come back to where i started .........................................

whats gonna happen after i turn this computer off and go to sleep and next day look at yahoo answers.....................

its gonna be the same as it is.................... even if they change it............

2006-12-09 02:34:28 · 3 answers · asked by COlder THaN AlaSka 3 in Singles & Dating

He barely gets online to talk to me..idk if hes Busy or what and like it's only been a couple of days,so should I tell him how I feel of Just see if it gets better?

Please Help Me...Nisha

2006-12-09 02:34:15 · 17 answers · asked by ☺☻♥SP Rebel☺☻♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

is it wrong for my wife who is Bi-sexual to bring other women home after she has been out and not let me watch or join them

2006-12-09 02:32:34 · 25 answers · asked by seamanspraying 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When a man cheats what is the reason for this especially if he is gettig everything at home? How can a person cheat if they supposedly love, care for and respect the other person. Wouldnt a person not want to jeopardize what they have if they really care. I have got different answers like a man is going to be a man and others say that the man does not love you if he cheats. I never got this. What it says about the woman that wants to make it work after she has been betrayed by the person that she loves. Should she stay and fight or should she give up and walk away. Also when a man cheats can he feel guilt and remorse for betraying what he had and hurting the other person that he rather let the other person go without a fight or is this just him being selfish. Or is this him letting go so he can be with the other woman. When a man says is a mistake and that it was not worth it, is he just saying that because he got caught or does he really mean it?

2006-12-09 02:32:34 · 22 answers · asked by soto 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-09 02:31:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

His name is Robert Drummond and he lives in Australia,Victoria,Melbourne, and i think Doventon...
I dont want an address, i just want to know if hes doing ok in life.
i want him to meet his grand-child for the first time but the last i heard, he was a violent, drunken , alcholic...

2006-12-09 02:31:13 · 1 answers · asked by lilly_bud 1 in Friends

On of my wife's friends caught her husband cheating on her and we are helping her track down who it was. Problem is he's in Europe and we need to figure out if it's possible to track down cell phone records. It's possible in the U.S., but not sure about Europe. Any help would be appreciated.

2006-12-09 02:30:49 · 3 answers · asked by mwstockman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I went to a mediaeval themed Xmas party. Although optional, in keeping with the event I went barefoot and knickerless (the latter being for my personal pleasure, not anyone else's). At one point I was put in the stocks. When helping me out, and after having to kiss my feet as part of his "punishment," the office junior saw up my dress. He apologised, but still had too-long-a look. Nothing else was said. The bloke is 22, looks very young for his age, has a girlfriend and he won't actually be back at work until after Xmas. As he's my junior how do I regain the upper hand? Do I just not mention it? Take him to one side, or will that only make things worse? Help!

2006-12-09 02:29:42 · 34 answers · asked by kitten_brunette_gemini 1 in Friends

I accidentally came across a note my wife was writing to herself about me. In that note she mentions 'I am confused. I don't want to stay and also I can't leave my kids (2 kids ages 5 and 2). Am I being unfair not to give this marriage a second chance. But he hurt me so much, I tried to make him appreciate me, but he did not. I am not sure if he loves me any more, he does not respect me and does not love me, no he loved me before but not now. And me, I love him for the kids but are not romantically in love with him. That love died....Is it wrong that i have found love elsewhere?"
I have just seen this note 2 hours ago and I just don't know what to do? Can you please advise
NB: We are currently travelling, are in a hotel and I just feel like screaming but I want to keep my mind straight. Please only serious answers. Email me also if your response is too long.
Thanks friends.

2006-12-09 02:29:07 · 16 answers · asked by jamesbond 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-09 02:28:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i m madly in love with my classmate.

2006-12-09 02:28:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you broke up w/ her would you want to see her "for coffee"?

2006-12-09 02:27:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Two days before thanksgiving I called this man that I was intrested in and we started seeing each other, I felt that we connected in a very special way and he even commented on how rare it is for two people to connect to each other in the way that we did. I had just ended a 11 year relationship with a man whom for the past 8 years was more of a friend and roomate than lover. If we had sex once a year I considered myself lucky. He would never explain to me why he did not want sex. I was very happy and felt whole once again in my life. My former live in found out about it and verbally attacked each of us, myself and the new man I connected with. The former and the new man knew each other. I question how well since the new man knew my former live in by his nickname but did not know his real name until just last Saturday. I am really upset with the situation and the new man no longer wants to see me. I miss him a bunch. I thought for sure he was the one for me. What can I do to get us back

2006-12-09 02:27:32 · 3 answers · asked by barbara o 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-09 02:26:11 · 15 answers · asked by Life is Like A Box of Chocolate 1 in Singles & Dating

To be avoided, or harmless?

2006-12-09 02:26:09 · 9 answers · asked by Sir Digby Chicken Bhuna 3 in Singles & Dating

Stay away from strangers is the mantra today. Sex offenders are everywhere, We teach children not to talk to strangers. Each time I see little ones screming in protest to get on Santa's lap, There is a mother forcing the child to do so. Are we sending a mixed message to children and should Santas in the mall, the grocery store and on corners be banned? Even before there werre so many exploited children, I always thought this was a crazy thing for parents to do. Again, only in America.

2006-12-09 02:25:34 · 6 answers · asked by shoes_717 4 in Family

okay theres this girl i known for about 5 years O.O

i didn't go to her birthday for exam reasons and the hassle of travelling to london and back in one night seemed a little too crazy for me.

i've known her when i was 15 and she was 14.
so therefore i must be a year older than her.
when i met back up with her again this summer she somehow managed to make me believe she was actually the same age as me, just 2 months younger ~ funny thing was she had a fake ID to get into bars? and i didn't even know she was lying!

so yeah then her birthday party was last friday ~ i thought it was her 19th (bcoz i just turned 19) but it was actually her 18th! so i was thinking it's not important...

then now she isn't speaking to me...and i don't want to lose a friendship over something so stupid?

she's a nice girl and thought of me as important as soon as she started spending time with me
her cousin was saying how it really upset her
i've said sorry last week and she's not spoken since

2006-12-09 02:25:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i had a great night with him my new partner, we made love i havent had it for seven years and it was great, he said to me why me, i did not know knwo whta to say to this. i do worry though because i have had abusive relationships in the past, worry hes going to change. I want to be rreated as an equal and he to really love and respect me. i want to protect myself.

2006-12-09 02:24:56 · 14 answers · asked by denise g 2 in Singles & Dating

I have come to realise that women worldwide hardly believe you when you try to be very sincere and nice to them. In most cases they go for those who traated them badly and tell them "perfect lies". I have tried twice and twice i have failed to be very straight with my women and at all times they dump me for those who they later realise fooled them.

2006-12-09 02:24:30 · 3 answers · asked by MAFOKOCHIZHI 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this amazing guy almost 2 months ago. We've been practically with each other every day since we met. I've fallen madly in love with him even though it is such a short period of time and I tried my hardest not to. He was the first one to tell me he loved me which scared the hell out of me. The downfall is that his job travels. He is supposed to leave at the beginning of the year and he has asked me to go with him. I love to travel but I just moved to this new town 5 months ago and made close friends. I even thought about starting college next fall and getting a place of my own. The question is should I go with him or stay do what I have planned?

We haven't had a cross word with each other (yet) and on his part he says thats great because I'm guessing he usually does in his past relationships. HELP. Time is running out.

2006-12-09 02:23:45 · 19 answers · asked by elizabeth 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 02:23:16 · 9 answers · asked by bella 1 in Friends