He barely gets online to talk to me..idk if hes Busy or what and like it's only been a couple of days,so should I tell him how I feel of Just see if it gets better?
Please Help Me...Nisha
2006-12-09 02:34:15 · 17 answers · asked by ☺☻♥SP Rebel☺☻♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should tell him how u feel. settle it. don't wait until something horrible happens or else it will ruin ur happy relationship. as doctors say, "avoiding is better than curing".
2006-12-09 02:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Hamdi93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nisha! Listen to yourself...Are you saying that you are WAITING for him to get online and talk to you? If he's military and stationed oversea (better be IRAQ/BAGDAD/KOREA) and your on different time zones, I might be understanding. Otherwise, find you someone that can meet your emotional need to communicate. You are so wasting your precious time with this guy. If he cannot, will not explain the lack of communication. MOVE ON!!
Life is too short to spend it waiting on someone who's got issues. LIVE - LAUGH - LOVE. Good Luck
2006-12-09 10:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by Stfani T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship takes two maybe his busy whats wrong with your hands? I feel if you have to tell him how you feel than go for it why keep it inside but what if your wrong and he was really busy doing something and you loose him again so if it was me I would wait and see what happens after all it was just a couple of days give him time to get use of being in a relationship with you again.
2006-12-09 10:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Miss C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you are not together in a relationship if the only thing you do is e-mail back and forth. Get someone who has the same ideas and values in a relationship as you do. How can you consider someone who sends you e-mails your boyfriend. If the two of you do not spend any quality time together. Is this the new cyber boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. There are plenty of single men in the world. Go find one, and stop wasting your time. God bless****
2006-12-09 10:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! Nisha... give him sometime.... was there bitterness when you parted ways earlier?? maybe he is just taking time to getting used to it and be back to the original self. dont say anything yet... just wait and watch... you might try calling sometimes yourself, but if you find him uneasy, then just give him some space... take it slow - one step at a time... it should be fine...
2006-12-09 10:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by HavingFun!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you? The main problem in this situation is that you have too much time on your hands. This sounds like an online relationship which is even worse because you will not leave the house to meet any men. Why... either you are too young or too ugly which explains why he is not not talking to you. lol!
2006-12-09 10:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by S H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the Biggest Mistakes is to "Repeat the Same Mistake!"
This guy, for any reason, did not worked at FIRST place!
Why did you tried AGAIN!
Just leave him, and go and find a nice guy who be a 'new experience' for you; be caution to not repeat the same mistake with this new guy and hopefully he would be the man of your dream.
It is my philosophy that if, for any reason, I broke with a girl; I would never go back to her again; it would never be the same!
IT IS just like a broken glass that will remain dangerous!
2006-12-09 10:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by Iranian Amigo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally believe in talking about problems and working them out. I think you should talk to him, because if not it is likely to become more of a problem. Find out how he feels because I personally believe in making time for a person you care about.
2006-12-09 10:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jason N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont smother him, that is probably why you broke up in the first place. You are dating, going out, not married. make a date for the weekend with him, and then go about your business as usuall.
2006-12-09 10:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush, remember that bad habits are not easily effaced, they linger for a long time and many times for a lifetime. Be patient, time will show.
2006-12-09 10:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by markos m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋