When a man cheats what is the reason for this especially if he is gettig everything at home? How can a person cheat if they supposedly love, care for and respect the other person. Wouldnt a person not want to jeopardize what they have if they really care. I have got different answers like a man is going to be a man and others say that the man does not love you if he cheats. I never got this. What it says about the woman that wants to make it work after she has been betrayed by the person that she loves. Should she stay and fight or should she give up and walk away. Also when a man cheats can he feel guilt and remorse for betraying what he had and hurting the other person that he rather let the other person go without a fight or is this just him being selfish. Or is this him letting go so he can be with the other woman. When a man says is a mistake and that it was not worth it, is he just saying that because he got caught or does he really mean it?
2006-12-09 02:32:34 · 22 answers · asked by soto 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1. men cheat for many reasons, so do women. 2. If you catch him at it then you need to leave, once a cheat, always a cheat. 3. It's not a matter of getting this or that at home, it's a matter of he is a horny little dude and he will always want more sex. and 4. If he says he sorry and stuff, it's because he got caught, not because he means it. hope this helps you out a little
2006-12-09 02:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by phe_03 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are different than women, they are much more visual than women. Also, they can love a woman very much, and still have sex with another. This is just the way they are made. For a woman, love usually means they will make love to a man. But for a man, sex is nothing but a way to be satisfied, it does not mean love. Often a man will say it meant nothing, and that is the truth to him, though not to the woman, because such an act would mean something to her. As for it is because he is not getting something at home, well, that can be true, if you don't give oral, he may just be out there looking for that. But it remains the same, he says he loves you, then he probably does, and the act meant nothing, but the satisfaction he gets from it.
2006-12-09 02:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to my husband a man cheats because of several reasons:
1. The thrill of doing something wrong.
2. Not happy at home.
3. Flattered that someone (besides his wife/partner) finds him sexy.
4. Wants to try something new.
5. Horn dog
A woman cheats because
1. Not happy.
2. Flattered that someone (besides her husband/parnter) finds her sexy.
3. Is a slut.
Now then, some people do find that they are remorseful and guilt ridden after the affair, but others like it. It all depends on the person.
no matter what, cheating is wrong.
2006-12-09 02:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by KJ97Y100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've asked and heard this question over and over again. Honestly most men cheat because they can. Of course in some cases it can go deeper than that. But over all its because an opportunity presents its self and with out really thinking about any consequences, they just do it.
About what a woman should do....that's a personal decision. Because its easy to say when you on the outside..you should leave him. But only the woman in the relationship knows if she can bear with the thoughts which can become and feel like a burden in their relationship. Also going through the process of forgiving him and coming to the realization its not your fault. Its really complicated but with easy solutions that take commitment on both parties part.
2006-12-09 02:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by EbonyB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man is never satisfied. They just want everything they see. My brother told me that it is all about the hunt and how many women they can get. I know that some men feel sorry for what they have done, but the others don't because that was their plan all along. Some times people can make mistakes but if he keeps making those mistakes then no he just wants something to say so that he can have it all. I know it's easier for me to tell you something then for you to do it but if he is a repeated cheater then LEAVE HIM!!!! because if he really loved you he wouldn't want to continuously hurt you by cheating with other women when you are giving him your all.
2006-12-09 02:41:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
irst of all your husband does not love and respect you if he cheats. I cheated and I did not love and respect my wife, how could i if I did that too her. I didn't have the courage to end my relationship with my wife before I started a new one. It wasn't fair for me to do that to my wife and its not fair for for your husband to do that to you. I was being selfish and so is your husband you either want to be in a committed relationship or you don't. I have come to understand that if you truly love someone even though you may be attracted to someone else you would not jeopardize that love. My wife wanted to work things out as well and I don't understand it either, I am still very unhappy even after going to therapy but its my choice to stay and keep trying maybe i am still being selfish by not letting her move on but one thing I do know is that as long as I choose to stay I will never cheat again. Contrary to popular believe once a cheater not always a cheater even if you are still unhappy.
2006-12-09 03:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by scout1567 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While there are varied reasons for infidelity the most common reason men cheat is insecurity. Winning over a new conquest makes them feel powerful, successful.. men all too often feel deep down that they are not good enough or strong enough.. these are feelings men themselves don't quite understand or even acknowledge.. all they know is that they feel better when they prove to themselves that they "still have what it takes" Men are weak.. real good men overcome this weakness and choose marriage with monogamy.
2016-05-22 22:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real reason people cheat is because they think the new person is going to bring them happiness. It is exciting for a while to cheat, but they find that they are NOT happy with the one they cheat with either. They are honestly only seeking happiness, and trying to find it in someone.....it's never there! Once they get found out, they lie or whatever, not because they're sorry they cheated, but because they got caught. Once a cheater, always a cheater....enough said!!
2006-12-09 02:43:07 · answer #8 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual variety is the reason. You fail to understand how important this is. For millions of years it has served the purpose of insuring men and women will propagate the species. Nature doesn't give a hang about right or wrong, only that life survives. Love, although noble and sounds good, has nothing to do with it.
Having said all that, if someone has hurt you and you can't reconcile it to yourself leave him. I think women spend too much energy trying to put the toothpaste back in the tube, so to speak.
2006-12-09 02:53:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men are selfish not thinking about the feelings of the person they are hurting. they only see at the time the other woman they are lusting after and are not concerned about you at all or they would stop at that moment.when he cheats its because he wants to. he is restless and he is bored.he wants to get out there and do his own thing and he doesnt really want to be tied down to one woman .men like that are really dissatisfied within their own life and heart and cant seem to fill that empty spot so they go about trying to find something to cure that area of their heart and it just seems to go on till they make complete fools out of their lives. let him go because you are better than that and you deserve a better man that has it all together.he is a walking disease waiting to happen.let go and dont look back.
2006-12-09 02:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by jbearbooboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋