Should I go or stay??

Question

I met this amazing guy almost 2 months ago. We've been practically with each other every day since we met. I've fallen madly in love with him even though it is such a short period of time and I tried my hardest not to. He was the first one to tell me he loved me which scared the hell out of me. The downfall is that his job travels. He is supposed to leave at the beginning of the year and he has asked me to go with him. I love to travel but I just moved to this new town 5 months ago and made close friends. I even thought about starting college next fall and getting a place of my own. The question is should I go with him or stay do what I have planned?

We haven't had a cross word with each other (yet) and on his part he says thats great because I'm guessing he usually does in his past relationships. HELP. Time is running out.

Answer 1

If you have doubts at this point, you will only regret it later. You will always be wondering what if I had stayed and followed my dream. You will be unhappy and that will make him unhappy. It has to be a common dream to make it worth your investment in life. Either change your dream and go make him the happiest man on earth, or get out. There can be no what ifs. Good luck.

Answer 2

If you go... and have cross words with him, what happens??? You don't know. Will he send you home, can you get home on your own, or will he dump you the the nearest river??? Don't know, do you??? Trust me, you don't know this man well enough in 2 months to give up your your hopes and dreams to follow around the world. Continue with your own dreams, maybe go visit on occassion when time allows. If the relationship is really all that you say it is (and for him too), you will be just more thrilled to see him and him see you on visits. You need to see a man on all levels before deciding to drop everything and follow him. What if he gets tired of taking care of you, because you have a hard time finding a job... Lots of unanswered question. True love don't mind waiting.

Good Luck

Answer 3

Life is an adventure. You might as well make it interesting. I'd say go...but keep in touch with friends, and be VERY SURE to have a backup supply of funds so that you are not trapped in a new place with him if things go sour. Make sure that you can support yourself.

If you don't dig the place, or him any logner, or whatever- you can always leave and go back.

Not to mention, I am sure they have school there too...but if he travels often- and you need to get in school....That should be a priority as well...


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AT THE SAME TIME THOUGH...

CLOSE FRIENDS ARE A VAULABLE THING. Cherish them too. He may be more replacable then they are.

Answer 4

if his job is always moving from place to place then you won't be able to go to college unless you change ur college evrytime you move(hard). if u get a place youll be there until u move again (sell it and go buy another place the next place you move) and if he still has that job in the future when you have kids just imagine there lives so i'd say no unless you dont want to think about your future, which if you dont do anything with YOUR life you might regret it in the future if things for some reason dont work out

Answer 5

I say STAY! Because you just met him. Honestly how healthy and long lasting of a relationship can you have if he is constantly moving around. I just thinks it will get difficult once he becomes pre-occupied in his work. And what will you be doing when he's up for work in one city one week and on the go to another city the following week.
I suggest try long distance for a while....and as the old saying says. "If its meant to be it will be."
But don't up root all your hard work just for someone you meet 2 months ago.

Answer 6

2 months is not enough time for you to make a choice like that. you might only see the beginning of him. what about if you get to know him for awhile and see the whole side of him.this could be a risky thing.i would really consider staying where you are and go to school and just keep in contact with him. will he be coming back. will you enjoy being on the road all the time? will it last after a while like this?you really need to think hard and weigh the pros and cons of this. ask yourself what will it be like for me to be on the road and what will it be to our relationship .

Answer 7

You should do what you had planned. College is a big step--what if this doesn't work out with guy? Then you have to start again. Go with your original plans--if it is meant to be with him--it will be--if not--you haven't lost anything. If he truly cares about you--he will understand that you have to do things for yourself and not put your life on hold for love.

Answer 8

You can't just leave your interests as a person asked you to do so!

SO, my answer in "NO"!

However, if he loves you; he MUST buy a Diamond Ring for you and ask you that would marry you if everything goes right;
Then AFTER you had that ring you can go;
BECAUSE these days serious guys could not be found easy!

Answer 9

Relationships play an important factor in everyones life.Make a list of the reasons behind the two choices and balance it out.Whats more important to you?Would it inhance your life?Will you be happy?etc.All these things are only for you to decide...
Goodluck

Answer 10

Dear girl, I understand u're madly in love, but think about u're future.
Why should u make risks, he's the man. Or if it's a short trip why not.